Getting Your Needs Met | Weekend Love Reading 3/11-3/13 - Cosmic Updates

Getting Your Needs Met | Weekend Love Reading 3/11-3/13

Hey there Tarot Family…

Are you feeling a silvery tingle in your blood at the moment? A little shiver at the back of your neck in the mornings when you first go outside?

Perhaps your soul is responding to the forthcoming change in the seasons.

In the northern hemisphere, the evenings are lengthening, and the first green shoots are starting to show. 

In the south, darker evenings with starry skies are approaching.

With change in the air, it’s the perfect time to open up and welcome something new, or to freshen up and clean what you already have.

Perhaps you need to take a fresh look at your love life too?

In today’s Weekend Love Reading, we see signs that it may be time to do some spring cleaning in your relationships to see what’s working for you, and what isn’t. 

So let’s get started…

Card #1: King of Wands | Burning Passion

Is there someone in your life that’s been lighting your fire lately? 

The King of Wands is a powerful figure, bringing super high energy to everything he does.

That’s not surprising, for Wands are associated with the element of fire. His throne is decorated with salamanders, legendary creatures that can live in the flames. The many lions symbolize his strength.

Someone with King of Wands qualities is charismatic. They’re easy to spot in a crowded room, where you’ll see them dazzling their companions. Everyone around them feels good in their orbit.

In love, they are generous, honest, and romantic.

When the King of Wands appears, it shows that you may be involved with someone who has these amazing magnetic qualities.

If you’re single, someone with this large, warm presence may be entering your life. You’ll know because they make you feel excited and alive, as their energy sweeps you along. At the same time, you’ll feel nourished and safe, as they have such capable strength.

If you’re in a new relationship, this person could make you feel special. They’re likely charming, fun to be with, and enjoy showering you with romantic gestures and gifts. You might even feel like you’ve found “the one!”

There’s just one thing. Can you keep up with their high energy approach to life?

It’s easy to be so dazzled in the beginning that you forget to slow down. The King of Wands can indicate a passion so hot that it burns up fast and becomes unstable. So be careful.

Make sure this person isn’t just filling your head with empty promises they can’t keep, which is also possible. 

However, as your next card reveals, there might also be someone else fighting for your attention this weekend…

Someone that’s on the total opposite side of the scale.

Card #2: Knight of Pentacles | Steady Support

While the King of Wands suggests someone passionate and daring…

The Knight of Pentacles indicates someone else who’s much more grounded, stable, thoughtful, and down to Earth. 

A Knight in your cards symbolizes the qualities of being ambitious and forward looking. With the Knight of Pentacles, this approach is built on the qualities of hard work, loyalty, and faith. 

In this card, the Knight holds a coin in his hand and his horse stands with all four feet on the ground. His world is solid and stable, because he is a practical thinker. 

This is progress built on strong foundations, for he has considered every detail and possible outcome. 

Not much is left to chance with the Knight of Pentacles.

This is the kind of person who really wants to share their dreams with you, and as they do, you’ll find out their dreams are well mapped out and planned to the T – years in advance. 

You can be sure that whatever experiences you share will NOT be risky or filled with surprises. 

Unlike the King of Wands who can be unpredictable…

What you see is what you get with the Knight of Pentacles. 

If you’re currently single, there’s a chance that you may look past this person at first. While they are not the first person you notice, understand that they have thought about what you’re looking for – and how they can offer it.

This potential lover isn’t usually interested in short-term fun, although passion is certainly not off the table. If they’re paying attention to you, it’s because they think of you a lot.

If you’re looking for long term commitment, this lover can make the ideal life partner – ready and willing to share responsibilities and shoulder the load.

They have deeper qualities that may only become visible in time, or in your times of greatest need. You can always be sure of this partner’s support.

If you’re committed, and your lover is taking on these qualities, they may not be trying to turn your world upside down… but instead make it a safer, happier one. 

Either way, it’s possible that you’re being torn between wanting your romance to be more passionate like the King of Wands, or being more predictable like the Knight of Pentacles. 

But what if you want a relationship that is both exciting and supportive?

Our third card says, “Yes, it’s possible.” 

Card #3: Two of Wands | Finding Harmony

You really can find balance in relationships – if you know what you want.

In this card, a man gazes out to distant horizons. In his hand is a globe, symbolizing the world of potential that’s out there available to him, if he can only take those first steps.

His orange robe shows that he has a passionate energy, but at the moment, something is holding him back.

This card represents the exciting possibilities in your life, if you can find the courage and strength to step towards the adventures that are waiting.

And so it is with love.

In Tarot, ‘Two’ cards are all about duality. In love, the Two of Wands is about finding strength through harmony, before moving towards new horizons in life with your partner.

The important thing is to know what you want at this point in your life and what your partner – or your future partner – really wants in your relationship.

If you’re single, you might be looking at two different lovers, represented by the King of Wands and the Knight of Pentacles. 

Since both offer entirely different relationships – one exciting and one stable – your choice comes down to what you need most in your life. 

The Two of Wands is asking you to choose your direction and prepare to start the romantic journey that’s truly the right fit for you. 

If you’re committed, take a look at what you have in common. Note that a lot of these points may make you smile!

And then, take a look at where your differences lie. These differences are often positive, as they can keep life interesting and full of pleasurable surprises.

But it’s important that you want the same things, and are headed in the same direction. 

Major differences can be deal breakers when your goals and interests in life are not the same.

There’s good news, though…

The ideal relationship is often a blend of the above, offering excitement and steadiness in equal measures.

The Two of Wands is asking you to take stock in what you need – not “want,” but really need from a relationship at this point in your life. 

Because at the end of the day… only you know what works best for you.

What Do You Really Need In Love?

Your cards this week are asking you to take a good look at what you really need from a relationship.

It’s time to be completely honest with yourself.  

Are you hankering for a fiery passionate affair, or do you yearn for a partner who can help you shoulder life’s responsibilities?

If you’re feeling underwhelmed in love, someone with more passion could add spark to your life. Your ideal partner may have some more King of Wands characteristics in their personal mix.

If you’re feeling disappointed by someone’s lack of commitment, you may find a better match with someone who has more than a sprinkling of Knight of Pentacles features.

Or maybe you need someone with a bit of both, who’s passionate in the good times, yet is supportive and thoughtful when the going gets tough?

It’s worth thinking about this for a while, to let your thoughts and feelings float to the surface.

You may find that your answers have always been the same, and your present relationship is just right. That’s wonderful news!

On the other hand, you may find your answers have changed in the past year or so. Life has been eventful and, like the seasons, you’ve moved forward. And that’s wonderful, too.

For whichever is true, the Two of Wands shows that if you can find harmony with someone who wants the same things as you, the future can become filled with exciting and wonderful new possibilities.

Trust yourself to make the right decision this weekend. 

The future is yours for the making.  

With love,

Jane Lister

P.S. Are you feeling torn between two decisions in love? Do you know what you really need? Please share in the comments, as I’d love to know.

About The Author: Jane Lister has developed her psychic abilities in her native England and now her adopted home of Australia. She has a PhD in animal science and spends much of her time healing horses and dogs on physical, emotional and energetic levels.

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    Scott Anderson
    Posted at 02:47h, 13 March Reply

    Hello and good evening to you I am torn by the way my lover had been doing things lately but it’s not making sense to me and I don’t want to give up but she has left me only to run back in to the arms of her x and hurt my soul deeply with her actions and I will keep waiting to she if she comes back or not and I do believe that she will but at what experience will it be because I am a little bit of a different kind of man than most I am a faithful man I don’t cheat and I will never talk bad about the one I love and understand that she is only human an as humans we all make mistakes in our life time I am a strong believer in the if you love them than you love them and work through it and forgive them after thave come back when they have seen the made a bad choice in the way thy have done things in our relationship but when is it to much to Baer with how many times can you let some one make mistakes before it is no longer a mistake but a disrespectful choice there making and becomes a insalt to my kind hearted loving soul

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      Posted at 10:01h, 13 March Reply

      My dude… this woman has no respect for you. Cut her off, raise your standards, and move on!

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    Viviane Banoun
    Posted at 00:39h, 13 March Reply

    I want someone stable and grounded. A good man that will take me for a long life together,
    Thank you and hope you will come again

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:13h, 15 March Reply

      Thank you, Viviane.
      – Jane

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    Valois M Mickens
    Posted at 23:45h, 12 March Reply

    Your reading is interesting, but none of it applies to me. Although I don’t look it, I am in the last stages of life, been married, had my child now grown. The spark is still there, but I am alone.
    I have met both tupes you speak of. Still alone.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:16h, 15 March Reply

      I wish you all the best for the future. Keep nurturing that spark 🌟
      – Jane

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    Posted at 23:30h, 12 March Reply

    I love it! I am grateful of your predictions, very valuable at this stage of my life. Thank you so much!

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:16h, 15 March Reply

      Thank you for this! – Jane

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    Michael Crespino
    Posted at 15:51h, 12 March Reply

    Much to chew on for me Regarding this reading. I am recently heartbroken and doing a deep dive into my needs in relationship to myself and with partners. I’m not feeling nearly ready for any kind of new love to enter beyond seeing how the immediate world in my bubble loves on me. Non romantically. I continue to wish and hope that the Separation from my last partner will bring about necessary changes for us both and that the possibility to come together again exist. I often find myself yearning for the positive aspects of our relationship, the comfort, the lightness and the touch. I know we both could do away with the fear driven anxiety that ruined it. This is really hard. I want us both to grow and come back so much sometimes that I close off to any other indications of romance from elsewhere.
    There have been a few knocks at my door since the breakup and I’m still in a comparison mindset. This weekend is supposed to be interesting? I’m scared! Lol

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:19h, 15 March Reply

      It sounds like time is your friend here – take as much of it as you need moving forwards. I wish you well.
      – Jane

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    Posted at 10:47h, 12 March Reply

    Hi this reading gave me so much clarity. I love it and being on this journey that I am. I know who the one is for me. Universe is guiding me into the right direction.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:20h, 15 March Reply

      That’s wonderful to hear. Thank you for sharing!
      – Jane

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    Posted at 05:37h, 12 March Reply

    Omg! U are amazing! U read me like a book.i can’t believe it! I have been with the same man for 10 yrs and we haven’t moved wanting more and he keeps making excuses.but I do love heart is torn also! Hurts cause he doesn’t want to move forward.anothet wants to be with me.give me what I want and I don’t know how to handle it.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:21h, 15 March Reply

      I am glad this has helped. Stay true to yourself.
      – Jane

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    Posted at 05:29h, 12 March Reply

    How did you know I have two suitors this weekend? Two completely different end of the spectrum . And my heart is with one grounded, stable., supportive and long term relationship . I’m 51 and have had many fiery and passionate short flings. My king of wand is a cocky self doubt over thinker who changed his mind and cancelled our dinner date so I went out with my king of pentacle who I just found out he actually owns a house in a place where I want to retire ! So it’s all happy ending as I can see my king of pentacles adores me and can’t wait to show me off.

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      Heng Heng
      Posted at 15:59h, 12 March Reply

      thank you very much with note.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:24h, 15 March Reply

      It sounds as if you know exactly what you want and need, Melanie! Wishing you well – Jane

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    Posted at 03:35h, 12 March Reply

    I want a passionate, stable, lifelong, respectful, romantic and honest relationship. Full of unconditional love that is more exciting.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:25h, 15 March Reply

      This is so positive!
      – Jane

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    Posted at 03:33h, 12 March Reply

    Thank you, I want is a passionate, stable, lifelong, happy and supportive relationship. A kind of unconditional love full of passion, romantic, respectful and Honest.

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    Vivian Penda Sylva
    Posted at 02:53h, 12 March Reply

    Thank you so much for the reading. Yes I hope to get my needs met by God’s Grace. I need attention, respect, to be his Priority, to be love unconditional and for the relationship to be wonderful and nourish, with laughter and happiness

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:27h, 15 March Reply

      You’re welcome. I hope you find all this and more.
      – Jane

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    Posted at 01:10h, 12 March Reply

    Very lovely reading, thank you 😊

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:27h, 15 March Reply

      You’re very welcome. – Jane

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    Posted at 00:34h, 12 March Reply

    Hay good morning sunshine , newly friend , you’re also so wonderful member of cosmic updates, welcome I love also your way of reading , so clear, adaptive as if you know me personally wonderful clairvoyant . Next sending will you please tell me what is the best , because I’m after for happy , stable that can relax and help my expectations in relationship no matter what . Please tell me also did my distance relationship will really show up and how’s the approach !!! Thank you very very much and God bless you always wherever you go , free from coronaviruses, Felicidad

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:28h, 15 March Reply

      Thank you for your thoughts, Felicidad.
      – Jane

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    John Wayne De Lange
    Posted at 00:17h, 12 March Reply

    You are absolutely right and as usual on point.
    I had two lovers and yes my thoughts are still with them, however I don’t want either of them because of their extreme differences.
    My suitable partner would be one that is a blend of both. I consider myself single as I am not ready too commit to either of them.
    Thank you for your tarot readings.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:31h, 15 March Reply

      Thank you for this. It is good to be clear on your feelings.
      – Jane

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    Lydia Legrand
    Posted at 21:00h, 11 March Reply

    Thank you for your exhausting reading. At this point in my life when confusion and uncertainty Reign in my deep feelings it brings clarity to my thoughts and emotions..

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:37h, 15 March Reply

      I am so pleased to hear that. Take care.
      – Jane

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    Anina Daniels
    Posted at 20:56h, 11 March Reply

    Hi Jane! Found it amazing that you sumed up love life right now. Having two old from the past and someone new! This tarot spread has already helped me and I will ponder,give it some deep thought as to which direction I take
    Although I need stability more in my love life now based on where I am in my life. The excitement and passion is also needed…which right now points towards the new person who is also very stabile and dare I say putting the chase,effort and action to show me! Thank you looking forward to the next weekend blog and promise to update,once a decision has been made.

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      Guest Author
      Posted at 02:36h, 15 March Reply

      It sounds as if you know exactly where you’re at! Wishing you all the best. – Jane

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