Lonely Days Are Over | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 2/4 - Cosmic Updates

Lonely Days Are Over | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 2/4

Do you ever feel like you’re alone in the world?

Deco says you could soon see a shift away from loneliness or isolation you’ve been experiencing and connect with like-minded people who could light up your world.

She’s here to help you put yourself out there, so you can find your tribe and discover how loved you truly are.

P.S. Have you been feeling like a hermit lately? Is there someone you’ve been meaning to reach out to and reconnect? Leave a comment and let Deco know!


Hello, my friends at Cosmic Updates, it is Deco back again. I know I’ve been a little, I was out of the loop this last week, but this week we’re back. I did pick a comment from the last video that I had uploaded for you guys, and I’m really excited to do another one of those. But, we are going to do a general reading for the collective just to see what you guys need to know, what you need to look forward to in these next couple of weeks, if there’s any challenges, anything like that. So, let’s shuffle these cards and then again, at the end of this video, we will do a reading for a commenter from the blog. Okay, so let’s find out what you guys need to know for the next couple of weeks.

Okay, so guys, I see some really positive things going on here. First of all, we’ve got The Sun, we’ve got the Five of Pentacles in reverse, and then we’ve got the King of Pentacles. So there’s a lot to look forward to. There’s lightness coming in in these next couple of weeks, which I think is kind of poetic coming out of January, which was a really cold, dark month, and February can often be that way. But, I think that knowing that there’s things to look forward to and positivity to look forward to can kind of change your perspective and change how you’re interacting with people on a regular basis. So, The Sun is saying that light is coming in and the Five of Pentacles in reverse, I would think, tied to that in a way that is really interesting. We’ve got the Five of Pentacles, which generally feels like you’re kind of being left out in the cold, people that you wanted to have there for you were not there, but when it’s in reverse, it’s like those times are coming to an end. So, if you’ve been feeling lonely, I feel like the next couple of weeks are definitely going to be an opportunity for you to reconnect with people. Get out of your shell again. Again, we were in a really cold couple of weeks there, and so I feel like we have an opportunity to come out of our shell, come out of our cave, if you will, and start coming together with people again and connecting with them in a way that we weren’t able to for seasonal reasons, but maybe there were some dark things that you were going through too. 

The King of Pentacles is also suggesting that we’ve got a better grasp on things, on our health, on our space, on our job, and we feel like we have more control in those areas of our life, which is going to help us feel just more comfortable in general. Again, that Sun coming in is suggesting we’ve got a lot to look forward to. 

Let’s pull a couple more cards and see what else we need to know. So, the only thing that we need to worry about is a potential negative mindset, right? Again, we’re in this dark dreary time of year where we’ve got the seasonal affective disorder where just the lack of Vitamin D is kind of wearing on us and it’s making us tired. It’s making us not social, it’s making us just kind of feel down when it’s dreary outside, it’s just not the same as when it’s sunny and bright and warm. But, I do think that there’s an opportunity for you to reconnect with your emotions throughout this time. Whatever was going on before, whatever wasn’t feeling good before this healing journey, I feel like you have the clarity of your emotional intelligence to help you to move forward. But, I also think that this is a time to trust your intuition and trust your gut. Water is tied not only to our emotions, but also to our intuition and those feelings that we get that help us with our decision making. 

And, I think that there’s some big things to consider here, especially with that Five of Pentacles in reverse in the first part of this reading. Remember, we’re moving out of a time where we’re feeling lonely, but the Five of Swords is in reverse in this reading too, which is telling me that you’re also confronting past relationships that weren’t good for you, past relationships where you didn’t know if people were for you or against you. And, I think that there’s clarity here partially because again, you’ve got that King of Pentacles, that Queen of Cups, which are saying you’re very in tune with your emotions, but you’re also very in tune with your logic and your space and you know what feels good for you and what you need to get rid of. So, I think this is the opportunity for you to really claim your space, claim your energy, not allow iffy people to stick around in your life. They just don’t belong there, and I think that you know who those people are and you’re not going to allow them to get in your way of the things that you want for yourself. So, there’s a lot to look forward to. I just think the one thing we need to overcome is that negative headspace that you might kind of not be clinging to, but have a hard time getting rid of. So, definitely give yourself an opportunity to try to see things in a different light. 

Okay, now the reading or the comment that I saw was from, and I’m sorry if I don’t pronounce your last name correctly, is for Magdalena Chicocha, and she was going through a lot. There was her company of five years is literally moving to a different country. She went through multiple surgeries, so she had to take a step back from her sport, which was a huge part of her life. And then, of course, she had a 10 year long relationship that ended only for her to be drawn to someone else. And so, the main question that I saw in your comment, Magdalena, was do I focus on healing or do I focus on this job hunt? What do I need to focus on right now? So, what I’m going to do is pull some cards and just see what you need to focus on right now in order to keep moving forward, to try to get your head space back in a healthy spot and just to see again what to focus on as you’re moving forward. It might be a combination of a lot of things. So, let’s find out what you need to focus on, Magdalena.

Okay, so Magdalena, it’s murky, right? It’s not easy to see how to move forward here. And, I think part of it is that you don’t know where your end goal is. You don’t know what your long-term goals are anymore. The end of a 10 year long relationship, that changes things. The end of five years at a job that you really cared for, that changes things. The end of a passion that you had for years, that changes things. And so, I think really what the focus is right now is to follow, again, your gut. 

The Moon is tied to water just like that Queen of Cups and the general reading that we did. The Moon is like, obviously, things aren’t super clear at night, right? Even if a Full Moon is in the sky, things might be illuminated, but that doesn’t mean that there’s a clear way forward or a clear path, and we have to use our gut. We have to feel things out and see what feels right. And, The Moon is suggesting that we need to follow our gut more than anything. 

But, The Magician being in reverse like this, that’s where I’m thinking we have a hard time knowing what our goals are, where we want to be, what our long-term plans are for ourselves. We have a hard time making a plan for how to get there. I do think that you’re not allowing people to see that, the Knight of Wands in reverse is someone who has a front up. They make big promises, but maybe there’s not a lot of follow through there. And so, we need to be thinking about how we show up authentically and how we say, you know what? We are having a hard time right now. You are very vulnerable in your comment. And, I think that it’s really easy to do that over the internet and to write a comment and say, this is what I’m struggling with. But, it’s a challenge to say that to the people that we care about and to say, Hey, I’m struggling and I need support. And, I think that it’s important that you remember that you can be vulnerable and you can tell people what you’re struggling with, and that might help a little bit with direction, too.

Let’s pull some more cards though and see what else you need to know. Okay, so yes, you are right at the end of this Tower moment. These crazy things have been going on, you’ve been struggling a lot with a variety of places in your life, your work, your relationship, your passions, and those are very emotionally heavy. Those feel like everything that you’ve been working for are kind of crumbling around you. But, I see the end in sight. Yes, you feel out of control. Yes, you’re having a hard time communicating with people around you and seeing things in a new way, but I think there’s an opportunity here for you to start fresh even though it doesn’t feel great right now. I hate to say that I don’t have a specific area for you to focus on, but I think there’s so many different changes in your life that I think, obviously healing is important and coming to terms with the things that have changed is very important. But, what I think we need to focus on more than anything is just finding your roots again, reestablishing who you are and what you want to put out into the world. I do see you’re having a hard time communicating with people, relating to people, feeling like you have control over your space and your health and your relationships. It kind of feels out of your hands, but that’s what The Tower brings, is kind of some chaos and confusion. And, I think that at the end of that, when we start to see the dust settle again, is when we can start making big changes in our life and considering what’s most important. I think that’s what you need to focus on. Magdalena. 

I’m going to pull an Oracle for you also. Okay? I love this. It’s called A New Earth, It’s Happening, Keep Holding The Vision. So, where you are right now, the things that you’re doing for yourself, I think you mentioned in your comment that you’re seeking physical therapy right now, I think that investing in yourself in those areas and in those ways is how you’re going to move forward. Focusing on the healing that you do have control over, which would be the health of your body. You had surgeries, there’s important steps to be taken in order for you to feel strong after those. And, I think that you are prioritizing those, so continue to do that, but also take that time to invest in the things that make sense for you. It says, “It’s Already Happening”, so there are things that you’re already doing that, with more persistence, more consistency, and continued focus over time, are going to kind of solve themselves. And, I think that part of it, like time, is the great healer. If we just take the time to keep moving forward, keep focusing on what makes us feel good, that’s when we’ll feel really good about ourselves and when we’ll feel like things are starting to settle into the place that they need to be. So, trust yourself, trust that you’re making the best choices for you, and if something doesn’t feel right, don’t do it anymore. Make sure that you are focusing on what feels right in your time right now, and that’s how we’re going to move forward. 

All right, guys. I think we have a lot to look forward to, all of us. I think a lot of people are going through healing journeys right now, and I think that there’s even more to be had, but look for the light. I know, like I said, it’s a really dreary time right now. I think as long as you’re looking for those things that bring light into your life, you’re going to have a lot of positivity that follows. Best of luck, friends.

Deco Lo
Deco Lo

Deco is an intuitive tarot reader whose mission is to give guidance to those who need it. She has a passion for making connections with those she reads for and loves to teach others about tarot. Deco loves learning and is always looking to deepen her understanding of the tarot and its spiritual connections.

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    Gerry Hart
    Posted at 03:36h, 06 February Reply

    Ny name is Gerry. I am a disabled man who has gone through a life of suffering. Can’t say if it was my own fault or outside forces. It just feels my life has been a series of wrong choices with little accomplishment. However, I feel 2024 will be different ? Am I right ? Will the year focus on finances, career, or finding Mrs. Right? I’d really would like to know. I
    have been following you for several months now, Deco. You exude a glowing aura of warmth and I like your smile

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    Magdalena Cichocka
    Posted at 16:54h, 05 February Reply

    Dear Deco,
    I trust that you are doing well.

    Thank you very much for your reading.

    I was in shock as I know that many of people would like to receive the reading so I’m truly grateful that you have decided to answer on the questions.

    You reading gave me a lot of clarity and an insight where I should put my focus on and I’m happy to hear that I have opportunity to start fresh and heal the wounds.
    You are right. I don’t like to be out of control in my life and I also have problem with communication. It seems like I’m very talkative and friends like to chat with me but I don’t share how much I struggle with my life right now.

    I will try to focus on healing and also on letting go what is not serving me anymore.

    P.S. You have pronounced my name correct ☺️

    I really appreciate you 🙏🏻.

    Thank you.

    Wish you all the best!

    Best regards,

    • Deco Lo
      Deco Lo
      Posted at 18:09h, 05 February Reply

      I’m so glad it resonated with you Magdalena! Best of luck 🙂

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    Claudia Barillas
    Posted at 07:10h, 05 February Reply

    This year is different. little by little everything changes around me. It’s like the end of one chapter and at the same time the beginning of another. I am finally emotionally balanced and without expectations I enjoy the change. Thank you for your reading.

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      Bella ingosi
      Posted at 07:39h, 05 February Reply

      Hi Deco am lonely and I wish to get someone who is loving and caring

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    Maria A Romero
    Posted at 07:05h, 05 February Reply

    Hi Deco,
    Your readings are inspirational and I will contact you personally because the things I have to talk about are of a personal level with my true love

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    Angelo Diaz
    Posted at 22:58h, 04 February Reply

    I feel like nothing is going my way, been down, no help just got myself if I’m being honest.Relationship wise everything is just not good due to this new gen z( worst gen)…they’re either stuck up on their x, want attention, and or just mess around and waste your time.I am lost if I’m completely honest.

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      Bella ingosi
      Posted at 07:35h, 05 February Reply

      Iam so lonely yes I wish I could find someone loving and caring and not from my country , I have an urge to international races and tribes

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    Posted at 21:22h, 04 February Reply

    Hi Deco, I like you reading today. keep up the good work!

    • Deco Lo
      Deco Lo
      Posted at 18:10h, 05 February Reply

      Thank you Winsome! I appreciate the feedback 🙂

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    Josephine Davies
    Posted at 20:07h, 04 February Reply

    I would appreciate your help very much as I’m fed up of being on my own and I would love to meet someone who will treat with love and respect and I’m also worried about being in debt and not being able to pay them all as I live on my own and have no one I can turn to help with this problem

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      Leticia leon
      Posted at 03:55h, 05 February Reply

      For the last few years of my life iv been struggling to come out of a depression fallowing a total life change losing my mother mother in law as well as my husband gets 25 yr sentences for murder I’m afraid of making the wrong choice to completely leave the marriage or find love were we couldn’t in each other. My mind is some what clear but I still have dought on what I should do

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    Paula Ryan
    Posted at 19:01h, 04 February Reply

    Been married for 36 years..
    We had separated since last June he had moved out of state from where I am.
    I am talking to someone on the phone for several weeks now ! Do I try to go back to my husband or just get out , and do u see me going out with the guy I am talking too?

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    Phillip S. Roberts
    Posted at 18:52h, 04 February Reply

    Thank you for your reading today! I have a bit of a question – – I have a young friend, who is also a model; she and I photograph, at least once a month. I find myself in a peculiar position; I have strong feelings for her, and even though I am professional in my work – extremely, so, I find that my heart is with this young woman to the point to wear I help her out more than I have anybody else. As I write this, I realize that we are supposed to meet tomorrow (Monday) for our monthly shooting, and I can’t help but feel that she will finally open up about her life. I hope you can tell me what you see in this; as when I think of her, I find a bit of confusion, but I feel that my help is proper; and rather than just turn my back on her, I can’t help but help her.

    What do your cards tell me about this person?

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    Lisa Goins
    Posted at 17:54h, 04 February Reply

    I really feel like it was meant for me. Maybe because I want to buy whatever. I thought it was really great. I’m just have a bit of bad luck and could only hope it gets better. First a tree falls on me goin down the road then I loss my job because of it. Just one thing after another. I try to treat people the way I want to be treated. So I don’t know why things just keeps happening to me. Or what I have done. But thank you. And shine bright my dear

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      Posted at 18:41h, 04 February Reply

      I Timothy I have been looking for a long-term for 4, years now since my else left me and I have been lonely and I am looking for long-term relationship and I have not received any response from any person and I am tired I need true love and the astrologers have told me that very soon I will see a true lover I am tired when will it’s be please help me out I don’t know what to do anymore

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      Deco Lo
      Posted at 18:11h, 05 February Reply

      Sometimes life does not feel fair. Luckily, the universe works hard to find balance in everything. After low lows, come high highs. Keep your eyes on the horizon!

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    Posted at 17:15h, 04 February Reply

    Hi , I enjoyed first part of reading – general
    The private 1 not so much , did hold on to the end Incase you wanted to give us all a end message
    Hopefully you learn from people’s views .

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    Posted at 16:46h, 04 February Reply

    thanks for these insights. I appreciate you Deco. ;>}

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    Celestina Micillo
    Posted at 16:36h, 04 February Reply

    Thomas , my relationship I have been having …. He has gone quiet. Am I going to hear from him soon?

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    Kelly Vang
    Posted at 12:04h, 04 February Reply

    Hi there Mrs Deco. I appreciate your readings with everyone and myself. I find them very guiding. ☺️ Now as to what I like to ask, should you answer it one day, my question is; There’s a person who I no longer see or well, talk to due to some lack of communication and truth of their words make me question their feelings for me. I don’t know if I should let them back into my life or move forward. No, they didn’t harm me bad, yet…I feel like I end up discovering the truth of them in a very sad way. Part of me wants to hear the truth from them, parts of me wants to be better off forgetting them and not bother on reconnecting or giving myself false wishful thinking of reconciliation. 😞 I have taken those events seriously afterwards, maybe I have always been serious about life. Or the fact that I’ve been harden and scarred by many events prior to the one that I am unsure about. Thank you for your time and understanding.

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    Toya Jackson
    Posted at 11:36h, 04 February Reply

    Hi, Deco,
    I’m currently talking to a guy that I met about a month ago. There was instant attraction on my part really fast. I gravitated toward his aura and felt that he was very genuine and a good person. I felt that which intrigued me to want to get to know him on a deeper level. In light of everything he has a lot on his plate dealing with his father that has dementia and helping his mother is taking a toll on him. Whereas sometimes he falls into a deep depression and just shuts me off and becomes distant. He says he cares about me like a care about him but sometimes I get mixed messages from him. He sometimes tells me to leave him alone and he doesn’t know if he wants a relationship or not. He says he’s scared all the time bc of his past relationship wasn’t good. It seems like he’s hot one minute then cold. I’m so confused. Should I just walk away for good?

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    Roxanne Frempong
    Posted at 07:57h, 04 February Reply

    Hi Deco,

    I love your readings. Your message this morning resonated with me so well. I’ve been in isolation for the last 4 years as I don’t know who to trust anymore. Who is being honest and who is wearing a mask. This includes family and friends. Im dealing with an individual from a previous employment who has been retaliating against me via cybercrime and cyberbullying (retaliation against the whistleblower). They know its hard to prove to law enforcement so they continue to do it. Its caused alot of mental distress. I believe some family members and friends no more about this situation and who and why its being done to me. However no one is assisting me. This individual has entourage of people helping them. They even mess with my work computer causing me to have lost 3 jobs in the past. Then I lost a relationship with someone that I was very much in love with and I believe this situation played a major role. As I believe my family pulled my guy into this web of deceit and betrayal. Then diagnosed with cervical Cancer on 9/1/2023. Just completed radiation treatment. I try to stay positive and not give this cyber bully and her entourage my energy as I attempt to keep my stress level down, but it continues. Went to the FBI, SBI, and local kae enforcement, but to no avail. I find myself angry and always in a negative headspace because I believe the injustice that im experiencing is so eggregious; its not fair. Will this ever end? Will these folks be held accountable for their behavior? Will I ever get to live a normal life again?

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    Posted at 07:40h, 04 February Reply

    Dzień dobry, jestem w miejscu w którym myślałam naiwnie że nigdy nie będę – zostałam zdradzona, musiałam to udowodnić, chciałam zrozumieć dlaczego? chciałam pracować nad poprawą relacji… dzisiaj jestem już po rozwodzie ; związek trwał ponad 25 lat, mam dwoje dorosłych już dzieci. Jestem przyznaję zagubiona w tym wszystkim. Nagle dowiedziałam się rzeczy, które nie miały miejsca ale jak zwykle w takiej sytuacji ten który chce odejść znajdzie same minusy wspólnego życia…
    Chciałam zapytać po prostu o jakieś wskazówki co dalej i czy były już mąż wróci – czy można się tego dowiedzieć z kart?

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    Lisa Johnson
    Posted at 07:31h, 04 February Reply

    Thank you Deco 🇬🇧🙏🏽💛💡always . what a beautiful reading, I was so in tune with this reading today , as I am feeling so so lonely , I had a major disagreement with my son and he walked away from our home , for over a week and came back last Wednesday. I am always the care giver the Empress but , During this period, i had a lot of conflictive emotions. I began to question myself , my being , my personality and felt empty, as I was questioning the people around me in my time of need as I felt no one was truly there for me . My boyfriend text me at 12:08 am that evening asking if I was ok ,this was the first time , I became vulnerable with him , but after this , I felt somewhat like was this the right , way to be let my guards down and let him In because, now I am questioning our dynamics , as I feel his consistency is lacking , he has a lot going on his own life , fighting for his rights to remain and gain his status to become a British citizen, he out his paperwork’s into the court on December 2023 and is awaiting the outcome, all this is a big weight on his shoulders and I sense that he is pull back on me , because of this too and we have a distant between us as he lives in a different part of England to me as well . My question is will their be light at the end of our challenge to truly come together and does he want this relationship to work, is he In it for creating a long term relationship?

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      Deco Lo
      Posted at 18:15h, 05 February Reply

      The best you can do, Lisa, is continue to be 100%, consistently you. Remember that you don’t only have to give away your Empress energy, but give some of it to you too! You deserve to be pampered, and sometimes the biggest disservice we do to ourselves is waiting for someone else to give us the energy that we continue to pour out freely. Make sure to communicate openly with him and prioritize yourself. Being vulnerable will show his true colors!

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    Posted at 05:07h, 04 February Reply

    Go deep not shallow

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    Posted at 05:06h, 04 February Reply

    I don’t know why you have started doing this, Here’s some marketing tips
    a) maybe your viewings are going down or b) maybe you are trying to drum up some more paid private readings. There have been several times where your video has not been posted, and I suspect it is because you have caring duties that get in the way. Your readings are normally good but private readings should be private so offer someone a free private session outside the group reading if giving a free private reading is what you want to do
    b) If you are trying to drum up private reading then here are some ideas. Offer customer value – focus on the value. Be authentic so be upfront about the cost and the outcome, many tarot readers seem to have an endless billing system, but maybe not you. Offer a fixed price, offer a discounted price, timed reading and what they will get. Offer a lucky dip free reading outside your group reading.

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    Posted at 04:26h, 04 February Reply

    Nooooo! Too personal. Magdalena, without health you have nothing but you can focus on 2 or 3 things, let it flow.

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      Josephine Davies
      Posted at 19:58h, 04 February Reply

      I’m having problems with my love life meaning I’m having trouble finding someone and also I’m having problems with with money problems I would be grateful if you could please help me

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        Posted at 04:30h, 05 February Reply

        Josephine, I am not Decco so cannot help with your love life or money issues.

        From experience, it is best to start loving yourself and having less dependence on someone else fulfilling your need to feel valued. As for money, Yoga and meditation were the two things that helped me find my peace. I can only say stop buying and start saving, different values so change your perception and be happy with peace of mind.

        Decco might have better advice.

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