Did the recent Full Moon in Libra stir up some energy in your relationships? No matter where you are on your romantic journey, the Universe wants you to take a moment to acknowledge your hard work and how far you’ve come.

Galena the Mystic is here today with a pick your own card love reading to shed light on the current energies in your relationships, so you can keep improving your circumstances and enjoy greater fulfillment.

P.S. Which card did you choose and what did it have to say about your love life? Leave a comment below and let Galena know!

TRANSCRIPT:

Hi, beautiful people here at Cosmic Updates. It’s your intuitive tarot reader Galena the Mystic again. And I’m back with another weekend love reading for the weekend of April 7 through April 9.

So I actually have an intuitive message I wanted to share with the collective before we dive into the piles. And I’m hearing “Thank you,” and specifically this, “Thank you.” It feels like it’s really for those of you who are going through difficult emotions, who are going through heartbreak, and wading through some really heavy confusing energies in your love lives right now. And so I feel like this “Thank you”…. It’s, it’s gratitude, because you’re taking on the challenge, showing up here, and actually growing through these difficult love situations that you’ve been given. And you’re actually learning the lessons, and you’re actually diving into it. And so some of you could have been more avoidant of dealing with these emotions in the past. But for some reason, it feels like there’s community in which we’re actually being encouraged to dive into these feelings. And so Spirit’s saying, “Thank you for taking the dive, thank you for growing through the darkness,” is what I’m hearing. And “Thank you for choosing to heal your heart and still have hope for love and still have faith for better relationships in your future, and a better relationship to yourself. Thank you so much for working on that.”

And at the time of me posting this, there was recently a Full Moon in Libra. So this might have illuminated some of our relationship issues and our relationship dynamics and illuminated ways that we could maybe be harmonizing a little bit better with others. So thank you for working through that. Maybe that’s why there’s this energy of sensitivity that I’m picking up on. And this energy of rawness, like rawness in your heart.

It could be that the new moon in Aries around March 20… kind of spearheaded this healing journey for you and gave you some of the motivation to tackle it. And we’re actually going to have another new moon in Aries on April 19. And so I just wanted to give you all a heads up about that.

And I feel called to tell you that this is like a second wind. So if you’re really going through it and feel like you’re treading water at this time, keep your head up, keep going. Your spiritual team, whoever you believe that to be, they have so much gratitude for the effort you’re putting in. And there is a second surge of energy that we can all collectively tap into as we mature with the Saturn in Pisces, as we mature in our romantic and spiritual lives. So with that being said, let’s get into your pile selection.

Alright, lovelies, I have three groups for you. Starting with pile number one with celestite. Then, we have pile number two with labradorite. And then we have pile number three with titanium quartz.

So go ahead and use your intuition to choose which pile is for you. If you are struggling a little bit to choose a pile or if you just want to check out all three readings, I recommend doing so. Feel free to listen to all of the messages and claim the ones that feel affirming, true, and helpful to you.

First Group – Celestite

All right, pile number one. Welcome to your reading. And thank you so much for being here, you chose this celestite, which is a stone that represents our angels or deities and higher vibrational energies that we tap into.

So you can be feeling like your vibration is rising and you’re connecting more with your highest self. You can also feel like you’re connecting more to angels in general. Angel energies, as well as higher vibrational beings of the cosmos, as well, something I’m hearing. So if you believe in star family and those sorts of things that could be coming through to give you love advice for this weekend.

So let’s go ahead and see your overarching energy. We have the Two of Wands, okay, so you could be at a crossroads in some way, when it comes to this connection, you could be feeling like you’re really ready to leave the past behind you.

And also with this globe that he’s holding, feeling like you finally have foresight to see the bigger picture. So you could be walking away from, I’m hearing, small-minded beliefs. So maybe you feel things that you used to believe are quite small-minded, and you’re looking at yourself with a new sense of maturity. Or you’re also unlearning small-minded beliefs that maybe you’ve picked up in other places, maybe you’ve heard before, things that you’re finally outgrowing.

So there’s a chance for you to go in a new direction here. This could be creative, as wands are the elements of fire and they represent our creativity. So you could be switching directions in your career, or with some sort of passion. Maybe you’re finding a new passion and embarking on that. But I see that you’re at kind of a pivotal point in your journey where you finally feel like you’re turning a new leaf in some way.

Let’s go ahead and get a couple more cards specifically for your love life this weekend this pile one needs to know. Okay, we have the Eight of Swords. Let’s get a couple more… Have the Seven of Pentacles reversed. So I’m seeing here, with this Eight of Swords and the Seven of Pentacles reversed here, maybe not seeing a return on some of the investments you made, and possibly you feel kind of blind as to where you’re headed.

Limiting beliefs at this time can be really detrimental to you. And I’m almost seeing you here at this crossroads. I feel like your world is just getting a lot bigger in a lot of different ways. And a lot of the ways in which your world is expanding, you’re not even able to see them yet. And that’s because you’re in this sort of waiting energy. You’re meant to be very, very patient right now, patient with yourself, patient with others, and patient with the process of whatever it is that’s unfolding in your life right now.

It does feel really, really exciting and really divinely led. But it also feels scary. I feel a lot of fear with this group for some reason. So I definitely want to pull some more cards for you.

With this Seven of Pentacles reversed, though, I feel like this shift is something you might be intuitively picking up on. But it’s not something that you’re physically seeing yet. And that is kind of giving you anxiety.

For those of you who are psychic or tend to just get an interesting inkling in your bones or in your energy field, when you feel like something big is about to occur, and something big that I see is just your world becoming a lot larger, and you having new experiences. Again, is something that I’m hearing.

Let’s go ahead and see what else is going on. What does pile one need to know? Okay, we have the Ten of Cups. Okay, so I am, I feel really good about this. This is amazing. And then we have the Six of Swords on top of the deck. So yeah, I feel like with this, this combo here…

Six of Swords is all about moving forward with clarity, moving to more calm waters. And here we have you literally embarking on the Ten of Cups. You know, I pulled cards because I wanted to know what this big shift is that you’re experiencing. And it is this Ten of Cups. And I think that’s quite scary for you.

It feels like a lot of energy. I’m almost getting this buzzy, like, nervous excitement, I don’t want to say “afraid to get your hopes up,” because that’s not quite the energy I’m picking up on. I’m more so picking up on an energy of, like, anxiety of “I know that I’m about to take a leap of faith. I know I’m about to step into something.”

For some, for some reason, I’m getting this message, that you’re, like, really finally committing to someone, like, in your heart space. Maybe you’ve been in relationships, but this time, you’re actually all-in emotionally. There’s so much emotional fulfillment here, and you’re ready to take that step.

But I’m getting this image of someone stepping off a ledge and literally, like, bungee jumping or skydiving or… It feels safe, and it feels like it takes a lot of trust, though, a lot of trust, like this blindfolded image here is making me think of a trust fall.

So maybe you’re feeling like you’re finally falling in love, and it’s finally safe for you to fall in love. Or even if you’re not 100% sure if it’s safe, you’re gonna go for it. And, you know what, I’m getting such a good feeling about this, I really am getting such a good feeling about this.

So if you’re at this point where, you know, you’ll know this is your group if you’re feeling this sense of, “Oh my god, something big is happening. And this isn’t anxiety as in fear of what this other person is capable of.

So if you’re in a toxic connection right now, where you’re kind of going back and forth and you don’t fully trust the person that you’re at this point with, then I don’t believe this is your reading.

This reading is specifically for people where you have worked through a lot of that, you know, a lot of your baggage, you’ve worked through it. And now it’s this Ten of Wands has literally transformed from “carrying a lot of baggage” to “I’m gonna carry you across the threshold. I’m gonna carry you across the finish line. I’m in this for the long haul.”

And I know that that sounds so dramatic, but it’s because you did this work of unlearning that baggage and choosing clarity and having faith anyways, because this Eight of Swords… sometimes, it can indicate overthinking and stress and limiting beliefs, and it can also feel constrained. I’m not getting that energy either. I’m getting this energy of: “Okay, Spirit said I need to work through this. So I work through it. And now I’m gonna just have faith, and I’m just gonna go where they leave me.”

Like, I’m almost seeing, even though it’s not depicted here, I’m seeing with my third eye more so, this image of, like, Spirit hovering in this corner here, kind of guiding you from behind. And this is almost like a walk the plank type of card, right. This figure looks like they’re gonna walk the plank. And I almost feel like it’s Spirit pushing you, but little do you know you’re about to fall into an ocean, an ocean of emotion or an ocean of good feelings, good vibes family, if that’s what you want to manifest. And it’s a calm ocean, as well.

So you might be feeling like you’re gonna get fed to the wolves. It’s something I’m hearing. You might feel like you’re being pushed beyond your capacity this weekend, or your emotions are just overflowing. And it might, you might be experiencing it as more of a negative thing or more of a terrifying thing.

But actually, this is a big deal, especially for those of you who are getting married. Congratulations, if that’s your case. If you’re making the decision to have a child, then congratulations as well.

But there’s just this big, big feeling here of: “Okay, I’m finally going to give this my 100% and allow my heart to fully express itself and allow all of my feelings to really surge and flow out, even though it takes a level of vulnerability.

This is definitely for my people who are freshly in a healthy relationship. And they’re realizing like, “Wow, I’ve worked through so much of this. I actually might have what it takes, and I think that this person might have what it takes.”

So Ooh, there’s a really exciting energy here. And I think that’s that transition. So beautiful. Wow, pile one. This is exciting, exciting stuff. So please feel free to comment below and fill us all in on what you’re doing. It seems like you’re doing a lot of things right. And I totally understand that psychic anticipation, panic you’re experiencing when you’re about to turn into an ocean.

Okay, so I’m sending you so much love and abundance. I hope that you take care of yourselves and stay healthy. And I’ll see you in the next one. Okay, bye.

Second Group – Labradorite

Hello, hello pile two. You chose this Labradorite, which is a beautiful stone that represents transformation and transmutation of energies. And it really reminds me of butterfly’s wings the way that it glimmers and has lots of different colors in it. And even the way it’s, like, triangle shaped.

So you could be going through some sort of butterfly glow up right now or some sort of transformation. And this weekend, you could also be called to transmute lots of different energies. So moving negative energy to positive, changing old wounds into your strengths, something like that. You’re kind of shifting your energy.

So for your overarching energy this weekend, it is the Sun reversed. So this is a sign that you could be needing to – yeah – you could be needing to just illuminate some of your shadow. You could be needing to overcome some of your deeper wounds and kind of shine light and healing into them is something I’m picking up on. So that’s a really powerful energy.

This takes a lot of stamina to do, as well, is something that I’m hearing. So when you dive deep into your wounds and shine light onto them and illuminate them and see what is really going on under the surface, right, we sometimes have these immediate reactions to people, situations, things in our external reality. What we’re perceiving with our physical eyes, we sometimes have strong reactions to these things. And it’s easy to focus on that right.

But I really feel like in your reading, I’m picking up on your spirit guides trying to get you to kind of stop and turn that attention inwards. Understand that the people and the external circumstances that you are perceiving are somehow a reflection of the wounds that you have inside.

And they’re kind of mirroring each other. So that’s not to say that your wounds are completely responsible for all the external circumstances you experience. That’s not what I’m saying at all. But what I am saying is that those wounds and those external circumstances, they’re going to mirror each other and they’re reflecting off of each other at all times, and feeding into one another and triggering one another so that we can all learn about ourselves and grow. So you’re being called to look at an external situation, and actually stop and ask, “Okay, why is this occurring within me? Why am I having all these feelings in response to this? Why might these feelings be coming up for me?” That’s the kind of the energy I’m getting.

It’s almost reminding me of the Hermit card, because the Hermit can talk about a deep dive. But Spirit is literally showing me that you’re shining your light on internal circumstances.

And with this baby on here, there’s this sense of vulnerability that comes with it. Really being able to show your wounds and really being able to let others see see your wounds and getting to know yourself, getting to know who you are as a human and and getting to know your ego, essentially understanding your ego’s reactions to things and separating those from your shadow self, separating those from your higher self, understanding how the ego operates within you.

And that makes you feel extremely vulnerable, and in sometimes criticize, to potentially… Let’s go ahead and see what else is coming up for you this weekend. We have the High Priestess.

Yes, so because of this experience, understanding your ego on a deeper level, you’re actually becoming more dignified, becoming more intuitive, understanding the difference between your ego and your intuition.

I think it’s interesting that we have the card of the ego, the Sun reversed here, and then we have the extremely, extremely intuitive High Priestess upright. And the High Priestess accepts things as they are. She’s extremely perceptive, she’s comfortable with the in between. And one thing about her wisdom doesn’t come from always knowing what will happen in the future. Actually, always wanting to know what happens in the future, that’s actually a very egoic thing.

And so you’re being encouraged to embrace more of the in-between, because that’s really where High Priestess wisdom lies. And in addition, she’s extremely discerning and extremely perceptive. Because she spends a lot of time feeling into things, seeing how other people’s actions impact her energy, removing herself from those things, if necessary. And that’s the energy you’re meant to adopt in your love life right now.

It’s important to trust your intuition in dating. So if you intuitively feel drawn to someone, kind of going after that, or feeling intuitively, like maybe you should not see someone again, tapping into that, instead of the ego of “I want to be loved, and I want to be seen,” which nothing is inherently wrong with that. Let’s not demonize our egos. But one thing I am seeing is that you’re meant to release control of the situation, go with the flow more, and trust more of your reflective lunar energy.

We have Strength reversed, so another card about control and releasing control. “What does true power look like and love?” is something that you’re asking yourself this weekend. And I feel like your true power is going to come from you embodying this High Priestess energy. Sit back and observe people more this weekend, maybe go people watching. But even though the High Priestess is usually a card that I associate with more home body energy, or temple body energy, I guess, I really see you potentially going out and noticing how when you chat with people, noticing how you feel after and taking more note of that.

And with the Strength reversed, you’re not going to ask anyone to change in this season of your love life. You’re not going to beg people to treat you right. You’re not going to ask anyone to move differently. You’re just going to observe lots of people. And when you see someone who actually does fit you, which you will know, because you’ve spent more time understanding and deciphering your ego and your intuition, you’re gonna know who’s right for you, because you’re gonna have such a good relationship with yourself. And you’re gonna really have a strong understanding of other people in the way they move too.

Let’s go ahead and get a couple more messages for your love life. This is a very, very powerful energy I have to say. And it’s not power that comes from control. It’s actually power that comes from knowing serenity, serenity and love, trusting that the perfect person for you is on the way. And that there’s nothing you need to do to make it come faster. You actually just need to be aware. All the wisdom is inside you right now.

Ooh, Ace of Pentacles. And then we have the Knight of Pentacles reversed. Wow. So yes, this is slow and steady wins the race. This is this energy of: “I’m only going to accept what’s solid and stable. I’m only going to accept offers that are really true and really easy to understand.” You intuitively know from a place of higher wisdom. You know when something is messed up, and you know when something is maybe heading in the wrong direction. And you know when something is unstable. So you’re being asked to only accept offers that feel really solid to you.

And with this Knight of Pentacles reversed, don’t be afraid to take it really slow. I would also take a look back at past relationships and ask yourself, “Does this connection that I was in… was it rooted in reality? Was it really rooted in reality? Was I seeing the whole of the situation? Was it solid? Was it stable? Was I accepting relationships that maybe just had so many red flags or maybe just weren’t a practical match for me?”

Because really what I feel called to tell you is that you can have it all. You can have something that intuitively, spiritually feels correct to you. You can choose something that feels really solid to you. And love can be easy. I’m seeing here that you could be receiving some sort of solid offer soon. And Spirit really wants you to sit with it for a while and feel into “Does this feel solid? Does this feel stable? Is this something that I think would suit me, suit my spiritual needs, suit my energetic needs in the future? Or is it something that’s actually going to add more stress to me?”

Say… so you get with someone who just triggers your wounds consistently. And all these issues are rising up where you’re like, “Wow, I didn’t even know that that fear existed within me,” actually have an honest conversation with yourself and ask yourself, “Okay, how much am I willing to accept? And what can I actually work with? What about this relationship is a non-negotiable to me? And what about this relationship can I actually work with?”

There could be minor incompatibilities that actually help you grow as a person and actually help you mature and help you release control and go with the flow. And then there are certain aspects of someone that might be a complete deal breaker. And so you’re getting to know yourself enough to understand what triggers you need for your growth, and what triggers you actually have to avoid for your health and safety. There’s kind of a fine line to walk in between here. And this is kind of this message about love not being perfect.

So that’s not to say you’ll tolerate anything intolerable, but you’re going to figure out, the imperfect person that you actually can work with and actually make something substantial with, and at the same time, not settling for things that you don’t actually want to tolerate, or that you feel are truly incompatible with your soul’s purpose, learning how to sit back and actually not not take those and take a look more at yourself and ask yourself, “Why am I being hurt and disappointed in the situation? And what exactly does that say about me? Does that mean I need to change my standards? Does that mean I need to become stronger in this area, so that my emotions don’t get the best of me? Or does that mean we need to go our separate ways?”

You’re figuring out these deeper, emotional aspects about yourself, and it actually seems really, really mature. It seems really healthy. And it seems like it’s going to give you more power in your relationships, more ability to communicate what it is. You’re okay with more ability to communicate your boundaries and your needs. And more ability to have compassion for yourself and know where certain reactivities you might have, where those are actually stemming from when it comes to events that might occur.

You could, yeah, you could be receiving some sort of offer. And it seems, it does seem like something solid, but it seems like something that needs to be reviewed. And it seems like something that you need to let spirit talk to you about, and it’s not something you should try to control.

Okay, so with that being said, pile two, thank you so much. I’m sending you all the love in the world. And I’m wishing you the best. I’ll see you in the next video. Okay, bye.

Group Three – Titanium Quartz

Hello, hello, pile three. Thank you so much for being here. You chose this titanium quartz, which is a crystal that makes me think of shining your unique vibration, being willing to stand out, and also exploring more of your creativity.

So let me go ahead and check on your overarching energy. We have the Nine of Wands reversed, which is pretty interesting. I’m getting a pretty clear message here. You can be more of a reserved person, a shy person, maybe you hold your cards close to your chest. Maybe you’re even physically in your body language, a little bit more reserved when you’re out. Maybe you have social anxiety. And maybe you’re a little shy. So dating is a little bit harder. Or even when you are close to someone maybe you’re a little self conscious, okay.

And we already have this titanium quartz here encouraging you to shine and accept yourself for exactly who you are.

Let’s go ahead and see what else we have here for my pile threes this weekend. I see that this is something you’re challenging, becoming a little bit more expressive, letting go a little bit, being less tense, letting loose a little bit, having fun, trusting yourself. I’m seeing someone having a dance party like a dance party privately in their room.

Okay, we have a card of… two cards I wanted to flip out. Let’s go ahead and see this. This is the Queen of Swords reversed and the Seven of Swords reversed. Yeah, I’m seeing a lot of self-sabotage, potentially. And we have the Nine of Swords on top of the deck. So a lot of overthinking, hyper-criticism of oneself, perfectionism. And it’s actually getting in the way a little bit.

Maybe you don’t want to fully be seen by someone. And so you push them away. But I’m really seeing you regretting this in the future. And so I want to give you a little bit of a heads up, or your Spirit wanted to give you a little bit of a heads up of: “Hey, it’s not, it’s not so bad.”

You can be really reactive, because maybe you’ve been hurt before in the past. And that’s why there’s this energy of anguish here. And energy of also looking back to the past. I’m just noticing how none of these cards really have anyone looking in the right direction, right. This person is covering their face, these two people are facing behind them backwards, and this person doesn’t even know where to look. Okay, they’re upside down, maybe they’re looking forward, but they’re definitely not moving forward. And so I’m just seeing a lot of your physical and verbal communication being fueled by the past or being motivated by the past. And it seems as though you’re kind of projecting your past onto your future. And it’s not allowing you to move forward.

Let’s go ahead and get another card, please Spirit. What is pile three doing this weekend? Your cards are also taking a long time. Okay, actually have two, Page of Wands, Six of Pentacles.

So yeah, they’re, okay, I have to be honest, what’s meant for you will always find you. Things that are meant for you will always come back around. But it does seem like maybe you pushed some opportunities away because of reactivity. And the Page of Wands, especially reversed, for me, can be reactivity acting from the ego, acting from a place of maybe insecurity or fear. And it’s quite impulsive, too.

It seems like maybe you recently made some sort of mistake in your connection or in your love life. And now you’re kind of really regretting it and beating yourself up with the Six of Pentacles. We even still have this person facing down, facing that way, right, and this person is facing this way. So I’m just seeing a lot of looking to the past with regret, wishing things were different, wishing you and handled yourself differently.

But I also feel like there’s this energy of I just don’t know how, I don’t know how to move differently. Maybe you’re telling yourself the story that you always act like this, or that this always happens.

And I just want to say, you deserve grace and compassion, no matter what it is you’ve done. No matter what it is you said, you deserve grace and compassion. We’re all on this messy journey. We all have our imperfections, we all have our trades that we’re actively working on, right, or challenge areas or learning edges. And you’re allowed to have that.

And if maybe you’re dealing with so much regret and anguish over it, maybe it’s because you’re worried that you won’t be able to repair things with a person. And I just want to say, you know, if another person was impacted by the situation, give them space if they need space, but with the Six of Pentacles, I really feel like you don’t understand the amount of grace that spirit has for you.

And I’m also with these justice scales. With these scales, I’m really seeing it as this energy of what goes around comes back around, and Spirit is so graceful, so, so graceful and so forgiving that they’re going to balance things and make things right in one way or another. And you’re already so forgiven by your spiritual team. That’s what I want to say. Your spiritual team has already forgiven you.

It’s possible that this other person has already forgiven you. And that you’re unaware of it for some reason, maybe because you’re not looking in the right place with all these cards facing the wrong way. So don’t be so hard on yourself.

And in fact, being hard on yourself could be just an extension of this self-sabotage energy. You could be using this experience to beat yourself up because you feel you deserve it when, really, I think you’re meant to come to your realization that the world is safe, is something I’m hearing. It’s kind of specific. But yeah, things are safe. And it’s possible to have good relationships. And it’s possible to have healthy communication with people.

I think you’ve never been shown that. Like, maybe no one’s taken the time to have that with you and share that with you. But I feel like there are opportunities for that to come. There’s opportunities for reciprocity.

Maybe you’ve been in a lot of situations where the effort or the care that you put into someone was just not reciprocated, maybe it was neglected or taken advantage of. And now you almost have this fear and react out of a place of expecting others to hurt you or expecting others to abandon you in some way. And so you might be in this energy of, well, subconsciously even, “I’m going to mess this up first,” just by being a bit hyper-vigilant or by being impulsive and fearful, or maybe keeping them at an arm’s length because you don’t want to get hurt.

But I’m really getting this message of you have no idea how kind the universe is too. You have no idea how nice Spirit is when it comes to the way that they care for you, the way that they protect you without you even seeing it.

And I think this loop that you’re in is a karmic cycle that you’re meant to break free from. But you have to start looking forward first and start telling yourself the story of good things are possible for me, good things are possible for me. And I really want you to say that, type it in the chat or type it in the comments as well. “Good things are possible for me.” If you’re really struggling to believe that right now just keep saying it, keep saying it. And I swear it’ll start to feel like your truth over time.

And so this weekend, this is really what you’re tackling. And I think, actually, this weekend, you’re going to be working through some anxieties that you have. And it might feel like a heavy energy, I’m not gonna lie, but it’s really time. And I’m seeing a lot of you taking your time with it and starting to have a little bit of gratitude, actually, for some of the circumstances that you’ve been in because rejection really is divine protection.

There was a reason, for your benefit, that these situations have turned out the way that they did. And so it’s important to take accountability for where we may have missed up and then move forward as well and understand that there’s a bigger picture to everything and that it will be okay.

It will be okay. You’re learning you’re growing, have grace for yourself.

Please stay safe and take care of yourselves and I’m sending you all the love and compassion in the world. You really deserve it, even if you don’t feel like you do. And I will see you in the next reading. Okay, bye.