Lonely Days Are Over | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 2/4

Do you ever feel like you’re alone in the world? Deco says you could soon see a shift away from loneliness or isolation you’ve been experiencing and connect with like-minded people who could light up your world. She’s here to help you put yourself out there, so you can find your tribe and discover how loved you truly are.

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TRANSCRIPT:

Hello, my friends at Cosmic Updates, it is Deco back again. I know I’ve been a little, I was out of the loop this last week, but this week we’re back. I did pick a comment from the last video that I had uploaded for you guys, and I’m really excited to do another one of those. But, we are going to do a general reading for the collective just to see what you guys need to know, what you need to look forward to in these next couple of weeks, if there’s any challenges, anything like that. So, let’s shuffle these cards and then again, at the end of this video, we will do a reading for a commenter from the blog. Okay, so let’s find out what you guys need to know for the next couple of weeks. Okay, so guys, I see some really positive things going on here. First of all, we’ve got The Sun, we’ve got the Five of Pentacles in reverse, and then we’ve got the King of Pentacles. So there’s a lot to look forward to. There’s lightness coming in in these next couple of weeks, which I think is kind of poetic coming out of January, which was a really cold, dark month, and February can often be that way. But, I think that knowing that there’s things to look forward to and positivity to look forward to can kind of change your perspective and change how you’re interacting with people on a regular basis. So, The Sun is saying that light is coming in and the Five of Pentacles in reverse, I would think, tied to that in a way that is really interesting. We’ve got the Five of Pentacles, which generally feels like you’re kind of being left out in the cold, people that you wanted to have there for you were not there, but when it’s in reverse, it’s like those times are coming to an end. So, if you’ve been feeling lonely, I feel like the next couple of weeks are definitely going to be an opportunity for you to reconnect with people. Get out of your shell again. Again, we were in a really cold couple of weeks there, and so I feel like we have an opportunity to come out of our shell, come out of our cave, if you will, and start coming together with people again and connecting with them in a way that we weren’t able to for seasonal reasons, but maybe there were some dark things that you were going through too.  The King of Pentacles is also suggesting that we’ve got a better grasp on things, on our health, on our space, on our job, and we feel like we have more control in those areas of our life, which is going to help us feel just more comfortable in general. Again, that Sun coming in is suggesting we’ve got a lot to look forward to.  Let’s pull a couple more cards and see what else we need to know. So, the only thing that we need to worry about is a potential negative mindset, right? Again, we’re in this dark dreary time of year where we’ve got the seasonal affective disorder where just the lack of Vitamin D is kind of wearing on us and it’s making us tired. It’s making us not social, it’s making us just kind of feel down when it’s dreary outside, it’s just not the same as when it’s sunny and bright and warm. But, I do think that there’s an opportunity for you to reconnect with your emotions throughout this time. Whatever was going on before, whatever wasn’t feeling good before this healing journey, I feel like you have the clarity of your emotional intelligence to help you to move forward. But, I also think that this is a time to trust your intuition and trust your gut. Water is tied not only to our emotions, but also to our intuition and those feelings that we get that help us with our decision making.  And, I think that there’s some big things to consider here, especially with that Five of Pentacles in reverse in the first part of this reading. Remember, we’re moving out of a time where we’re feeling lonely, but the Five of Swords is in reverse in this reading too, which is telling me that you’re also confronting past relationships that weren’t good for you, past relationships where you didn’t know if people were for you or against you. And, I think that there’s clarity here partially because again, you’ve got that King of Pentacles, that Queen of Cups, which are saying you’re very in tune with your emotions, but you’re also very in tune with your logic and your space and you know what feels good for you and what you need to get rid of. So, I think this is the opportunity for you to really claim your space, claim your energy, not allow iffy people to stick around in your life. They just don’t belong there, and I think that you know who those people are and you’re not going to allow them to get in your way of the things that you want for yourself. So, there’s a lot to look forward to. I just think the one thing we need to overcome is that negative headspace that you might kind of not be clinging to, but have a hard time getting rid of. So, definitely give yourself an opportunity to try to see things in a different light.  Okay, now the reading or the comment that I saw was from, and I’m sorry if I don’t pronounce your last name correctly, is for Magdalena Chicocha, and she was going through a lot. There was her company of five years is literally moving to a different country. She went through multiple surgeries, so she had to take a step back from her sport, which was a huge part of her life. And then, of course, she had a 10 year long relationship that ended only for her to be drawn to someone else. And so, the main question that I saw in your comment, Magdalena, was do I focus on healing or do I focus on this job hunt? What do I need to focus on right now? So, what I’m going to do is pull some cards and just see what you need to focus on right now in order to keep moving forward, to try to get your head space back in a healthy spot and just to see again what to focus on as you’re moving forward. It might be a combination of a lot of things. So, let’s find out what you need to focus on, Magdalena. Okay, so Magdalena, it’s murky, right? It’s not easy to see how to move forward here. And, I think part of it is that you don’t know where your end goal is. You don’t know what your long-term goals are anymore. The end of a 10 year long relationship, that changes things. The end of five years at a job that you really cared for, that changes things. The end of a passion that you had for years, that changes things. And so, I think really what the focus is right now is to follow, again, your gut.  The Moon is tied to water just like that Queen of Cups and the general reading that we did. The Moon is like, obviously, things aren’t super clear at night, right? Even if a Full Moon is in the sky, things might be illuminated, but that doesn’t mean that there’s a clear way forward or a clear path, and we have to use our gut. We have to feel things out and see what feels right. And, The Moon is suggesting that we need to follow our gut more than anything.  But, The Magician being in reverse like this, that’s where I’m thinking we have a hard time knowing what our goals are, where we want to be, what our long-term plans are for ourselves. We have a hard time making a plan for how to get there. I do think that you’re not allowing people to see that, the Knight of Wands in reverse is someone who has a front up. They make big promises, but maybe there’s not a lot of follow through there. And so, we need to be thinking about how we show up authentically and how we say, you know what? We are having a hard time right now. You are very vulnerable in your comment. And, I think that it’s really easy to do that over the internet and to write a comment and say, this is what I’m struggling with. But, it’s a challenge to say that to the people that we care about and to say, Hey, I’m struggling and I need support. And, I think that it’s important that you remember that you can be vulnerable and you can tell people what you’re struggling with, and that might help a little bit with direction, too. Let’s pull some more cards though and see what else you need to know. Okay, so yes, you are right at the end of this Tower moment. These crazy things have been going on, you’ve been struggling a lot with a variety of places in your life, your work, your relationship, your passions, and those are very emotionally heavy. Those feel like everything that you’ve been working for are kind of crumbling around you. But, I see the end in sight. Yes, you feel out of control. Yes, you’re having a hard time communicating with people around you and seeing things in a new way, but I think there’s an opportunity here for you to start fresh even though it doesn’t feel great right now. I hate to say that I don’t have a specific area for you to focus on, but I think there’s so many different changes in your life that I think, obviously healing is important and coming to terms with the things that have changed is very important. But, what I think we need to focus on more than anything is just finding your roots again, reestablishing who you are and what you want to put out into the world. I do see you’re having a hard time communicating with people, relating to people, feeling like you have control over your space and your health and your relationships. It kind of feels out of your hands, but that’s what The Tower brings, is kind of some chaos and confusion. And, I think that at the end of that, when we start to see the dust settle again, is when we can start making big changes in our life and considering what’s most important. I think that’s what you need to focus on. Magdalena.  I’m going to pull an Oracle for you also. Okay? I love this. It’s called A New Earth, It’s Happening, Keep Holding The Vision. So, where you are right now, the things that you’re doing for yourself, I think you mentioned in your comment that you’re seeking physical therapy right now, I think that investing in yourself in those areas and in those ways is how you’re going to move forward. Focusing on the healing that you do have control over, which would be the health of your body. You had surgeries, there’s important steps to be taken in order for you to feel strong after those. And, I think that you are prioritizing those, so continue to do that, but also take that time to invest in the things that make sense for you. It says, “It’s Already Happening”, so there are things that you’re already doing that, with more persistence, more consistency, and continued focus over time, are going to kind of solve themselves. And, I think that part of it, like time, is the great healer. If we just take the time to keep moving forward, keep focusing on what makes us feel good, that’s when we’ll feel really good about ourselves and when we’ll feel like things are starting to settle into the place that they need to be. So, trust yourself, trust that you’re making the best choices for you, and if something doesn’t feel right, don’t do it anymore. Make sure that you are focusing on what feels right in your time right now, and that’s how we’re going to move forward.  All right, guys. I think we have a lot to look forward to, all of us. I think a lot of people are going through healing journeys right now, and I think that there’s even more to be had, but look for the light. I know, like I said, it’s a really dreary time right now. I think as long as you’re looking for those things that bring light into your life, you’re going to have a lot of positivity that follows. Best of luck, friends.