The Truth Is Coming Out | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 3/17 - 3/23 - Cosmic Updates

The Truth Is Coming Out | Deco | Weekly Tarot Reading | 3/17 – 3/23

Has someone been expecting too much from you?

Deco says this week may bring some sudden realizations about a close relationship.

She’s here to help you see the truth in this connection, so you can balance the scales and receive the support you deserve.

P.S. Have you been dealing with an unfair friendship? Leave a comment and let Deco know!


Hello my friends, it is Deco back again for a Weekly Love Tarot Reading. Poppy is here because she is always here, let’s be honest, unless I lock her out, which I’ve been doing lately. But guys, okay, we are here to talk about this coming week. Again, we’re right in the middle of this transition. Depending on where you are in the world, it’s either spring or fall or entering that season, which I feel like spring and fall, for me at least, feel like transitional seasons where then we move into the more polar opposites of winter and summer where we are seeing the very coldest weather and the very warmest weather, where fall and spring kind of fall somewhere in the middle. And, I think within that, we have this transition into a new Zodiac calendar, like I talked about last week, where we’re entering Aries, we’re entering this new beginning. And so, I think we need to recognize it as that and think about how we can claim this transition for ourselves and know that it’s going to be a positive thing moving forward. So, let’s shuffle these cards and see what you guys need to know for this coming week, for this new season that we’re entering in the middle of this week. And, just let’s get excited. What do we need to look forward to? What challenges might we face? What can we expect? 

Let’s see, interesting, so right away, guys, we have two fives. So, when I see two of a number, I look at the numerology there, five and five is ten. We have The Wheel of Fortune hiding in this, which is all about a positive mindset. I think that this positive mindset, given that the Five of Swords and the Five of Cups, both being in reverse here, are kind of shoving you into that chapter where you are claiming that positive mindset, right? The Five of Swords in reverse is when you’re starting to see iffy people. I feel like that’s been a really common card lately. Five of Swords has been popping up all over the place, and even specifically the Five of Swords in reverse has been popping up a lot, which is telling me that people are seeing people for who they are. It’s like you woke up and you realize, oh, there are these people that I’ve had in my life for a long time who just aren’t treating me very well. 

And then, we’ve got the FIve of Cups in reverse where you’re realizing, “You know what? Maybe I was focusing too much on those relationships. Maybe I realized that those relationships that I thought were so important and that I thought I needed to grieve and focus on are really not ones that were giving any value to my life. They weren’t adding anything to my life.”

And, what I’m seeing, especially because we’ve also got this Four of Wands here, is that there’s an opportunity to kind of return to who you were. I feel like these are newer people in your life that you allowed in, that you were giving a chance, and that you realized in the long run that they were just taking advantage of you and that they weren’t treating you how you deserve to be treated. And, I think that there’s people that have been in your life for a little bit longer that you might need to allow back in, whether that’s friends or family or maybe a significant other, whatever. But what it is, is like there’s people who know you who aren’t going to treat you the way that these other people did. And, I think you need to return to that a little bit. 

Now, let’s see what else we need to know. There’s always more to know. What else do we need to pay attention to? So guys, this is a lot about relationships, but not just romantic relationships, this is about friendships. The Three of Cups is in reverse here, so this is telling me that people really close to you, or that were really close to you, or the people that maybe were not treating you the nicest, you realize that these relationships were not necessarily good ones. 

And, what I’m seeing with the Ten of Cups and the Six of Pentacles is that what you need to focus on, again, is returning home and focusing on those people who have got you, who love you, who want you to do well, and who are going to support you regardless of what you’re going through, who don’t have transactional relationships, where you feel like you owe them something or that they owe you something. It’s just like an understanding that part of a relationship is that you support each other and sometimes that costs money, and that doesn’t mean that you owe them. It just means that eventually you’re going to help them out, too. It’s just an understanding in relationships where there’s unconditional love there. And, I think it’s important to recognize that balance so that you don’t get sucked drier, or vice versa. And, I think that that’s what we need to focus on, again, are those relationships that are a little bit more well balanced. I don’t know how else to describe it. There are just some relationships that feel like the scale is tipped perpetually in one direction, and it’s exhausting to have those relationships where you feel like they need all the attention, all the time, all the money, all the whatever, and sometimes we just have to say, “You know what? I don’t need that in my life anymore. I am not the person for them, for that particular circumstance.” And, that’s okay to set that boundary. 

Now, let’s pull an Oracle, The Golden Children, Inner Child, Tenderness, Innocence, Rare Gifts. So, this particular Oracle card, my friends, when we’re looking at this overall message is kind of saying that maybe some of these people you allowed into your life, because I say this a lot, but we’re attracted to our trauma. So, let’s say you’ve gone through something and even though it was painful, there’s something about it that draws you in to people that treat you in a similar way. Often that stems from parental figures or relationships that we had with people when we were very young. We have these things that happened when we were small or when we were impressionable or whatever, and then they hang on, those understandings of the world, the world or those feelings of inadequacy or those feelings of attachment, you feel like you need to hold onto things. Those are all things that stem from things that happen when we’re very little and our brains are still developing. 

And so, the Golden Children is kind of saying to give yourself a break. Recognize that you may need to forgive yourself and process some things internally to recognize that there are people that you’re allowing in your life that really are not needing to be there, that aren’t going to treat you well, that are just reminiscent of things you’ve been through already. And, you don’t have to give those people your time or your energy or anything like that. In fact, it’s probably better for you to say, “You know what? I need to focus on myself and make sure that I’m good, so that I know that the people that I’m allowing in my life are good for me.” And not, again, sucking you dry, okay? 

So, my friends, I think the big message here is to stand up for yourself. And, I think you already are. I think you recognize that there are people in your life that aren’t treating you well, but just recognize that you have so many people on your team. You have so many people to support you through this fresh start, specifically in those friendship types of relationships. And, I think as long as you can call on those people that you’re going to have a lot of happiness and a lot to look forward to. But, just be kind to yourself, okay? Give yourself time for rest. Give yourself time to heal that inner child and see what happens. I think, again, there’s a lot to do this week. There’s this fresh start entering Aries season. I think you need to claim it, okay? Best of luck.

Deco Lo
Deco Lo

Deco is an intuitive tarot reader whose mission is to give guidance to those who need it. She has a passion for making connections with those she reads for and loves to teach others about tarot. Deco loves learning and is always looking to deepen her understanding of the tarot and its spiritual connections.

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    Lill b
    Posted at 16:54h, 18 March Reply

    This def resignates with me due to a break up I’m focusing on me 100% but just before I found my self saying I’m sorry I’m not able to help with that it’s your call not mine to say, I also stopped willingly offering money when they said they were skint. And one of the deep last conversations I had was I’m starting to love me focus on me more too. 3wks later I was ghosted after 4.5yrs of giving I was hurt but feeling so much stronger now and loving life more less worry.

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    Tina Gomez
    Posted at 09:07h, 18 March Reply

    Everything is so correct but I find it hard for so many years to be honest and let go of the people who don’t recognize me for trying to do too much for them they are taking and draining me so much I don’t have the strength anymore that I used to in my body so thank you for the reading

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    Posted at 08:21h, 18 March Reply

    You a lucky to have a Poppy that pops in

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    Brent freeman
    Posted at 04:43h, 18 March Reply

    Hi there deco I’m in a crazy relationship with a woman that has crazy health issues with m.s.having a good stroke and dying on me a couple of times pulling what seems to be a demon back with her since the first time I got her back from the hospital I love her and worry about her so much we just lost our dog the winter before last which was my favorite thing in this world is anything gonna get better we just cannot seem to win lately I feel absolutely wiped out is there any advice you have for me please much love brent

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    Posted at 01:23h, 18 March Reply

    I think this whole message hit like an eye-opener. I appreciate it and digest it for my well-being and mental health.

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    Posted at 20:42h, 17 March Reply

    why can”t I BRING MY
    ” INNER GIFTS” OUT? I have this bright inside crying too be let lose and i dont know how

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    Josiane mbakop
    Posted at 20:33h, 17 March Reply

    Thank hou so much

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    Lorna Stoney
    Posted at 20:18h, 17 March Reply

    Thanx Deco. 🙏🏽❤️👍

    Sometimes I do help one friend way too much at times. Sometimes I get upset I can’t just get up and go anymore like I was lately. That make sense about attactment from childhood. 👏😃 I will give my time to heal my childhood. Good point. 🧒

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    Net-Hetep Ta'Nesert
    Posted at 19:24h, 17 March Reply

    Great reading! Right on point!

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      Tina Gomez
      Posted at 09:04h, 18 March Reply

      Thank you for telling me what I already knew but can’t find the courage to do what you are so true about so thank you

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    Vicki L Grimm
    Posted at 18:22h, 17 March Reply

    Talking about someone expecting too much from me!? Yes, I believe so absolutely! This person/friend expects me to be there any time I can for the availability for them but not if I ever need them to be here for me. This is all the time and I’m really thinking about how to interact with this person in the future.

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    Jennifer Rodríguez
    Posted at 18:06h, 17 March Reply

    Hello Deco, thank you for the free reading I received, and I want to tell you that what you told me really resonated with me.

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    Jessie P.
    Posted at 17:44h, 17 March Reply

    THANK YOU! This really helped me become more comfortable with trusting my inner voice, which is telling me the exact message you shared. i appreciate you!

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    megan deluise
    Posted at 16:52h, 17 March Reply

    hello. i really need some help. i keep seeing signs of warning. i am not sure how i can read them. please help me.

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    Posted at 15:46h, 17 March Reply

    Hi Deco, Great reading !

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    Ruby Tauro
    Posted at 13:19h, 17 March Reply

    Thank you for this reading Deco🙏

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    Kathy Carpenito
    Posted at 11:52h, 17 March Reply

    Yes I am asking that my twin flame, a man I met through a deep spiritual connection !!
    I thought originally he was an angel ….but as we connected I realized how complete I felt in my heart as we got to know each other!
    He cut me off after several months saying it was for my own good because I took the spiritual love into the love of flesh…from live to love and said he does not want me to send him messages but we will meet in another life!!!
    I think we both might’ve confused our spiritual love with romantic love we always said I love you so much and miss you a much!!
    There’s lots to the story he is Turkish and lives in Istanbul and I live in US and we were going to be working on his book Soiritual Rose 🌹 which is a compilation of poems and stories he receives while mediations from a Spiritual Rose and please please let me know how I could connect!! He came to my dream last night and wanted to see me and hug me and tell me he will always love me forever….I have been wondering how he was and I speak to him in my dreams as well our connection is deep and I feel him when he is around me!
    Thanks so much for listening g I am at a loss of what this will be.
    He hasn’t blocked me anywhere including on Whattsapp his phone is always accepting my messages so I love his soul and his amazing fly beautiful heart ❤️

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    Scott Christopher DeLisa
    Posted at 11:01h, 17 March Reply

    Thanks Deco,

    Have a nice Sunday

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    vickie mitchell
    Posted at 09:25h, 17 March Reply

    You are correct. I have been taken advantage of. I don’t understand and I do tend to believe the glass is half full but this time it may be half full of users and lies

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    Bente Lykke Hansen
    Posted at 08:50h, 17 March Reply

    Thank you for your card-reading and words, they gave so much meaning to my intuition yesterday…. a relationship with deep love but not just for me alone, I have to share and it’s not fair, I’m the new and there’s extreme positive energies between us…. but he needs to make up his mind who he wants to live with…. but it’s difficult for him, as I’m who he wants but her life will be a disaster if he leaves 🤷🏼‍♀️
    So if nothing happens before long, then I’ll have to unplug otherwise I’m destroying myself.
    Thanks again for your card reading 🙏🏼🦋✨

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    Kari Midttun
    Posted at 07:28h, 17 March Reply

    She need the attention still.
    She was the cousine of my friend.
    For three years she used/( abused. I see after ). That terrible that made me psycotic.
    You could not rely on her. Ir She told others what I told her.
    I got sick for mant years.
    Today, as I learn from you, walk away from that kind of people and dob’t open your mouth for them.

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    Sylvia M Becerra
    Posted at 06:47h, 17 March Reply

    Is it my boyfriend Jonas or Raul cause I love them both but only Jonas is a living plan I have but both can act like assholes but then repent please help me is Jonas hiding something he is a cancer June 28 ,1979 and Raul is a scorpion November 16 ,1962 so you can see why I am confused both claim to love me and offer me marriage but both are bossy but mean we’ll Help me please

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    Lisa Calliou
    Posted at 06:38h, 17 March Reply

    Spot on!!! Crazy but absolutely correct!
    Greatly appreciate this guidance and insight!

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    michael rennick
    Posted at 06:35h, 17 March Reply

    After researching “imagination” out of concern for “illusion” and viewing a video on “active imagination” from a person’s content about Carl Jung’s private dealings with it, then this reading resonates with me. It may all be a construct of my imagination, but it seems to give me a different perspective of my current situation and it’s all good.

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    Posted at 06:27h, 17 March Reply

    Thank you.What you have read for me is exacrly true.

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    Roger McCarty
    Posted at 06:25h, 17 March Reply

    Yes I am going through a lot of stress and problems in my relationship she tells me tell me I saw my thoughts she’s not at wrong and it’s starting to get a little physical

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    Saad Ali ameen
    Posted at 06:23h, 17 March Reply


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    Vicki Edwards
    Posted at 06:18h, 17 March Reply

    Just went through a breakup you hit it for me!

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      Dinesh More
      Posted at 10:21h, 17 March Reply

      I don’t have unfair relationship with any body.

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