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TRANSCRIPT:

Hello my friends, it is Deco back with another video. I’m really excited for this one because I found a new spread, so I do have some notes next to me that are all about kind of, resetting your self-care routine. So, the things that we’ll kind of touch on are what you need to prioritize, how to better organize your time, how to be productive, but not overwhelmed. How to incorporate doing more of what you love, and then something new to try for self-care. And, if we need to pull some more cards just for clarity, we absolutely will. But first, let’s get to shuffling and then find out what it is that we need to know about resetting this self-care routine, okay? All right, let’s find out what it is, okay?

Lots of reversed cards, so very interesting. First of all, in our position looking at what we need to prioritize, we have the Five of Cups in reverse, which I think is a really important thing for people to prioritize, because the Five of Cups, when it’s upright, is saying that we’re really focusing on things that we’ve lost instead of what we still have. So, having that be our priority, especially in reverse, is saying that we’re working really hard on moving on from that instead of focusing on things that we should be leaving in the past, focusing more on what we do have and what we have an abundance of in our life instead of the things that we’ve left in the past and that we were hoping we could hold onto, right? Because, the Five of Cups is really disappointment and focusing on lack and focusing on loss and all of those things. And so, to prioritize healing from those things and moving on from those things and recognizing the abundance that you do have in your life is going to be so positive for you, okay? 

Now, how to better organize your time, we have the Ace of Wands in reverse, and this is telling me, it’s almost like this longing for something new. You’re always looking for something new, always looking for the next best thing, always looking for something else to engross yourself in or something new to start or something new to whatever, especially it being Aries season, it makes sense that we would be really focused on beginnings. But, this is kind of saying, maybe instead of focusing on beginnings, we need to take a step back and think about what we really want for the long term? Instead of jumping in, like The Fool, we need to be thinking about how to make a plan for ourselves so that we can have more success in those areas. So, I think as far as how to prioritize your time, guys, instead of just jumping into new activities without really thinking about it or starting new passion projects or whatever, I think what you need to be focused on is kind of slowing down and having a more firm plan in place. 

Okay, now we’ve got how to be productive but not overwhelmed. And, we have the Ten of Swords, which is in reverse, which immediately I would like a little bit more information there. Interesting, okay, so a card flew out, that doesn’t happen to me super often. So, the Ten of Swords, in reverse, my friends, being something about productivity when it’s in reverse, it means that there was something that ended in kind of a dramatic way. There was something that is definitely closed in your life. The Ten of Swords is not something that we can come back from, and when it’s in reverse, it just means that that was a really overwhelming circumstance that you were in.

Now, your clarifier card is the Eight of Wands, and the Eight of Wands is about focusing on the future, focusing on your long-term goals and where you need to be. So, I think what we need to do is, again, instead of focusing on things that are past, things that we’re longing for or wish had ended in a different way or wish had ended with better closure or whatever, it’s like now we need to start focusing on the future. Yes, there are things that we want to do, but I think we need to take a little step back and instead of jumping in head first, making some plans thinking, what are my long-term goals? Where do I want to be and how do I laser focus in on those to make sure that they happen? I think we need to start leaving those overwhelming things from the past in the past and thinking about new beginnings and how we reach our long-term goals now.

Okay, now the next card we’re looking at is how to incorporate doing more of what you love. And, we have the Nine of Swords in reverse, another card that I’m like, interesting, a really, really interesting one. How to do more of what you love. Well, first of all, you need to get rid of worry. Get rid of worrying about what other people think of you, what other people might have to say about you, prioritizing yourself. Because, the Nine of Swords is about a bad mental space, really bad mental space where you’re creating things out of nothing just based on your own psyche and the things that you worry about naturally. But, when it’s in reverse, it’s like we need to start to eliminate those worries. We need to start thinking about, “Okay, how do we do these things without getting in our head and convincing ourselves that, oh, we don’t need to be doing those things.” Or, “I shouldn’t be spending my money in that way. I shouldn’t be spending my time in that way instead of with these people.” But, I think it’s really important that we try to get rid of those feelings of, not inadequacy, but you’re not worthy of spending your time or your money or your resources on yourself, and I think that you need to do that, right? Don’t worry about things that don’t matter, get rid of that worry, in fact. And, I think that we’ll have a lot of positivity. 

Okay, lemme pull one more card just for clarity for that one, Three of Wands, new opportunities, my friends. If we’re thinking about doing more of what we love, look for those opportunities. What skills do you already have? What things are you already passionate about that you’ve been putting on the back burner? There are endless opportunities. You’ve done so much work to get where you are right now. How do you take those and start thinking about what comes next for you and what you can then invest yourself in? You have so many opportunities, you just have to make some choices, okay? 

Now, last card we’re going to look at is something new to try for Self-care. And guys, we have the Seven of Swords and people have skewed perceptions on the Seven of Swords. Some people see it as deceptive. Some people see it as someone who’s being shady or sneaky, but I really think I look at the Seven of Swords, especially in a spot like that, where we’re looking at something new to try. It’s not deceiving people, not lying to people, but being unabashedly yourself and doing things regardless of what other people think. Even if it means that you’re doing it kind of on your own, right? It’s like you want to do the things that you want to do for you and other people might not understand. Everybody has a pastime and some people’s are a little bit different, and that’s okay. And maybe, you have people in your life that don’t understand why you’re into that thing. I mean, if you’re here getting these Tarot Readings and you’re interested in finding out all of these things spiritual, you might come from a background that is not supportive of that. That alone might be something that feels isolating a little bit. Not to say that you should feel isolated, but I do think that you should be investing in yourself and your interests and the things that make sense for you, if that makes sense. 

Okay, now I do want to pull just one more Clarifier card. What else do we need to know about this very individual thing? The Lovers, interesting, there are choices, but really when I see The Lovers, I think of it following the Heirophant. So, where the Heirophant is a part of an institution, The Lovers are on their own. They’re making choices for themselves. They’re connecting with people outside of that larger group that they’ve been a part of, that puzzle that they fit into so nicely. They’re trying to make their own world, their own path, their own goals and dreams and everything. So, I think what we need to be thinking of right now as far as what you’re doing for self-care, it needs to be yours. It needs to be something for you, maybe with someone that you love, the Lovers is there for a reason, but more than likely a path that is uniquely yours, a pastime that is uniquely yours, a passion that is uniquely yours, and you need to invest in yourself. Okay, if there’s anything I’m seeing here, it’s like take your time to know what your goals are and then pursue them, right? I think you’ve got this. I think there’s a lot to look forward to, and I look forward to seeing your comments on this one so that I can hear how this resonates for you and what you guys are looking to invest in yourself doing, okay? All right, best of luck, I’ll see you soon.