How To Attract Your Soulmate | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 2/11 - Cosmic Updates

How To Attract Your Soulmate | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 2/11

Do you ever wonder what’s standing in the way of true love?

Deco is here to share some special insights on how to attract your soulmate, so you can overcome the obstacles in your path.

P.S. Have you already met your soulmate or are you still waiting for the One? Leave a comment and let Deco know!


Hello, my friends at Cosmic Updates, it is Deco back again. This time we’re going to do a reading, having to do a little bit with love. We see a lot of comments, first of all, kind of dealing with things from the past, dealing with things that hurt, dealing with relationships that ended in a way that really affected us. And so, what I want to focus on is the future, right? I want to focus on where that person is for you. I know some of you might already be in happy relationships, but I do think there are some people out there that are still focused on trying to find the just right person for them, their soulmate, their twin flame, their whatever you want to call it. So, I’m going to pull some cards and just see, what do we need to know about finding this person? What do we need to know about attracting this person? How can we manifest this person for ourselves? So, let’s see, what do we need to know about finding the one? What do we need to know? 

So, there’s something that we need to release, okay, the Ten of Swords is saying there’s something that is done. There’s someone from your past and maybe you held onto for a long time that is just not in the picture anymore. And, what I am seeing is potential love. 

Right here, we’ve got The Lovers. The Lovers doesn’t always represent love, but when we’re focused on relationships and things like that, I’m like, I feel like there’s an opportunity here. The writing is in the stars, if you will. And, then we’ve got the Four of Wands, my friend. So it’s like the Four of Wands next to The Lovers, to me, tells me that this person is just going to feel like home for you. They’re going to feel like someone that you’ve always known. It’s one of those relationships that you meet each other and you’re like, “It feels like we’ve known each other our entire lives. It feels like all of these things that I’ve been interested in for the majority of my life, it’s like you have those same interests. How is that possible? How can we have so many things in common?” And, it’s because they feel like home. They have similar interests, they have the same vibration as you. They’re naturally drawn to you. But, I think part of finding that person and drawing them in is remembering who you are deep down. Maybe there were fronts that you had up for a long time that you need to let die, that you need to let live in the past, because the more authentic version of you would say, “You know what? I’m not going to bend to just be who someone else wants me to be. I’m going to be my truest self, the most real version, the version that my family knows, the version that my oldest friends know. That is how I’m going to present myself, who I really am. I’m not going to try to bend over backwards to be what someone else wants me to be, because that’s just not authentic. That isn’t real love.” That’s you being a chameleon, and that isn’t necessarily you expressing yourself in a way that really embodies who you are and what you want, and being your best self is the way to do that. The other thing that The Lovers can represent outside of just love and connection and relationships, it can represent decisions, but it can also represent you making choices for yourself. So, I think that this is important to consider here, it’s not just about finding your partner, it’s about being the person that attracts your partner, the person that it’s like, it just makes sense that you guys would go together because the vibe is there. They feel just as comfortable with you as you do with them. 

Now, let me pull some more cards. What else do we need to know? You guys, I’ve never had a more happy, positive reading. The hardest part of this truly is letting those things die, letting those things from the past live in the past. They don’t belong in your life anymore. I really feel like it’s this version of yourself that you’ve been projecting or this willingness to just adjust what you really want to do for the sake of the person that you’re in a relationship with, which I do not think is the vibe. Really, if there’s one thing that I tell people more than anything in relationship readings, it’s like you’re not going to find your person by doing everything they want to do. You’re going to find your person by being yourself right now.

The Knight of Cups, the King of Wands, the Ten of Pentacles, okay? The Knight of Cups, I think of as Prince Charming. That Knight in shining armor coming in, wooing you, making you feel loved, but also you acting on your emotions. It can be another person, but it can also be you going toward that person that you really love and expressing yourself and acting on your emotions. Not just thinking about it, but actually doing it without fear. Because you’re passionate about this person. You know that this is someone who shares passions with you. You know that this is someone that feels like your person. It feels like, wow, I don’t understand how I went so long without finding this person. I don’t know how I went so long without having someone who just completely loved every part of me, and that’s what we need to be focused on, not someone where we have to make excuses for their bad behavior, not someone who we have to bend over backwards to try to make happy or walk on eggshells to try to make happy someone that you can truly invest in and love.

And, the Ten of Pentacles, this one popping up, I’m like, hallelujah. Ten of Pentacles guys, is the ultimate long-term relationship. When we think of Pentacles, we think of family, money, health, all of those things, and the Ten of Pentacles is the culmination of all of those things. I often say it’s like leaving a legacy, but in relationships readings, it’s like you’re building a relationship, building a long lasting, mature, full, rich relationship, full of just connection and wealth and good health, and doing things together and making memories and coming together to share your space on top of so many other things. I really feel like there is so much good in this, but you have to be who you really are deep down. What is that part of you that’s like, I know that this is who I am and what other people recognize me as. You might’ve even heard before, people who you’ve known for a really long time saying, “I don’t understand why you act that way with him.” “I don’t understand why you don’t do this when you’re with her,” or, “I don’t understand why, fill in the blank, with that person.” And, it’s probably because you weren’t acting your true self in those relationships. It’s really, really easy to try to be a people pleaser, especially in romantic relationships, I’ve found, especially if you have an anxious attachment style based on past things that have happened, and I think it’s so, so important that you start addressing those things and really stepping up for yourself so that you stop attracting people that don’t treat you well. Maybe they’re really attractive, but just because they are really attractive doesn’t mean that you need to invest in those relationships. Maybe it’s just not your person. Maybe you don’t have enough in common to have a happy, long lasting relationship. And, even if they’re good looking, doesn’t mean that they’re going to be a great partner. So, give yourself the opportunity to let yourself be seen so that person just finds you naturally. Allow it to happen. Don’t push ’em away. Be authentic. If something feels right, act on it. Right? Because the Knight of Cups isn’t just about emotions, it’s also about your intuition. If your gut is telling you you need to do something, do it. There’s so much potential here. 

Good luck, my friends.

Deco Lo
Deco Lo

Deco is an intuitive tarot reader whose mission is to give guidance to those who need it. She has a passion for making connections with those she reads for and loves to teach others about tarot. Deco loves learning and is always looking to deepen her understanding of the tarot and its spiritual connections.

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    Ruby Tauro
    Posted at 09:28h, 13 February Reply

    I alway believe in being me and not someone else’s copy. If so then what difference is there between me or that person if I mimicry of who I’m not. Thank you Deco for this Reading. 🙏

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    Claudia Barillas
    Posted at 05:57h, 12 February Reply

    wow, I like that part of deciding for myself and stopping pleasing others to look good and be accepted. I accept that I will never be a chameleon again. Thanks for your reading

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    Bendu S. Fofana
    Posted at 22:21h, 11 February Reply

    Will my soul mate come to the United States?

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    Bendu S. Fofana
    Posted at 22:19h, 11 February Reply

    Will my soul mate come to the United States?

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    Posted at 20:46h, 11 February Reply

    Such a positive reading
    I absolutely agree being a former people pleaser. All we can be is authentic and if they don’t like you being that then they are not your person.

    I do however believe I will attract him because of me 🙏❤️

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    Mary La Mohr
    Posted at 20:07h, 11 February Reply

    Thank you great reading. I think he lives in another state. I am going to visit there this summer. I have been in a toxic friendship for years since 2010. Time to move on, and move out of here. Thank you I am not sure, but I practice Tantra, so I think I might have found him online. Sincerely, with much gratitude, Mysterious Missy LA Mohr AKA Migisi

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    Posted at 19:50h, 11 February Reply

    Thank you Deco I am really excited to meet my person.

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    Marisa MacDonald
    Posted at 19:50h, 11 February Reply

    I just know he’s my soul mate although we have not met in person. He is my person

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    Michael morton
    Posted at 19:36h, 11 February Reply

    What a great reading today , your enthusiasm is awesome and contagious , love the positive vibe 😉👌

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    Refiloe Kunyamane
    Posted at 15:27h, 11 February Reply

    Thank you it really feels right

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    Posted at 13:35h, 11 February Reply

    Thank you for a lovely reading again .
    Fed up being a people pleaser now being who I want to be
    Hopefully meet my sole mate soon

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    Posted at 11:03h, 11 February Reply

    Hi Deco, Your reading today was sooo right. I met my soulmate a week ago in the supermarket. I was in line waiting to cash out and he was at the self checkout. I started notice him and after he check out, we both made eye contact wit each other. We met before but lost contact

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    Posted at 09:44h, 11 February Reply

    I met someone on Instagram almost 5 months ago and he’s been wooing me since believing I’m his soulmate. He is divorced, beyond attractive, intelligent and emotionally mature. I’m currently married 15 years to someone who has anger management issues and refuses to admit he’s wrong. My kids and I relate so well to the walking on eggshells. This knight of cups gives me so much hope I am looking forward to a future of fulfilling my dreams and being my true self.

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    Elizabeth Sheleski
    Posted at 08:38h, 11 February Reply

    I know I have been talking to my soulmate for almost two years… our connections and love is soo strong.. I believe he’s my knight shining armor.. I met him trough instagram and we knew instant meant to be together.. now ready to meet him!! Thank u for wonderful reading!! ❤️

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    Posted at 08:14h, 11 February Reply

    Love your energy. Great reading. Key question, do relationships make you happy? What is happiness? I have more of a Buddhist take on this, happiness and unhappiness is the the same things, it is only how you mentally frame it. Learn to love yourself first and all else follows.

    I’m glad that you have dropped the personal readings, as these should be personal. There are other ways to generate growth for personal readings.

    Love this week and just got a phone call from a nice gentleman ….

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    Posted at 07:40h, 11 February Reply

    Your cat is adorable! Also, great reading, and it confirms everything that has been going on in my life. I met my twin flame last spring (I didn’t know what a twin flame was at the time), and we have both spent the last 6 months apart to deal with our own issues (he’s battling his ex in court, I’ve been dealing with past traumas, work, etc), and now we are starting to connect again and come back together from a place of self love, and it feels amazing! I have left toxic people from my past behind me, I’m following my passions and starting my own business, and I look forward to cultivating this relationship with my twin for the long term! Every reading I get and do usually has the knight of cups, 10 of pentacles, the star, 10 of cups, etc.So I know I’m in for something good!

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    Noreen Neal
    Posted at 07:34h, 11 February Reply

    Will my ex Frank and I get back together?

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    Diane Thielman
    Posted at 07:28h, 11 February Reply

    Thank you Deco!

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