04 Mar Karmic Breakthrough Ahead | Weekend Love Reading | 3/4 – 3/6
Hello Tarot Friends,
This is Jonathan with your Weekend Tarot Love Reading.
Oh boy, it looks like you could be in one of those phases where love just isn’t working the way you want it to.
You might be feeling totally scrunched up against the wall, and like there is nothing that seems to work.
But not to worry, this is just a phase, and if you can bring some consciousness to what’s arising, you might break through an old pattern that’s been kicking you in the butt for some time.
There’s important, revolutionary work to be explored, so let’s hop right in and get down to business.
Card #1: Ten Of Pentacles | Love And Family
The Ten of Pentacles represents lineage, family, and multi-generational wealth. In a love reading, the Ten of Pentacles can indicate a connection that is powerfully positioned in the material world.
In other words, two people may come together to create wealth and a powerful influence in life. Or one person in the relationship might already come from “old money.”
In either case, this would likely be a partnership that’s already been around for a while, rather than something fresh and new.
The Ten of Pentacles is a card about material stability and longevity, so if you are thinking about deepening your relationship with someone, you might consider what it means to bring your ancestral lineage together with your beloved’s family line.
While this might not seem like a big deal on the surface, marrying someone, or choosing to have children with them, is also a marriage of genetic, ancestral, and energetic karma.
You might ask yourself, is this person committed to growing with you through thick and thin?
If you are single at the moment, the Ten of Pentacles could be a sign your parents have a strong influence on who you end up with.
This may have been something they explicitly told you, or it could be something you are carrying around internally, even if they’ve never said anything about it.
For better or for worse, noticing you are at the tip of a very long line of humans who have survived through time, can be helpful.
On the one hand, you are carrying the bloodline of a family which has figured out how to survive. On the other hand, you are at the very edge of adaptive ingenuity for your bloodline. Which means you don’t have to follow the mold they have set… but it could also be helpful.
What was right for them, may or may not be right for you in your life. In all likelihood, it’s probably a bit of both.
If you’ve met someone recently, the Ten of Pentacles can sometimes be a sign the person you are swooning over might already have a family.
In the worst case scenario, they have a family that they are sneaking around on with you.
It’s also possible you are working out some multi-generational romantic karma, which is precisely what your next card is indicating.
Card #2: Nine Of Swords | An Old Pattern
The Nine of Swords symbolizes fear, anxiety and despair. This is an unfortunate card to arrive in a love reading, however getting a clear reflection about your current relationship, or your state of being, can be priceless.
If you are currently with someone, the Nine of Swords may be a sign your relationship has felt like a never ending challenge.
If it’s not the relationship as a whole that feels this way, then perhaps there is one specific element that has given you unending trouble.
This might look like a deep mistrust that keeps you up at night, and makes you feel very insecure. Or, it’s possible something has felt off for a long time, but you just can’t put your finger on what it is.
The Nine of Swords tends to point to long standing challenges or issues, so maybe you’ve felt these same kinds of issues or bad feelings in previous relationships as well.
And often, the issue the Nine of Swords tends to indicate is something deep in the unconscious, which means it’s hard to pin down what exactly the problem is at its roots.
If you’re single, the Nine of Swords could be a sign you are feeling very insecure either about being with someone, or you are afraid you will never find someone. Either way, there is a lot of anxiety surrounding the issue of love and partnership.
Considering your first card, the Ten of Pentacles, the challenge you are facing right now in your love life likely goes back through your genetic lineage, or your karmic lineage.
What this means is you’ve inherited some of the challenges around relationships from your parents, who in turn may have inherited them from their parents.
These kinds of patterns that leap from generation to generation can be tricky to overcome, because to some degree they feel normal, or like home to you.
Luckily, this period of “old stuff” coming to the surface is going to come to an end. In the meantime, your next card is recommending you place your attention on yourself.
Card #3: Nine Of Pentacles | Return To Your Power
The Nine of Pentacles is a sign of self-sufficiency, high standards, and independence. In the context of a love reading, the Nine of Pentacles indicates someone who doesn’t need a romantic partner to feel fulfilled.
The Nine of Pentacles is a reminder that you’ve cultivated self-sufficiency in your life. Even if you don’t feel a sense of stability in yourself at the moment, it’s there.
Sometimes the dance of relationships can pull you way outside of yourself. Relationship dynamics tend to hit at the very core of your insecurities, because they are so close to the emotional injuries of your childhood.
Luckily, the Nine of Pentacles is a sign you have the ability to take a step back, and regroup with your powerful self. Getting resourced by spending some time taking care of yourself and enjoying the company of positive and supportive friends could really create a shift for you.
The Nine of Pentacles has explored a myriad of possibilities in her life, and found that she is most happy in her own garden where she can choose how she wants to live day by day.
While you don’t have to make the choice the woman in the card image has made, you might explore if you can find the place in you that feels like it needs a relationship, and notice what that part of yourself is really asking for.
Ultimately, the Nine of Pentacles is a call to power. It’s inviting you to find the place where you might want a relationship but you feel resourced enough on your own not to need one.
From here, you might find that a less suitable relationship is simply not worth it. Strength on your own means you have options, and can be a bit more picky regarding who you choose to spend time with.
If you’re in a relationship that just needs some minor tweaks, you might consider spending a few nights apart, or a few weeks.
Reestablishing a relationship with yourself, and your own rhythms, can do wonders for couples who have been glued at the hip.
Breaking free of family patterns and karma is no small victory. In fact, when you change a relational pattern that’s been in your family for generations, it’s like a cosmic revelation.
So the appearance of your first card, the Ten of Pentacles, could be a sign you are working on important romantic stuff that goes beyond just yourself.
It can be helpful not to take it personally if it’s the case that what you are facing came from mom and dad. Especially if you’re feeling the kind of anxiety and worry that your second card, the Nine of Swords is indicating.
This can be a challenging card, and is a sign there’s something you’ve been dealing with for quite some time. Your best bet getting through some of this sticky material is to reconnect with your inner resiliency.
While we inherit family challenges, we also inherit family strengths. Your third card, the Nine of Pentacles, is inviting you to spend some time on your own, reconnect with what’s stable, capable, and powerful in yourself. Just returning to this place could change your entire perspective on your love life.
Take your time, be kind to yourself and those around you.
And you’ll be well on your way.
And in service,
P.S. What pattern in your love life is giving you trouble right now? Have you noticed this pattern before in other relationships? You can leave me a comment here on our blog, and let me know!
P.P.S. If you’d like some advice about your love life, or want some help undoing some of these challenging life patterns, you can schedule a private reading or Embodied Alchemy session with me here.
SandraPosted at 22:33h, 06 March
Thank you Jonathan for your insightful wisdom and beautiful advice!!! ❤ Your messages always resonate with me in perfect divine timing!!! Sending you lots of love and light- I am very thankful for the work you do- blessings always!!! 🙏
Ellen ParkinsonPosted at 23:14h, 05 March
Your reading today is so Right on with what I am going thru. Relationship ending. And I f3el it’s time to take care of me, in all the ways I haven’t been able to. Always caring for others needs.I have challenges ahead of me but know I will work them out and service. I know I want happiness back in my life and it begins with 🙋me.
FelividadPosted at 04:58h, 05 March
Yes , Jonathan there a man who is forcefully want me to be his wife. And he has one 14 yrs old son , I’m thinking , I’m too old to strive in the kitchen job with thst man and son. Even do he promised all the beste between Heaven and earth , I think I have life for my self living a simple and relax life for my own and not only the other one is telling he will show up soon , I don’t know if it’s true. Thanks a lot for help, I need y advised soon what to do and not to do, Hope for the best future partner
Jonathan LionheartPosted at 15:18h, 05 March
Hello Felividad, thank you for sharing with us. I’m happy to hear you feel that living for yourself is a good option for you. May the right person arrive soon for you. Blessings.
PoojaPosted at 01:54h, 05 March
Beautifuly said Jonathan. I am so amazed by how sometime the readings relate to your situation so deeply that you can’t help but be in awe of the person who drew these cards for you. Thank you for your wonderful insights for this week
Jonathan LionheartPosted at 15:18h, 05 March
Awe, thank you Pooja. I’m so grateful for this feedback, and for the opportunity to be of service. Blessings
Victoria RooksPosted at 23:37h, 04 March
Funny how i just brought an uncrossing candle and this is the reading for today! spot on!
Jonathan LionheartPosted at 15:19h, 05 March
Perfect! blessed untangling 🙂
Roman Pruneda GarciaPosted at 23:10h, 04 March
Honestly I inherited my mom and dads bad habits. You see my mom and dad used drugs from the very beginning of my birth and to this day i feel and know i can never be my true genuine responsible reliable self until i get better. I feel i just cant shake my childhoods past it’s gonna stick to me until the day i die idk. I dislike being negative i do my best to be happy to think positive and not to dwell or live in the past but somehow my family dynamics and relationships seems to just make me relive everything especially when they pretend like everything is just great like my dad was just the best dad in the world and that I should really really be concerned with his health, well being, situation which I’ve been doing wayyyyy more him then hes ever done for any of my siblings or mother for that matter.
Jonathan LionheartPosted at 15:21h, 05 March
Hi Roman. I understand. Often these dynamics live beneath the surface of our awareness, which is why life has us relive them again and again. It is through reliving them that we can begin to bring them to consciousness, and then make different choices. But it takes time. Working with relational oriented therapy can help with this process. Sending blessings on your path.