Are You Being Too Generous? | Weekend Tarot Love Reading | 9/8 - 9/10 - Cosmic Updates

Are You Being Too Generous? | Weekend Tarot Love Reading | 9/8 – 9/10

Do you ever feel like you give more than others when it comes to love?

Galena the Mystic says this weekend might bring a situation that you need to take a step back from, so you can take care of yourself.

She’s here to help you relax and feel confident about prioritizing your needs, so you can show up to receive the love and attention you deserve.

P.S. Does a fear of abandonment keep you from honoring your needs sometimes? Are you feeling depleted from giving too much? Leave a comment below and let Galena know.


Hello, beautiful souls here at Cosmic Update. It’s your intuitive tarot reader, Galena The Mystic, and I’m back with another weekend love Tarot reading for you all. And this time it’s for the weekend of September 8th through September 10th, and I’m really excited to get into it. I’m coming to you au naturale today because I just got home from an EFT and Reiki yoga session. And for those of you who don’t know, EFT is the tapping you may have seen. And this guided tapping actually helps to regulate your nervous system and move emotions through your body. So if you’ve been needing some sort of cathartic release or you just want to work through some of your anxieties, especially as we are in Mercury retrograde, and so frustrations and miscommunications, mishaps are bound to come up, I highly recommend. And if you’ve been considering doing EFT or Reiki or some sort of healing where you go to a practitioner and receive, this is your green light to go ahead and book that session, sign up for that class, maybe even watching YouTube videos on it.

And I want to say you can heal yourself. You 100% can heal yourself, and we just had three cards fly out of the deck. So let’s go ahead and get into it. So first off, we have the lovers reversed. And let me cover this up, sorry. The Lovers Reversed. So this is a time more so to give yourself what you need and give to yourself before giving to others. So maybe that’s why some of you do really need to book a class, book a spa day even, or give yourself a spa day if that’s something you’re interested in. But this is a time to really feed into yourself and assess your own needs so that you can meet them first before giving to others. We even have the Nine of Pentacles Reversed, really reinforcing that message. And the Nine of Pentacles is someone who’s very autonomous, self-sufficient, abundant, can take care of themselves.

And this card comes with a message of sovereignty. So you create your own laws, you create your own joy, you create your own sufficiency. And in this reversal, this could be an energy that maybe we have a hard time accessing this weekend. So what I’m seeing as what is best for your love life right now is actually you taking care of yourself. And you might tell yourself, “Oh, I don’t have the means. I don’t have the funds in order to take care of myself. I don’t have the time. I don’t have the energy to go to that yoga class and have the funds to buy this thing that would help improve my quality of life and to feel better and to feel more secure and supported.” And this could be an energy that goes against some of your desires. So be aware of how you are.

Oh wow, okay. I’m receiving a download to talk about something specific, but just be aware of how maybe you are limiting yourself and limiting your worldview. Maybe you’re not seeing exactly how you could have the capacity to take care of yourself, meet your own needs, and to prop yourself up. But you do have different options, and I feel like these options are going to be made clear to you through some sort of spontaneous action you’re taking. So with the Knight of Wands, there’s actually something specific I’m being called to talk about, which is a dream I had last night in which I was walking down the street and I just saw the most beautiful woman. I just thought she was a model or something, and her outfit was super fly. And the way she was walking, she just really caught my attention and she had a glow about her and she was smiling in her own world.

She was completely by herself as well. I feel really called to point that out. She was definitely giving this Nine of Pentacles sort of energy. And I asked her what her name was and she said, “Spontaneity.” I don’t know if it was the spirit of spontaneity who visited me. I’ve had a very similar dream where I was interacting with the spirit of prosperity. I feel called to share about that too, the spirit of prosperity. She was wearing gold and green. She was just in her own world, singing to herself. And we were walking through all of these shops and she kept handing me things. She just kept handing me clothing. She kept handing me… She was like, “Oh, do you want one of these? Here.” Before I could even answer, she was just putting things in my arms and I was carrying so much. And I remember being a little bit stunned by her energy and the way she was just so carefree and she had almost bowl in the China shop energy.

She didn’t care how much space she was taking up. And I feel like that’s why you’re being called to embody the spirit of spontaneity, the spirit of prosperity. And this is going to be something that attracts so much love to you. And this is really an empowered position in which you’re the creator of your own reality and you’re aware that you are sort of a magnetic force that draws things in. And in order to get to that vibration, we need to take care of ourselves. The spirit of prosperity and the spirit of spontaneity would book that trip, would go ahead and book whatever’s going to get them their flame, whatever’s going to get their fire, that energy back so that they can continue manifesting and so that they can align with the people who are absolutely perfect for their creative vision. And so with the Knight of Wands, I feel like you’re being called to really honor your creative vision and to create the day, the environment, the relationship that you really want. But it starts with today, create the day that you want, create the experience you want, even the experience of comfort.

You could be like, this is kind of silly, but I’ve totally been there. You could be the kind of person where you lay in bed for a long time and don’t meet your own needs, maybe because you’re depressed and it’s like, “Oh, I would be so much more comfortable if I just got up to get water right now. I would be so much more comfortable if I just went to that other room to grab the pillow to prop my backup.” Those little things. I know that probably sounds so silly, but that’s what I feel really called to talk about. So do those things that are going to make your experience better right now. Go grab a snack. Pause the video, go grab a snack if you need to, okay? Because it’s all about your self-care and that’s what makes you so magnetic. Let’s see what else spirit wants to talk about for our love lives this week. I also feel like you’re meant to receive help, and this is not the same thing as having expectations of others. We have the High Priestess in Reverse. I want to get a clarifier for this.

You can just feel like there’s a lot expected of you or expected of others. We have the Ace of Pentacles Reversed, I’ll show you in just a second, and two cards. Oh wow, okay. The Tower and the Six of Pentacles. There could be expectations or demands of you that could actually be really hard on your body with this Tower card, really hard on your mental health. And I’m really seeing here that it’s important for you to take your energy back and expect less of others and expect less of yourself in a way, or release other people’s expectations of you with the Six of Pentacles here. You could be a really generous person, especially if you are intuitive, if you’re some sort of counselor, if you are an empath. And the Six of Pentacles is all about generosity, giving and receiving. And specifically this card can be about giving to the less fortunate or giving to the needy.

I feel like with this Tower card, people who rely on your energy too much, it’s not that you don’t have compassion for them or that you don’t want to give to them, but with this Tower card, I almost feel like they’re being expelled out of your energy and forced to deal with their own stuff. And so you could also be on the receiving end of this feeling like you are being pushed out or almost abandoned, neglected, or cast out of someone’s life when really it’s just because spirit wants to go through your life and rectify all of the imbalances. And I’m hearing no more handouts. No more handouts. You could be a little bit too generous with your money. So if you’ve been talking to someone romantically and they’re expecting a lot of money from you or expecting a lot of your time, your energy, whatever this valuable resource is that you’re being told not to maybe give so much.

With the High Priestess Reversed, I feel like your intuition tells you, I actually want to keep my energy to myself, or actually I feel like I’m becoming codependent with this person who gives to me. You’re being called to rectify that. And if you’re not rectifying it, spirit’s going to rectify it for you out of grace, out of love, out of just so much affection and protection over you because they really want to protect your energy with this High Priestess Reversed here. You also have some sort of special gifts, even if it’s just the gift of compassion that you have for others. They want to protect that so that you’re not developing resentment, developing any disease, either dis ease or disease with this Tower card. So spirit’s trying to prevent that Tower moment or is creating that Tower moment for you this weekend so that you can see really clearly where the imbalance lies and so that you can rectify that. On top of the deck, we have the Three of Cups. So this doesn’t mean you can’t still share joy, peace, love, celebration with others.

I feel like that could actually be something that you’re called to engage in this week. But with the Five of Wands, there is competing needs here. So it could be that you and someone else have differing needs. And if this is a particular person though, with this Five of Wands and Three of Pentacles and definitely getting group energy, we even have a group of people here. I just feel like you could be expecting or needing something from someone and someone else says, “Well, I need this.” You could say, “I need space.” And the other person says, “I need more time with you.” So there’s just competing needs here. But I feel like with this Three of Cups, there’s actually a way to harmonize and bring things together. I also feel like with this Three of Cups, I actually want to get a clarifier what’s underneath it, Queen of Swords. So I actually feel like with this Three of Cups, you are being called to cut out some activities, practices, habits that are maybe just draining your energy more than they’re giving to you.

This could be drinking alcohol because we do have the Three of Cups here, but there are some sacrifices you need to be made. Maybe you’re foregoing certain friend groups or maybe cutting off certain pleasures I want to say, that maybe give you satisfaction in the moment, but in the long run it’s actually contributing to this Five of Wands energy where you’re having to balance and prioritize a lot and you’re taking too much into consideration. I also want to say, don’t allow yourself to be over influenced by others. Group energy right now is something you should be very discerning about with a Queen of Swords, especially because of Mercury retrograde. I’m just going to have to keep mentioning that. But with the Five of Wands here, it’s really coming back up. Make sure that you’re being very clear in your communications and that other people’s communications, if they’re a little wonky or maybe rub you the wrong way, just try to have grace for everyone.

And also if you hear a message, whether it’s from me, whether it’s from anybody else in the world, even from your spiritual guides, I’m just saying if your energy feels a little bit off with this High Priestess Reversed, not telling you to doubt your own intuition or anything like that, but I just feel like you could be receiving downloads, especially through the dream world or something like that, where you just need to be discerning about the way you’re interpreting it, or it could cause a little bit of chaos and confusion in your mind. So I almost feel like it’s time for you to back away from people or limit how much you’re on social media. You could be a little bit too much in your phone or a little bit too focused on what other people are doing and saying about you. And so it’s really good to take a step back from that and make decisions for yourself where you’re like, “Okay, I need to do this, and I am showing myself self-love and self-care that is deeper than just a bubble bath. That’s deeper than I’m going to buy myself a candle.”

It’s the self-care that you know need. So for example, exercising. For example, eating something healthy. For example, paying off some of your debts if you have the money to do that, but maybe you’ve been avoiding that, paying some of your bills. Those are all self-care things that actually will contribute to your mind being clearer as opposed to self-sabotage that’s disguised as self-care or possibly self-care that mimics the way someone else would self-care, but doesn’t truly resonate. So yes, I hope that that makes sense. I’m going to go ahead and pull one Oracle card for us. What do we need to know about this weekend? Okay, we have Florida waters, natural form, enchanted potion, red roses, cleansing. Absolutely.

I feel like you’re having a cleansing from deep within. And like I said, like spa day. It is truly time for rejuvenation from the inside out. Sometimes we have to have boundaries or all the time we have to have boundaries in order to do that. We even have the Ton of Wands under this. So cutting out burdens, cutting out extra energy, cutting cords with people could be very, very beneficial for you right now. And also spending time in nature, spending time by water. I feel like that could be something that really rejuvenates your spirit and allows you to show up as your best self in love, even when the waters are murky or even when there’s a lot of discord and discourse going on that is just clouding up everyone’s judgment. And so this kind of cleansing will allow you to not let the little things get the best of you and to not let also impatience and frustration bog down your manifestation journey in love. Okay?

So those are all the messages I have for you. Thank you so, so much for being here. I am sending you so much love and abundance. You can book a private reading with me at, and I’ll see you in the next Love reading. Okay, bye.

Galena The Mystic
Galena The Mystic

Galena the Mystic is an intuitive tarot reader and spiritual educator. She specializes in helping her clients with love, manifestation, personal empowerment, and psychic development. As a lifelong student and teacher of the mystical arts, she believes that all things are possible through self-trust, compassion, and serenity!

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    Jan Nelson
    Posted at 07:09h, 20 September Reply

    Please don’t forget I enjoy receiving the readings

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    Posted at 08:22h, 12 September Reply

    hi can i get a personalised reading on my relationship?

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    Posted at 21:26h, 10 September Reply

    Thank you I needed this message. I appreciate your reading.

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    Miranda Stringer
    Posted at 10:58h, 09 September Reply

    Hi Galena!

    I only found you a few weeks ago but I’m very happy that I did because you’re amazing. This weekend your reading is apt and so pertinent and precise for my situation, Up until today I’ve been watching you and then reading the transcript, OK today’s transcript wasn’t for the right weekend. No problem! I have been sat here watching you and doing my own transcript. Great! I’ve listened then paused to write. Listened then paused to write etc. And really got your message because of this.

    1) you are spot on for my situation
    2) you are very open and honest (as much as you can be!) Thank you!

    Wishing you all that’s well in the world.

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    Annika Kielland
    Posted at 10:45h, 09 September Reply

    Helena, you are so magical and gifted in your craft. Thank you so much for this, and all your readings.
    You are a lifeline for me at the moment β€οΈπŸ™πŸ»
    I hear your messages clearly, they have been bang on since you started on cosmic updates & you are providing such amazing guidance. So grateful πŸ₯Ή ❀️

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    Vivian Tate
    Posted at 21:19h, 08 September Reply

    Yes I am too genous I always feel I have to do everything someone asks. And that’s wrong I don’t know how to speak up about this situation

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    Demetria Shelton
    Posted at 18:31h, 08 September Reply

    My name is Demetria Shelton I’m about me and Tony Barnett his birthday is 9/5/1974 my is 3/17/1982 will we get back together again soon and how he feels about me do he really love me and do he want to spend the rest of his life with me

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    Marie Lucas
    Posted at 16:47h, 08 September Reply

    how do I reach

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    Claudia Barillas
    Posted at 12:13h, 08 September Reply

    Your words aligned well with my life. My eyes filled with tears and my heart broke. Thank you

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    Posted at 11:07h, 08 September Reply

    Also this time, the previous TRANSCRIPT is posted.

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    Rosalyn Granata
    Posted at 09:50h, 08 September Reply

    I cried when I heard your reading .It hit home for me. I’ve been trying to have over standing of my self and spirit and I’ve been with someone whom shall I say has enlightened me and I’m more awakened and aware of many different amazing facts about myself and the world were now in and how powerful the words of us chosen ones can really be to us and the lives we try to have for ourselves.i really need to find tune myself.there are alot of neg outside forces trying to separate us from each other and shall I say dim my inner light.ive got a aquarian deck and have been trying to learn. But there are so many trying to become a business woman but can’t seem to get my feet off the ground.i have life long trama I deal with so I love to help people I’m a giver I feel bad taking.but now I’m in need and feel sometimes abandoned I don’t make friends easy and don’t have family I can rely on ever so so it’s hard find help when it’s genuinely needed. But I think u r great.! Looking forward to maybe another reading.

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      Lisa Calliou
      Posted at 11:20h, 08 September Reply

      thank you for totally putting my life in perspective. i think i knew all along but sometimes i just need to hear it from someone else and i dont have many ‘someone else’s ‘ that i trust. a real eye opener for me! i can already feel the release 😌

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    Posted at 07:46h, 08 September Reply

    As always, Galena is accurate in her readings.

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    Shawna Teegarden
    Posted at 04:46h, 08 September Reply

    Oh my goodness, this hit home for me like no other Yarot Reading has ever done before. Thank you for the eye opener, it’s greatly appreciated!

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      Shawna Teegarden
      Posted at 04:48h, 08 September Reply


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