⚖️ Finding Your Balance | Weekly Tarot Reading | 4/30 – 5/6

Is there an area in your life where you could use some more balance? Deco says things could feel a little off-kilter in the week ahead, but if you speak your truth and stand up for yourself, it could bring the stability you need to move forward.

She’s here today with your Weekly Tarot Reading, to help you stay grounded and tap into your creativity over the coming days. Enjoy!

P.S. Is there a situation or relationship in your life that feels out of balance right now? Leave a comment below and let Deco know!

TRANSCRIPT:

Hi friends! It is Deco, back again for a General Weekly Reading for the collective for the week of April 30 through May 6.

So, similar to last week, I’d really like to think about how we can be proactive ahead of time, thinking about what obstacles we might face this week, so that we can think about how to bring ourselves into this week the best that we can, and then remember to ground ourselves at the same time.

So we’ll pull a couple of different spreads here and see what we need to know – you might see a cat popping up here. They love to be part of all of this. It’s like they know what we’re up to.

So let’s find out what are the challenges that we might face this week? What are the challenges that we might face?

Interesting, okay, so I really see – this is interesting – I see that there might be a little bit of imbalance. There’s a really delicate balance that needs to happen this week, okay.

So, the Two of Pentacles is in reverse. When it’s upright, it means that we are very, very balanced in our finances and in the things that we have control of. But when we’re in reverse like this, there might be a little bit of instability in those areas where maybe we feel like we have to put all of our eggs in one basket. And there are all these other places that are potentially being neglected because we’re so focused on one thing.

And I see, my friends, that you’re planning for something. So, I’m thinking that maybe you’re so excited about this new journey that there’s a chance that you’re not really paying attention to the other things, or maybe something else is kind of being pushed to the side that needs your attention still, okay.

Again, I think that it’s all about balance here. Yes, you can have some new exciting venture, one that you are very planned for and that you’re very excited about. But we still have to think about those other things in our life that are important, like our bills, and being able to invest in ourselves and all the things that we need to do right now.

The other thing that we need to balance here is our emotions and our logic. We have the King of Cups and the Queen of Swords. So, the King of Cups is about being very emotionally mature but also about being very analytically emotional, if that makes sense. It’s like being able to process your emotions and understand those emotions in a way that benefits the people around you, okay.

The Queen of Swords is very independent and very decisive. So, we’ve got this one side where we’re having to be really thoughtful, and another side where we have to be thinking very logically.

What’s interesting is the King of Cups is really the Air of Cups. The King is tied to air, which is about decisiveness. So, we’ve got a kind of interesting duality here where we have the Water of Air and the Air of Water.

Again, it’s all about balance. So, we need to be thinking, how are we balancing our life with our emotions and our logic as we’re moving forward with this exciting new venture, so that we can guarantee that we have balance along the way?

Now, let’s pull some cards to see: How do we guarantee that? How do we make sure that we are finding balance this week? Since we’re kind of maybe to focus in one area, one card is really trying to be seen.

Okay, very interesting. We have the Tower in reverse, the Page of Wands in reverse, the Five of Cups in reverse, and then the Eight of Cups. So, as far as tackling this imbalance moving through this challenge, we’re not really sure how to keep the balance, right. I think it’s important that we keep the balance, but we need to focus on maintaining that balance.

And I think what we have to do is avoid chaos, okay, and avoid things falling down around us. Because, again, we had too much focus on one thing, the Tower in reverse, which is telling me that, like, you’re feeling kind of the chaos coming your way. And I think you’re nervous about it.

But again, I think if you can keep that analytical and emotional side of yourself a little bit more balanced, it’s going to help you avoid that potential chaos that could happen with this Tower in reverse.

The Page of Wands is in reverse. And that’s telling me that there is a chance that if you put too much energy into that thing all at once, that you might lose a little bit of your spark. You might have had this idea and then realize like, “Oh, I think I went too hard, too fast right at the beginning and lost my steam,” right.

I do think that you would move on from that without a lot of disappointment. I think you’d be able to see the good that came out of it and the bad that you learned from, right.

But I think what we really need to focus on for moving through this challenge is understanding that if we don’t balance things, that there’s a chance that the things that we’ve been planning for and working for are not going to work out in the way that we want them to or that they’re just going to kind of fizzle and fall apart.

The Eight of Cups is also in this reading and the Ace of Cups or Eight of Cups, sorry, is all about taking a hard look at your circumstance and thinking about the things that you are emotionally tied to and deciding if those things belong in your life anymore or if they are a hindrance to what you want for yourself, right. So thinking, “Is this thing that I am so emotionally invested in worth that emotional investment? Or is it keeping me from being able to move on to bigger, better things?” right.

So it’s an interesting balance here, guys, where we’re starting something new, we’ve planned for it, we’re very excited for it. But there’s a chance that we may have too much put into it all at once and lose that drive and lose that passion.

So I think that we need to look at the whole picture and decide how do we find balance in this area so that we don’t lose that steam? Because I think there is potential for great success, as long as you plan carefully, okay. “Now that’s how we’re tackling it. Now, how do we ground ourselves through all of this? What do we need to do to just make sure that whatever we do this week, it’s aligned with who we are deep down, who we want to be? And make sure that we’re showing up in a way that we’re proud of?” right.

How are we going to do that for ourselves through this week? Let’s find out. Okay, I love it already.

Okay, so again, an interesting balance – the Four of Cups is here with the Page of Cups, and these are kind of conflicting ideas. A little bit. The Four of Cups is very emotionally unavailable, not really opening up. They are a bottler of emotions, right. They’re not really letting people see what they’re going through, which is interesting because I really think that you’re holding back your positive emotions. You are keeping people from being able to see all of the incredible work that you’re putting into this big plan that you’re doing. It’s like you’re keeping it a secret. And maybe it’s a little bit of fear about what they’re going to think. But I don’t think that that is what you need to be focusing on right now.

My friends, truly, I think that you have the opportunity for success this week, and having so many wonderful opportunities spring up for you. But excuse me, I think that you need to lean into that – sorry, we’ve got a cat joining us – I think you need to lean into that and start opening up because you’ve got this new, emotionally exciting beginning for you that you are so ready to invest in and have be a major part of your life.

But if you bottle it, and you don’t allow other people to see how excited you are about it, then they won’t notice, support you. So what I’m seeing, as this Page of Cups, is that youthful, exciting energy that’s kind of making you want to put all of your eggs in that basket, even though you need to have a little bit more balance.

But I think you need to open up and start talking to your friends about it. Three of Cups is like camaraderie in a card, right. It’s you getting together with your people, relating to people that you care about and who care about you.

And ultimately, my friends, we’ve got the Seven of Wands here, which is you speaking up for yourself and telling people about the wonderful things that you have planned for yourself, the things that you are passionately investing yourself in.

And I think that you need to let that be seen and be excited about that so that you have support on your journey, and potentially even have people who are coming out of the woodwork to help you along the way, because if you don’t talk about it, then people don’t know about it. And maybe it falls apart before it even becomes something larger in your life.

So guys, the big things here that we need to consider for this week are making sure that we have balanced that, even though we’re excited about something new we’ve been planning for, that we’re still able to see the other parts of our life that need our attention. And then considering for ourselves that if we don’t do that, there’s a chance that these ideas might fall apart.

Last but not least, talking about these ideas, not being afraid of putting yourself out there even if it seems like a crazy idea that you don’t think people are going to be supportive of. I think that you need to let yourself be seen because I think you’re a shining light that is going to bring people in and have people excited with you. But if you never talk about it, that’s not going to happen. So open up.

Don’t forget to find balance this week, and best of luck with this new venture.

Deco Lo
Deco Lo
decodivination@gmail.com

Deco is an intuitive tarot reader whose mission is to give guidance to those who need it. She has a passion for making connections with those she reads for and loves to teach others about tarot. Deco loves learning and is always looking to deepen her understanding of the tarot and its spiritual connections.

59 Comments
  • Suzanne
    Posted at 14:07h, 02 May Reply

    I’m dealing with homelessness living in a women’s shelter & love life gone down the drain. No contact for 2 mos. Difficult to focus on housing & future in this chaotic situation.

  • Edna Jean Thompson
    Posted at 17:40h, 01 May Reply

    Thank you. Yes I’m imbalance. Going to work on this. Chacos I live with. I’m tired of being talked to hateful and accused of doing things I didn’t do. Yes, I’ve got plans to better my life. But it’s complicated. I’ll get it worked out I always do.

  • Darren Ball
    Posted at 05:45h, 01 May Reply

    I am heartbroken,
    I have known this woman for 6 months now, we lived in the same block of flats so i used to see her a lot wether it was taking out rubbish to the bins or her bringing home the kids after school. So we used to chat a lot on the stairs as i was on the ground floor and she lived in the flat above me. Now in february i moved due to the council finding me my final place ( as the block we lived in was a halfway home for whatever reason you become ” homeless “) as we are still friends on social media i finally plucked up the courage to ask her out ( now bear in mind i am 51 and she is 29) although i know she isnt looking for anything right now because she is waiting to get re- housed which could take a while as she has 4 children (as the laws in the uk are probably different to other countries) her eldest has ADHD and is entitled to his own bedroom, her daughter is now 10 so is entitled to her own bedroom and the two younger boys will have to share a bedroom. So is entited to bid on 4 badroom properties. I know she likes me but has said very nicely that im a bit older for her so just wants to be friends which is killing me because ive fallen head over heels for her, she is everything i look for in a woman and i cant stop thinking about her . Although its been 10 days since i asked her out I’m coming to terms with her decision and finding it easier to cope with this but it still hurts and i suppose I’m still holding a small hope that she may change her mind a little further down the line !! 💔

  • Jeri anderson
    Posted at 01:13h, 01 May Reply

    Yes I have a very big imbalance and am so confused and heart broken. And need to fix it before I can move on with anything . And I feel very lost.

  • Ann Marie Ashton
    Posted at 23:04h, 30 April Reply

    It is unnerving sometimes to keep up with a long distance relationship.

  • Tara Bailey
    Posted at 22:52h, 30 April Reply

    Out of balance barely scratches the surface for me. I’m not referring to a love life, career, or even health, which are all important. But having to interact with my 11 yr-old’s dad daily is mentally and emotionally exhausting, he causes so much stress añd negativity in my life and our child’s life. This person is a true narcissist though he doesn’t know he suffers from it. I would love for it to be peaceful and feel like we’re on the same team at least. Instead I feel like I am on trial every day, micromanaged and tormented beyond what I might be able to endure

  • Shirley carrington
    Posted at 22:13h, 30 April Reply

    Worried about my new job if people are nice and a good place to work.

  • Tabitha Gillham
    Posted at 21:12h, 30 April Reply

    Mine is beyond out of balance! My ex has tormented me for 8 years arguing to the point I dont even know if I want another relationship! I honestly believe he is the evil force everyone is warning me about that is blocking me from luck and the life i deserve because everytime i let him in things start to go badly for me. Meanwhile he gambles and wins hundreds of dollars that he spends on addiction.

  • Barb Gloyd
    Posted at 21:11h, 30 April Reply

    Yes Deco I think this is an excellent reading. I am having some problems right now, because I couldn’t come over as soon as he wanted me to he hasn’t replied to me in three days. He knows it irritates me when he goes silent on me for senseless reasons..

  • Lisa Witteman
    Posted at 20:39h, 30 April Reply

    I am at a double cross road ony life. What to do about what housing to choose and ify karmic relationship will rise up from the ashes or burn out

  • Barbara Dawn Dasher
    Posted at 20:35h, 30 April Reply

    Please help me get out of this skump

  • Claudia Barillas
    Posted at 19:52h, 30 April Reply

    Thank you. In this moment of My life, I have a chaos in My mind

  • Geoff Howe
    Posted at 16:25h, 30 April Reply

    Thanks Deco. Really enjoy, n look forward to ur videos.
    Talk about chaos. Today is April 30 @ 5:15 pm. I have 6 hours 45 min to pack up the house I was renting because it sold.
    Even though I have a good career with great money I don’t enjoy it any longer. My life seems to have become stagnant and in need of a change.
    So I have been trying to get a job on a cruise ship, but seem to keep running into small obstacles.
    Long story short I don’t have a place to go, and at midnight I will be going to a Walmart parking lot and sleeping in my U-Haul.
    After tomorrow when I get access to storage I get to drop off the truck and then go online to find out what is going on with my potential future job.
    I don’t know what to do but I keep on getting told in maybe another two weeks I’ll be hired. But for the next two weeks I’m homeless. Where I live I don’t have a support system or any family or anything it’s just me by myself so it’s not like I could go sleep on a couch or anything like that. And to make it just that much better my personal car was in an accident earlier this week and it’s going to be in the shop for the next 10 days so I can’t even sleep in my car
    That is my tale of woe and chaos what got to stay strong and positive and know that the universe will look after you
    Sending good vibes and love to all. If I can do it, everybody can. 😉

  • Scott Christopher DeLisa
    Posted at 15:20h, 30 April Reply

    Thanks

  • Md Aminul Islam
    Posted at 13:58h, 30 April Reply

    Thank you for your support

  • Faith Klintworth
    Posted at 09:12h, 30 April Reply

    You are spot on about the imbalance and needing to decide if it’s worth the time for my emotional investment….it’s not! But wow,did I learn from it!!!!! It is an eye opener and I am ready to grab ahold of my passion and move on Thank you for such great guidance and info to help me on this journey.

  • Laurie Prebish
    Posted at 09:07h, 30 April Reply

    Hi Deco,
    I have been following you since you began here. You have been spot on. I’m a sensitive who can read other people but, not myself. It’s very frustrating. I am a nurse and have been in a physical relationship with a male nurse who works in the same hospital but not in the same area for over 3 years. We met by working overtime in the COVID vaccine area during the pandemic. I fell in love with him hoping that one day we would be a couple. I have broken up with him 4 times because he was with other women and is still currently living with a woman. I have resigned myself to the fact that it is purely a physical relationship however, I have conflicting feelings over all of this. One day I love him and the next I despise him. My life is and has been off balance. I have neglected my finances and for the first time in my life I’m not able to pay all of my rent. I recently put a dog down and purchased 2 puppies, brothers, to help with my PTSD, this is in part why my finances are unstable. I’m trying to work as much overtime as I can at work to help. Of course my puppies have to be crated while I’m at work and bark off and on when I’m not home. A neighbor has complained about the noise and now I’m afraid every time they bark. They are the loves of my life. I have daughters and granddaughters who live about 7 hours away. They have their own lives but I visit them whenever I can. I’m sorry for being so long winded. Your readings have brought me so much comfort and direction. I want to break away from this relationship but it’s almost like I’m addicted to him because of the physical relationship. Please just know how much your readings mean to me. Thank you so much. Sending you much love, light, and peace ❤️

  • Shannon Clausen
    Posted at 13:21h, 26 April Reply

    Oh my gosh, I’m in tears. You couldn’t be more on. I’ve watched you since you started and you just keep getting more accurate by the week.
    I love your energy! Everyone that Cosmic Updates shares with the world is a blessing, thank you for sharing with all of us🤍

    • Opoku Richard AtuahThankene
      Posted at 08:55h, 30 April Reply

      Thanks for your good teachings and blessings

  • Lucia+Parkes
    Posted at 18:07h, 24 April Reply

    Hi Deco,
    I feel very grateful and at the same time very happy to hear your weekly Tarot readings which bring about helpful guidance and support.into hour lives.

  • Felividad
    Posted at 12:25h, 24 April Reply

    Thank you very much for your assistance, I appreciate it but do long to read . I want a direct one . God bless you always

  • Chidinma Aniekwe
    Posted at 11:24h, 24 April Reply

    I’ve been seeing a lot of reviews about tarot card reading. I have a great dream to be very successful and happy in life. I really need to achieve a lot of things. But anytime I try it always crashes. I’m also wishing if you could help me read who is the right person for me regarding my love life. thank you

    • Marcus Raidien
      Posted at 15:47h, 24 April Reply

      Tarot will show a possibility of the type of person you should find. But to actually find that person, you will need to use magic of some system so that the veil thins, and allows you two to find each other.

      I know several, ones that work. but our group is closed, you will have to find which systems works for you. I had to do the same thing, find the one that works for me.

      inside that is the influence for you to want to go to a place one day, and your defiant other does the same out of the blue, BUT, unless you prepared yourself, changed yourself to what THEY will desire, you still won’t see them in the crowd as you walk by …in kissing range!

      The ideal person YOU want, what will THEY want is the question, how do you make that YOU, before you meet?!

      it is possible though difficult to keep going, …thinking positively.

  • Michele Cascio
    Posted at 06:47h, 24 April Reply

    Thank you for validation that I need to & have the power to change my current situation. I needed this reading thanks again
    Michele C sw Florida

  • Andrew Clinton
    Posted at 05:22h, 24 April Reply

    Fantastic reading Deco,.
    Thank you

  • Sabrina wrightquiroz
    Posted at 02:54h, 24 April Reply

    My name is Sabrina wrightquiroz , since becoming pregnant I’m left with more questions than answers and have been thinking alot about if my husband is being true too me or if he is keeping certain things from me as he hasn’t been the same with me and has become more distant and mean towards me please help me understand if there is infact something being kept from me also great blog and very straight to the point thank you .

    • Martha Radebe
      Posted at 14:20h, 01 May Reply

      Thank you very much but what I need is to help me get out of this skump but I’m willing to be brave for any situation I’m facing right now God bless you everyday looking forward to the next reading.

  • Donna E Price
    Posted at 01:57h, 24 April Reply

    Your reading was like every thing that I’m facing going through what I’m filling inside all in big ball but I do say you nail it that’s for sure you done great job thank you very much,,

  • Annette Joyner
    Posted at 00:14h, 24 April Reply

    Having a tremendously hard time with debt.

    • Marcus Raidien
      Posted at 15:59h, 24 April Reply

      you might try this. it is actually a rosecrutian meditation method, but it is very simple and will get you OFF of being in debt.

      thoughts become reality, You have an idea and make something physical with your hands, or assemble it from instructions. So thinking all the time about debt is NOT going to get you to a place where YOU come up with the idea to get out of it!

      This method will, because it will turn the thinking and constant worry off!

      Sit in a chair, stop fidgeting and relax, now focus on your mind watch all the thinking going on inside there, all the problems and the debts, all those thoughts holding you back putting your mind in a bind, It is a radio. today turn down the volume a little.

      tomorrow turn down the volume some more.

      then next day, again.

      eventually you will barely hear it, then the last turn it off!

      you will hear silence – it will be breathtaking!

      this will take some time, at least a week.

      once you can think your solution will come instantly to you.

  • Stevie Dennee
    Posted at 22:48h, 23 April Reply

    I am involved with a man that is a Leo who is confrontational at times and suggesting I’m also involved with his ex girlfriend who lives on my property as well. Today was not a good due to his unfounded unreasonable thinking and wild imagination,, I stood up for myself. Now he claims to be hurt and that I screwed him up by saying I was done and had nothing left for him and that he could find other accommodations. He says that I’m abusing him, lol, yet is mad because I locked him out of the back door but front door was unlocked.
    This guy has been lying to his ex about me and is mad cause I told her truth.
    It is.causing too much stress and I’m already under enough financial stress trying to sell my house and unsure of moving to Orego where my children and grands live.
    I really need guidance as I don’t feel good about any of this.

  • amenda ikiki
    Posted at 22:13h, 23 April Reply

    Thank you so much I will not tech my goals.

  • Davidarmoh
    Posted at 21:32h, 23 April Reply

    I’m concerned about obstacles but I find ways to get around them ,any problem that exist there is a way out ,at the moment I’m trying to become an investor in realestate working on my networking skills to real in investors to back me up on the financial park of making the deals ,I’m talking to one of the major realestate tycoon Grant Cardone even trying to get him to back me up ,My homeboy just received his realestate license so we are going into realestate I think everything iis falling in place my faith is moving me forward.

    • Marcus Raidien
      Posted at 16:14h, 24 April Reply

      A problem exists that you and everyone you know can help, but I can’t help much more than my one voice. In one month all real estate will be under Biden control through an executive order to resurrect Freddie Mac and Fannie May from receivership after failure in 2008.

      He will resurrect them as title insurance putting all Mom and Pop’s out of business overnight and making all title insurance controlled by DC. ALL TRANSACTIONS WILL BE REQUIRED TO HAVE 20% down mandatory regardless of terms!

      this is in ONE MONTH unless YOU get everybody in your hood to write your congressman and Senator to stop this from going through.

      i helped 2017 families out of foreclosure in the Detroit Metro area they still have their homes, because i did everything right, plus they did not pay me a dime the investor paid me, they got my free services and I saved them! You can ask around they will tell you,

      Normally i offer practical magic solutions to problems, except this one is political to force communism on America because it is better than Biden.

      the solution is letters to congressmen from a lot more sources than just me, before next month!

  • Ricky Dautrich
    Posted at 21:23h, 23 April Reply

    Great, on point reading Deco. Myself, I am going through a very hurtful, and unsure about what I am going to do since I am helping out a couple of friends and my funds are running low. So I am not completely comfortable with myself and if I can make it myself. Everyone else I care about will make it I’m sure of that but not for myself. Thanks for trying to pick my spirits up and to know that I can do it all for everyone even myself. It’s hard to take care of myself because I just feel selfish.

  • Claudia Barillas
    Posted at 21:17h, 23 April Reply

    Wow…..it is right. Thank you!!!!

  • Ramona
    Posted at 21:13h, 23 April Reply

    Thank you, Deco for your great reading. Looking forward for positive outcome and energies. See you on next reading. God bless.

  • Leticia Venerable
    Posted at 21:00h, 23 April Reply

    I also struggle to end a relationship and start over with someone.I just afraid of the unknown and I don’t know how to start over.

  • Nesem
    Posted at 20:52h, 23 April Reply

    Thank you.

  • Justine
    Posted at 16:44h, 23 April Reply

    This was a great reading. Very encouraging. I no longer want to dwell on the past just want to move forward and change my circumstances for the better. I welcome abundance love and light into my life and we will be focusing on the positives. Thanks so much!

  • Niecy
    Posted at 12:46h, 23 April Reply

    Yessss that’s the KEY I HAVE the power to change this unbearable situation that I’m currently in. Wonderful Read & thank you!

  • Michael Joseph Stone
    Posted at 11:54h, 23 April Reply

    Ive been struggling with something that is my whole problem in the way i live, pay bills, and enjoy life. But know i know that i can overcome this situation . Im just scared !

  • Stephanie Bekendam
    Posted at 10:13h, 23 April Reply

    I beleive my overthinking him is my problem. But I have let ho

    • Leslie
      Posted at 20:49h, 23 April Reply

      Thank you so much. I really needed you for this realization today. Much much much love blessing and abundance to you dear one

  • Loz
    Posted at 09:19h, 23 April Reply

    Wow.
    Spot on!

    Just started work. But been injured.
    My partner is 900 km away from me. Haven’t seen her for almost 6 weeks.
    We’ve not had the best luck with finding a place to live here in Australia, Queensland. Living out of the Car or tent. Now my newly acquired job might be at risk due to my injury. I feel like I am going backwards instead of forward.

    Nonetheless, I’m making plans to visit my partner while arrangements have been made to see doctors, etc where my partner is.

    Thing is, my partner has CPTSD, MDD/Bipolar, Short term memory loss (because she can never let her mind relax), and border line personality disorder.

    It puts stress on the both of us.. I’m struggling to make choices for the both of us, like, we can’t really live with others because if her symptoms.. We need a place for ourselves. But these places are hard to find as here in Australia are in a rental crisis.

    I hate to think that I have to just think about myself to get a place to stay for myself that doesn’t allow couples, or stay in a car or tent until I do find a place that accepts couples.

    Or find accommodation via real estates so we can have a place of our own. But by all, if anything does happen, I might not have the time to follow any of it though because I might have to fly back for work on a 14 days on, 7 days off roster. Feel like I am leaving her in her own again.

    My partner can’t really make decisions that we take for granted, each day.

    I’m trying to stay positive. When I do another obstacle gets in the way. I’m to arrive at an airport some two hours away from my partner. Yet I have to wait 7 hours to get any form of public transport to be close to her. I still haven’t found temporary accommodation. I have 3 appointments that day too. Just not enough hours in the day to take care of everything.

    Hopefully something good will come out of this

    Loz

    • Leslie
      Posted at 20:53h, 23 April Reply

      Hey, don’t meet anyone further than they attempt to meet themselves… sometimes those things will go unacknowledged and you will be left suffering alone in the space you made for them to meet you there….don’t push too hard. Love will remain love and dependency upon you to provide that and more can leave you really lying to yourself and out of alignment. I wish you the best. You’re doing way better than you think.

  • Sudha Jain anjum
    Posted at 09:14h, 23 April Reply

    Good solution….dekho aur Nazarndaaz kro

  • Amanda swindle
    Posted at 09:13h, 23 April Reply

    I really miss my ex boyfriend Brandon. Can u tell me if he is going to come back home . He has been gone 9 months

    • Leslie
      Posted at 20:57h, 23 April Reply

      Girl he’s not coming back. And if he does after that long you need to figure out when you’re coming back cuz you must be joking. You should attract a better more suitable partner like one that stays? Don’t wait for people anymore. I waited for 4 years. Everyday I was so sure and completely delusional they were to return how could they not??? Oh it is that even if they did, it’s not because they missed us. It’s because they need something we’re comfortable to have waiting for them like a warm bath after they’ve been out in the dirty world

    • Marcus Raidien
      Posted at 16:36h, 24 April Reply

      from a jilted lover of multiple relationships and being a guy, I have to tell you, become what Brandon wants, otherwise he won’t STAY if he comes back!

      Instead look for what better Brandons’ that have LOYALTY are; and what do they want,

      YES it is superficial yes it only the surface but guys like what makes us hot, later intimacy the inside you like, is revealed,

      … but you are looking for what won’t stay.

      You have one coin, two choices, you know the immediate outcome of both.

      either become what Brandon wants and seek him out again, or, become what a new Brandon wants, – much easier.

      You wuz lucky to find that inside part once, you may be good at bringing it out. Fix the outside part that those Brandon’s want, then the insides don’t never stray. I’ve seen it, that Brandon is looking on the other side of the hill for a greener pasture, it is an old saying but he is looking for what he lost, but cannot see it.

      He is lost to himself, he will never find another you,

      From experience i know magic works, you need to find the one that works for you through finding that inside part you like!

      …sorry for being cryptic, but girls take letters apart reading them over and over again eventually what i did not say will come through loud and clear!

  • Carolyn
    Posted at 09:10h, 23 April Reply

    Struggling between my current job and an offer for a new job this week!
    Reading seems to fit🙌

  • Sally hatcher
    Posted at 09:01h, 23 April Reply

    I feel like a lot of this resonates with me iv recently decided to change my life, new home new job and I know this was the right decision but I’m over thinking about a relationship that doesn’t seem to be going anywhere, iv only met this guy once but been messaging for nearly 6 months. He doesn’t live near me but is hoping to move nearer even though he messages every morning and evening and phones regularly I just can’t work him out, is he just playing with my emotions should I let go and move on, iv tried telling him but he just says he wants to be with me I guess I’m insecure with relationships due to my past

  • Almera Carawana
    Posted at 08:54h, 23 April Reply

    struggling finances

  • Amuge Esther
    Posted at 08:47h, 23 April Reply

    I keep wondering if this is true. Legit. Like can you really tell what is likely going to happen in someone’s life? How about you tell me what am most likely going to achieve.

  • Laurie Werner
    Posted at 08:42h, 23 April Reply

    I am wondering if my love will ever come and see me before the end of this April. 2023. I want to know how much he loves me and how much he wants to be with me for the rest of our lives.

  • Joann
    Posted at 08:42h, 23 April Reply

    My future for my family and self.

    • Veronica Seleke
      Posted at 08:51h, 23 April Reply

      Am worried about my finances and am I that will I get a soulmate

    • Lithesh Roshan
      Posted at 21:25h, 23 April Reply

      Really thankful for myself and joann.. I got the clear satisfaction and clarity.. Hope everyone put there get what they deserve

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