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This Could Be Awkward | Venus Square Chiron

Hi Friends,

Has something ever happened that made you feel so shy, hurt, or insecure that all you wanted to do was hide?

With Chiron, a.k.a. the wounded healer, coming into a tense alignment with Venus, it’s quite possible that the next few days could have you feeling like Quasimodo lurking in the shadows of Notre Dame.

Ugh, right?

But don’t go crawling under a rock just yet.

While Chiron transits are usually no fun, there is a silver lining…

You have a HUGE opportunity on November 14th and 15th to resolve deep wounds around your sense of worthiness, financial success, and your relationship to love.

So read on, and let’s turn this awkward situation into something beautiful.

Taking Your Medicine

Have you ever gotten a massage, only to realize that you were in much more pain than you thought?

Chiron works a lot like this.

Most of us go through each day feeling more or less okay… that is, until Chiron comes along and shines a spotlight on painful emotions and memories we didn’t even know we were carrying around.

Whenever Chiron is on the scene, it has a special way of coordinating the events in your life to trigger your deepest wounds.

So don’t be surprised if over the next few days someone does or says something that makes you feel exposed and vulnerable. You might even wind up embarrassing yourself in front of someone you admire.

If this happens, try to keep in mind that Chiron’s isn’t targeting you just to watch your face turn red or make you squirm. It’s simply taking the most efficient (albeit painful) way to help you get in touch with what needs to heal in your life. 

Chiron can be a bit like a surgeon. It opens a wound, and while it may hurt… it’s only to help you get better.

In fact, if you can stay observant instead of reacting to any mishaps over the next few days, this can be a time when you heal an old hurt for good.

Chiron has been in Aries since 2018 and won’t leave entirely until 2027! Due to its unusual orbit, Chiron stays twice as long in Aries than it does in most other signs.

Normally Aries is known for being brave, daring, and spontaneous.

But while Chiron is in Aries it’s easy to feel the opposite way.

And since the Moon will soon be entering the exact spot where Chiron is stationed in the sky, it’s possible that you could gain a valuable glimpse into personal habits or attitudes that cause you to feel defeated.

It Might Just Be You

Sometimes it’s tempting to size up a situation and make a decision about it based on a bad experience from the past.

It could be that you avoid trying certain things or talking to certain people, because you’re already convinced that it won’t turn out well.

But did you ever stop and wonder if you might be making it true just by believing it?

For the short window that the Moon is conjunct Chiron on November 14th and 15th, it will be easier to get to the bottom of old habits and ways of thinking that keep you stuck in a feeling of powerlessness.

It’s also possible that issues concerning your home, family, or mother could be a catalyst for exploring negative expectations you might be holding onto.

These two days could find you feeling more emotionally vulnerable than usual, so be sure to treat yourself gently and seek loving support from trusted people in your life.

As if all this weren’t enough, Chiron and the Moon are about to come into a very uncomfortable alignment with Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and abundance. 

What Are You Worth?

Have you ever stopped yourself from going after success or opportunities because you didn’t feel up to the challenge…

Or because deep down you didn’t feel like you deserved it? 

Since Chiron is in Aries, the sign that rules the “self”, and Venus influences your sense of value and worth, there is a real possibility that hidden feelings of inadequacy could be rising to the surface this weekend.

If there is a part of you that feels unconfident, awkward, or insecure about asserting yourself, it’s very likely something could happen that turns the volume up on these feelings in a big way.

One possibility is you could make an impulsive financial decision and overextend yourself. So try to hold off on any big purchases of items designed to enhance your appearance or for pleasure and recreation until after Monday.

If you feel tempted to buy something extravagant or a bit indulgent, double check to make sure you’re not trying to compensate for lack in another part of your life.

Another possibility is you might start to notice an imbalance in a financial or romantic relationship. If you are the type that gives and gives, but don’t feel like you can ever earn the status, respect, or recognition you desire, now is a good time to take a deeper look at why that might be.

Venus square Chiron wants you to notice where you feel unworthy of love and success in your life and reclaim your sense of personal value.

But how?

Well…

By feeling your feelings.  

Yuck I know, right?

Painful feelings are usually the LAST thing we want to feel, but bare with me.

Something magical actually happens when you feel those uncomfortable feelings instead of pushing them away.

They start to transform.

So give yourself some space to breathe, and feel your feelings in a deep and pure way, without holding onto the story of what happened.

As you do, you might be surprised at how much opens and heals within you. 

These next few days will be a tender time. Try to be extra gentle with yourself and if you can, seek the support of a healer or therapist to help guide you through whatever is coming up now.

And as you navigate the coming days, keep in mind the famous words of Rumi: “The wound is the place where the light enters you.”

You’ve got this!

With Love,

Luna Dragonwell

P.S. Do you have a supportive way of dealing with painful feelings when they come up? What makes you feel safe and comfortable when faced with difficult emotions? Let me know in the comments below!

Luna Dragonwell
lunadragonwell@gmail.com

Luna Dragonwell has been fascinated with the stars since she was a child. She is a lifelong student of astrology and loves sharing about the significance of the planets in our daily lives.

17 Comments
  • Jacqueline Jones
    Posted at 23:48h, 13 November Reply

    This is going to suck. I don’t have ANY SYMBOL off emotional support. So how does everyone expect me to break with no support. If ( which I am) my own worst enemy, constantly reminding myself of my short comings then how does no one expect me not to kill myself?

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 12:56h, 15 November Reply

      Hi Jacqueline. I’m sorry to hear you’re experiencing a lack of emotional support. That’s got to be rough. If you’re feeling suicidal please seek professional support. There are a lot of good resources out there to help you through this time. Sending you love.

  • Kimberly+Ann+baumgartner
    Posted at 22:22h, 13 November Reply

    I want to know what secrets my partner is not telling me and why he wants to see me another girl at same time

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 12:57h, 15 November Reply

      Hi Kimberly, maybe you can have a conversation with him about it. Best wishes!

  • Lorraine Conforti
    Posted at 22:14h, 13 November Reply

    Hi Luna! I was definitely feeling very edgy today. My day was a big haywire, plus my phone is going bonkers too…I’m a Gem, so definitely connected as it seems to break or fizz out for no reason every 3-6 months. I spent all day looking for lost items on top of that and every two minutes breaking up fights between my kids. Then my Ex was getting on my nerves being he loves throwing monkey-wrenches in my way and it’s not appreciated. He’s gotta get a new life of his own is what he needs, but that’s another story. Oh, and the phone thing pretty much did a clean sweep for anyone who was looking to date me this week lol…only one man managed to contact me (Leo), another dumped me telling me he doesn’t think I’m interested, and didn’t want to hear about the phone (Aries) and another younger guy ghosted me after talking to me about 12hours straight via text…yet, he was much younger than me. Speaking of which, there’s another younger man trying to ask me out that I have been turning down bc I am sure he went out with a friend of mine, and there’s more…so the phone did me a favor…except that last one…but I’m not feeling fulfilled b/c the Leo guy, even though we’re compatible, we’re like two ships passing in the night. We only met once for coffee and while he’s very sweet & handsome, I’m not really sure if he can provide the relationship I want. We’re both super busy, is what works for us, but I don’t know how it could move beyond what it is yet and if I should get deeper….everything just seems so odd today, I’m feeling a bit like a tea-kettle & don’t know if I should scream or cry! I AM definitely frustrated -esp being my life has seemed to be on a treadmill, while I make big strides, I seem to coast in place or backwards many times. The best way I cope is through artistic pursuits, mainly music and singing and/or movement I’m thinking of doing more dance and possibly swim as we move forward into the winter because I can’t take the thought of being cooped up much longer either. I also plan for decorating the new apt and I do pray and light candles too as well as read different tarot cards and try to improve myself. I currently accepted a job that will pay for extra credentials and I may be singing in a coffee shop soon, which is a project that restarted from before I was pregnant. So many things in the air and very busy is part of who I am, so I definitely need to get grounded, as I am ever grateful for the gifts and opportunities I have and pray that someday, not only will I share all with my kids, but with someone I love as well. Thank you Luna for the reading, it def sheds some light on what is happening…

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 12:58h, 15 November Reply

      Sounds like you’ve got a lot of great activities to support you during difficult moments. Glad you enjoyed the article! Wishing you the best 🙂

  • El Figueroa
    Posted at 11:07h, 13 November Reply

    This reading was very helpful & I admit challenging too. Today or should I say tonight marks the 5th month that my husband passed. He died at home something his Dr & myself did not agree with. But his sister & daughter did..
    I was Never close to his family since I knew they didn’t like me. And for 36 yrs I spent with him I was nice to them but wasn’t close. Long story short, He and I never married. He pursued me in the beginning and I admit I was unsure because of his age. He was older than me and I had been divorced for two yrs and raising my daughter alone. I decided to to date him and because of some issue’s we broke up a couple of times but he would not give up. I can say I was never in love with him but grew to love him.
    I loved him and so did my daughter and our two grandson’s. He got to meet the 3rd lil one a few days before he passed. And on the night he passed he was with my daughter and her newborn. We were with him never knowing it was the last time we’d see him. He passed that night somewhere between 11:30pm and 4am. Is when I found him.
    What followed was a continuation of lies, deceit and shocking truths. His sister and daughter had pushed their way into our home. Something I was Not comfortable with but John’s Dr felt they needed to be to help me. They never did instead put me through hell. And I had to tell his sister to please leave us alone so I could spend time with him alone. She did not like this but between her and another family member they tried. Next day is when he passed & I called her because I felt so guilty. She immediately came and took over his mail? Found life insurance which was sealed and John had told me was under my name. It wasn’t. And in the nxt few days it was all revealed. John left everything in his sister’s name. His daughter thought it was her. Here I am grieving they’re goin through his paper work.
    They took everything. I was left in debt. I blocked them all.
    Today 5 months ago Would be the last time I saw him and cared for him. I have yet to mourn him. I have applied for work, takin tests and nothing. I became unemployed in December of last yr. Have gone through all my savings. I am emotionally and physically drained. I will sit the nxt few days out at home & continue to apply for work.
    Thank you for sharing this reading since it allows me to prepare for this. Sorry if my story is long and drawn out but first time I have actually shared my story.

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 12:46h, 15 November Reply

      Thank you for sharing your story. I’m happy this can be a space for you to start to talk about what you’ve gone through. I’m so sorry you have experienced such an ordeal, it sounds like a deep betrayal. Sending you love and support. May you move forward with grace and good fortune.

  • Evelyn+Malanda
    Posted at 09:51h, 13 November Reply

    Hi Luna this insight reading are awesome , this few days am in pain emotions from the past my heart pains I don’t know why and what to do thank you Luna this reading hit on the head of the nail I feel exactly what you explained . Lun what I do to overcome this help please 🙏.

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 12:43h, 15 November Reply

      Hi Evelyn, I hope you’re getting through this transit gracefully. Sending love.

  • Bliss
    Posted at 06:11h, 13 November Reply

    Hi Luna! Is it possible to feel astrological events slightly before they happen? Something happened last sunday-tuesday that made me want to crawl under a rock forever (I literally used those exact words, hah!). It was exactly what you mentioned – feeling embarrassed in front of somebody I admire because my deepest wound (as far as I know) was triggered. It felt truly terrible and I did hide a couple days after the fact to feel the f out of my feelings. But the resolution you described also happened over the last couple of days (and is still happening). Not only have I been working full-time on healing this deep, deep wound (I’m jobless these days) and reconciling with the particular thing it involves, but I also put all of my energy towards that particular thing and it feels like this could be my greatest passion in life. It is effortless and I’ve been smiling non-stop since I finally decided to allow myself said thing. That wound has been consciously torturing me for DECADES, no exaggeration, so I just feel incredibly grateful for finally having made it to the other side it seems.

    Anyway, I’m just wondering if this may have been it or if I should be looking forward to uncovering yet another unknown wound and be embarrassed in front of that guy yet again over this coming weekend? *cue sweating emoji* hahaha. God I hope this was it. Thanks for your reading and hopefully your answer:)

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 08:50h, 13 November Reply

      Hi Bliss, it’s possible that you could feel the effects of Chiron earlier depending on what it’s doing in your personal birth chart. The transit I wrote about for Sunday and Monday effects everyone, so this awkward energy will be “in the air”, but since you’ve already started working with it, you might be able to glide through it more gracefully. I’m so happy to hear that you have found a way forward in your healing. Sending you love and support!

      • Bliss
        Posted at 17:40h, 13 November Reply

        Thanks so much for your reply! Your readings are always so timely and accurate I was getting a bit nervous, haha. Hope your transit is as smooth as possible, as well as anyone’s reading this. Stay blessed everybody:)

  • ALISON
    Posted at 01:18h, 13 November Reply

    Thank u for this incredible reading – it coincides with my feelings for a man (explained below). I am so grateful to you for alerting me to my deepest wound of never being good enough & how it’s affected me all my life, I’ve always tried to escape these feelings of unworthiness but now it’s time to open the wound to heal by listening to my heart.
    I have feelings for a guy I’m in touch with online & I think he may have feelings for me but it’s a delicate situation & I’m afraid to show these feelings fearful of making a fool of myself as he is a mentor.
    I’m learning to be kind & patient with myself & give myself ME time. I also have loving supportive friends to talk to.
    Thank you Luna!

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 09:01h, 13 November Reply

      Hi Alison, this is so beautiful to hear. Thank you for sharing about your process. I”m excited for all the good things that will open up for you as a result of your presence and gentleness with your wounds <3

  • Mary Cathrine Messano
    Posted at 00:32h, 13 November Reply

    Thank you for your encouraging words. I have been in a stuck situation for too long. Do I have a supportive way of dealing with painful feelings when they come up. A lot of my pain points back to my past. A church my husband and I were a part of for a very long time. I have fascinated back and forth for some time now. As some things came up their with my children that I did not believe was dealt with justly. My husband never wavered. Has fully stayed the course. Of which he left my home 6 years ago. Many things I do believe their. But their are some things I don’t agree on in the way they were handled. I believe if I totally turn away from the church/my husband. My marriage will be over. And I turn I will be starting all over again. We have been married now for 43 years. We have 18 children together. My bible seems to be the safest place to go. I have not found anyone to talk to that has helped me through this. This is very deep. And their are many layers to it. Sincerely Mary

    • Luna Dragonwell
      Posted at 09:06h, 13 November Reply

      Hi Mary, this does indeed sound very deep. It can feel overwhelming to challenge others or hold a boundary if it threatens your sense of safety or belonging. Being true to yourself is important, but so is feeling secure. Perhaps you can seek out some professional support to explore your situation more fully and find the best way forward. Sending you lots of love and support.

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