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Will They Come Back? | Deco | Timeless Love Tarot Reading

Is there someone on your mind who feels far away?

Deco is here with a timeless love reading, to give you insights about this person and whether or not you will reunite.

Remember to comment on Deco’s blog for your chance at getting your question answered on next week’s video.

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Hello my friends at Cosmic Updates, it is Deco back again, but this time, instead of our regularly scheduled Weekly Reading, we’re going to do something a little bit different. You’ve had a lot of really predictive readings lately with all of us just because it’s the New Year, and so we’re looking at fresh beginnings. But, I want to dive a little bit into your past this week and be thinking about that person that has been on your mind that you’re wondering, “Did I mess up? Are they coming back? Is this someone who’s going to re-enter my life? Is this my soulmate? Is this, whatever?” I think everybody has that person that they think of and that they long for and that they wonder, they have those “what if” questions. And so, what I want to focus on is kind of, are they coming back? And, in the off chance that they’re not, seeing how life moves forward. Beyond that, we’ll pull a few cards and see what happens. See what you need to know, and I would love to see your comments. By the way, we do look at your comments. We try to interact as often as possible, but I want to be more interactive. So, next week I plan on putting a second reading in my video that’ll come out on Sunday answering one of your questions. So, feel free to leave your questions below, but also don’t be afraid to comment about how this reading resonates for you. I’m always curious to know how it resonates for people, and maybe it didn’t resonate for you, but maybe you’ll get the opportunity to see what you need to know in next week’s video. So, let’s pull some cards and see, is this person coming back? What do we need to know about the future with this person from your past?

Okay, so I feel your frustration. I feel this overwhelming feeling of, “This new beginning is not going to start. This isn’t a fresh start.” We’ve got the Ace and the Page of Cups both in reverse, and the Cups are all about our emotions. So, when we’re looking at our emotions, when it’s tied to water like this, we have the Ace and the Page, and these are looking at beginnings. So, the Ace of Cups in reverse, it’s kind of suggesting that there’s this feeling of, not hopelessness, but an inability to start fresh, maybe because you are longing for this person from your past. And, the Page of Cups in reverse can be an immature, codependent kind of vibe. It’s like what I want to be, what’s the word I want to look for? I want to tell you that you don’t need to find value in yourself through someone else. You don’t need someone else to give you value. You are valuable as you are. You are a prize for someone out there. And so, to tie your wellbeing and your sense of positive emotion to someone else and how they feel about you is just going to tear you down even more and keep you in this kind of funky situation. So right away, I’m not saying that this person is not going to come back into your life, but I think it’s really important that you think of how you’re handling yourself in that situation.

Because, we’ve got the Page of Pentacles upright, and again, the Pages are all about beginnings. They’re ideas, things getting started, and the Page of Pentacles is a seed being planted, it’s starting something new. So, this is kind of suggesting that you need to be really thoughtful about how you’re expressing yourself, how you’re developing your boundaries. You do not need to put all of your happiness on someone else’s shoulders, and that’s really what this is about, is saying you need to be comfortable in yourself and understand that just because someone’s upset at you or someone did something that made you sad or whatever, that doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the relationship. You can still have a conversation. You can still have a dialogue about what needs to change and what was uncomfortable and how you can grow together instead of growing apart through any sort of conflict, right? Because, codependence is just not healthy. You don’t need someone else to fill your cup for you. You can do that on your own. They should just be an added bonus. 

Now, I do want to pull some more cards to see what else we need to know about this circumstance. What else do we need to know about this person coming back in? Okay, so lots of good stuff here. We’ve got the Ten of Cups and we’ve got the Ten of Wands. I want to say this about the Ten of Wands. We’ve also got the Six of Pentacles.

The Ten of Wands, while it can feel heavy, it can feel like a lot, the thing about the Ten of Wands is it’s something that you’ve worked for, so it can feel overwhelming. It can feel like your cup is overflowing in a way that feels too much, right? It feels like too much responsibility or too much whatever. But really, the Ten of Wands is about abundance, an abundance of attention and abundance of love and abundance of so many different things. 

And, then we’ve got this Ten of Cups, and this is about a support system that just loves you, right? A support system that wants you to do well, that wants you to be in a relationship that builds you up, and maybe even to take a little bit of that stress off of your shoulders, whatever it happens to be. Maybe there’s something outside of a relationship that you need to address so that you are available. Maybe you’ve just got too much going on and you’re not able to invest in a relationship in the way that you need because you do have this. But, I think what I don’t want you to do is think I can’t invest in a relationship because I’ve got all this stuff. I think it’s just time to find your priorities and to prioritize the things that make the most sense so that you have time to invest in someone. Maybe that was part of the problem is that you just didn’t have the resources to be able to feed into that relationship in the way that it needed. And so, maybe it fizzled. But again, I think that there’s people behind you that already see this person as a positive person in your life, that want you to be happy and together with someone and in a relationship that’s balanced and happy and healthy. Not just happy, because happiness can come in a lot of different forms, but a healthy relationship might have conflict, but you handle that conflict in a way that is productive and helps you grow together again instead of growing apart.

Now, the Six of Pentacles, this is, I think, the big key here, it’s all about balance, right? That’s where that codependence comes back in. We can’t be codependent in this relationship because that’s just not going to be a balanced relationship. One person is give, give, give, and one person’s take, take, take. I need you, I need you, I need you. And, the other person says, “I don’t have enough to give.” So, the Six of Pentacles is like, this is where that balance needs to be found. You need to find someone who has good give and take that isn’t going to give you a transactional kind of love. Just because they did something for you doesn’t mean you owe them or vice versa. That’s just not a healthy way to be in a relationship. And so, what I think you need to be aware of is that you might have had some kind of toxic experiences with this person in the past, but that doesn’t mean that you guys haven’t grown and changed and that you won’t have the ability to come back together. I do think that there’s a lot of opportunity here. 

Now, we do have a little bit of numerology that I want to talk about. We’ve got the Tens, which together would be Judgment and Judgment, 20 in the Major Arcana, is all about having your logical brain on. And so, that’s where you are feeling something emotional and you take a step back and you say, let’s take the emotions out of it. What did I observe? How did that make me feel? How do I address this and talk to them in a way that isn’t overly emotional or codependent, but instead productive and says, “This is what you did, this is how it made me feel, and we need to work together to solve this problem. Can you work with me?” And, then you pay attention to how they react, too. And, if it’s a good balance, then I think that that’s something that could be really positive for you. But, again, it’s up to you to enter this in a healthy way, in a way that is going, again, to help you grow together instead of apart. That’s the thing, it’s like you grew apart for some reason, and now you need to think about how you grow together at this stage in your life after whatever you’ve gone through. Okay? I do think you have a lot to look forward to. I think you need to hold yourself to a higher standard, know your boundaries and communicate those boudaries effectively with this person that you care so much about because I think they want to be in your life. I think the people around you want you to be together. I think it’s just a matter of you being healthy together. 

I wish you guys a lot of luck. Don’t forget to comment wherever you are, whether you’re on YouTube or if you’re on the blog, I want to see your comments. I want to know how this resonates for you, but I also want to know your questions. What do you want to know? Because, remember, next week I’m going to choose one of your comments and answer it after the main reading. So, make sure you stick around. I’m excited to look through your comments this week and see what kind of readings we’re going to do next week. And, I wish you all the best in trying to come back together with this person. Again, I think there’s a lot to look forward to, but it’s up to you how it works out in the long run. Best of luck.

Deco Lo
Deco Lo

Deco is an intuitive tarot reader whose mission is to give guidance to those who need it. She has a passion for making connections with those she reads for and loves to teach others about tarot. Deco loves learning and is always looking to deepen her understanding of the tarot and its spiritual connections.

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    Samantha Walsh
    Posted at 06:25h, 22 January Reply

    I don’t want my EX back in any form shape or way we just don’t work in any way so I don’t think this was a connection with myself even though I am going through some changes within my inner self like big changes and very excited for what is in store for me in the coming year I can feel that energy line when you know you’re on your right path. I am renting my house at the moment and thinking of buying it but I have a feeling that I am to move on from here it served its purpose while I was finding myself and now I am ready for that adventure that I feel life is taking me on such a strange feeling but I am going with the flow of what I am feeling.

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    Kathy Demeau
    Posted at 01:35h, 17 January Reply

    Is this a pass or is it someone recently just enter because I could see this in either direction

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    Posted at 10:35h, 16 January Reply

    I met my Twin Flame on May 5th, 2011. I was already married at that time and he was single.
    He was already successful in his music career, but he had dreams of achieving even more.
    We have never met in person since that first day. However, over the past 13 years, we have gone through many twists and turns in our hearts, and now we can communicate with each other.
    He has already achieved most of his dreams and now hopes to reunite with me.
    Even though the moment I’ve been waiting for for 13 years is finally here, I still feel in disbelief and a vague sense of anxiety.
    I’m not afraid to let go of my current life with my husband and daughters, but it doesn’t feel realistic.
    Will I be able to make it a reality? I want to make it a reality.

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    Holly Butler
    Posted at 16:10h, 15 January Reply

    I have a very crazy energy like hyper and I know in the pit of my stomach that big changes are coming – I have already changed jobs to my dream job – so many changes since I met my soulmate – our connection has turned my creative energy back on – we triggered a lot of insecurities in each other and have not spoken for eight months – will they be reaching out?

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    Posted at 12:19h, 15 January Reply

    most of the reading resonates with my situation ..is my ex gonna come back ? i do miss and love him so much

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    Laurie Prebish
    Posted at 11:00h, 15 January Reply

    Hi Deco,
    This reading resonates with me. I just got out of a purely sexual relationship after 3 years. My friends mainly women gave me a reality check. They told me to focus on the logical side of the relationship, not my feelings of how it could be. After doing that I realized that I was just a sexual toy for this narcissistic.He has been living with another woman and her son for at least 6 years. He was so secretive about his life and now I know why. I gave so much of my love, body, and energy to him with nothing in return. My friends helped me to realize that I was deserving of so much more. It’s been 13 days away from him. I have good and bad days with the help of my friends and family and you I’m able to get through this. Your readings always help me and have made me realize that I needed to get away from him. Thank you so much for what you do. It’s truly amazing.

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    Posted at 08:51h, 15 January Reply

    Thanks for this. Sounds on track. Just curious are we gonna be friends only or do we have a shot at a real relationship….

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    Zelodious Roscoe
    Posted at 07:05h, 15 January Reply


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    Gillie Brock
    Posted at 06:41h, 15 January Reply

    Thank you Deco what an amazing reading and spot on. It totally resonated with me.

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    Jeanne Bass
    Posted at 02:24h, 15 January Reply

    I am new to this an you seem to be right on!!

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    Debi Roach
    Posted at 02:21h, 15 January Reply

    I dated a guy for 9 months that broke up last summer. It affected me much more deeply than I expected. He had mentioned marriage a few times but backpedaled some after I told him I was ready to move forward with him. I felt like he got cold feet. He said he liked me a lot, I was the nicest woman, he would miss me and he would carry me with him always. I never expect to hear from him again, but I think about him every day. I need to move on but I now wonder if this is who you are reading will come back? Thank you for considering my question.

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    Brenda Ann Herrick
    Posted at 02:17h, 15 January Reply

    Thank u yes it dose I just wonder if it’s the person I haven’t met him yet but who is working to help me fix my identity his name is Frederick

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    Roberta Baca
    Posted at 01:52h, 15 January Reply

    Hello this reading resignates with me so much
    My Question is Does he truly love me and want a future with me?
    Will he be fully committed and be faithful this time?
    Does he want to spend the rest of his life with me?

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    Trine Hvidberg Johannsen (Madsen)
    Posted at 01:35h, 15 January Reply

    Hi Deco, thank you so much for this reading. I happen to be in a situation where two Lovers are involved. One has been toxic and treating me badly. But he happens to be my twin flame . The relationship ended more than a year ago, but he is pushing hard to get back to me. I did forgive him, but I am not really interested in getting back together with this man. I would really like for us to become close friends .though. I did make this clear to him, but he has not accepted this, he wants much more than that. We tried to make it work many times, but it never did. because of his bad behaviour towards me. This is why I decided not to try to make it work anymore.
    The other lover is my soulmate, and he treats me so good. I feel safe with him and I am very much in love with him, and know that I always Will be in love with him. He is wonderful and so sweet. I know he is the right one for me, but for some reason, he always Seem ti pull back, just when I Think we finally Got it right. Maybe he is hiding something from me, or why does he keep pulling away from me? And when he does, it always come as quite a chock for me, and I end up feeling so sad almost in despair, because I don’t know ‘what just happened here’?? I love him deeply, and I know he loves me deeply too, so Can you tell me what is really going on inside this guys head?
    Best wishes to you at Cosmic Updates from Trine, Denmark.

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    CoCo W
    Posted at 01:32h, 15 January Reply

    He stated he has plans for me. Why does he want me?

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    Posted at 00:41h, 15 January Reply

    This definitely resonates with me. I met a man exactly a year ago. We clicked instantly and we had a wonderful month together. After only a month I thought I really loved him. He said he was divorced for 8 years… A month later was Valentines day and we had a wonderful day. Made it special for him.. Cooked his fav dish, dressed nice for him. He was in shock and said his ex wife of 20 years never did anything like this for him. A couple days later he told me he cant do this anymore and that I move much faster than him. We split up. I was deeply hurt. 3 months later he texted and said he wants me back. I agreed to meet up… and we got back together. We had a 3 month relationship, but was nothing like the first month… I found out during these 3 months that he and his ex wife got back together several times after the divorce and the last time they split was 4 months before we met. I also found out that he went to see her during the 3 months we didnt talk and tried to get back with her. Something didnt go right and thats when he texted me to meet up. He deleted her from his FB this time. The 3 month relationship between me and him ended when I saw on his phone that she sent him a revealing picture and he put a heart to it. She also asked him if she can stop by to see the dog and he said, yes, anytime. We talked about her a lot that weekend but he never thought about mentioning that to me. When I saw that I told him he either tells her he has a gf and she doesnt appreciate her sending him pics or we are done. He asked me to give him some time to think about it. I laughed and said I ll give you an hour. After an hour I asked him what decision he made? He said he doesnt like ultimatums and that he cant tell his ex wife about me because she starts drama. I packed my shit and left. That was 5 months ago…. I still talk to his sisters but never about him.. His sisters love me. Your reading said “people around you wants you together”. His sisters hate his ex, she is toxic, but they love me and want us together. BUT he still loves his psycho ex… They definitely have a codependent relationship they cant break off, although all their friends say they are better off if the never talk to each other again. Its always drama with them. I believe next time his ex wife will piss him off, he will look for me. I just need to be strong and tell him to go to heck…..

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      Jessica Neal
      Posted at 11:18h, 15 January Reply

      I haven’t thought of anyone in my past who want back in my life they hurt me and who’s my soulmate ? Is that him I n dating now? Thank you

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    Summer Johnson
    Posted at 00:38h, 15 January Reply

    I moved in with this guy last year just as roommates but our chemistry was off the charts. Even now everyone thinks we’re together. Everyone keeps telling us that we are meant to be together. I would love to but I have no idea where his heart is. Even his mom says he has feelings for me and to be patient. Everytime I think we are moving in the right direction his ex randomly shows up and puts a halt on things. He doesn’t like her and she puts him in a bad mood every time. I overheard them talking one night about me. Then all of a sudden I heard her ask “ are you going to marry her?” And “do you love her?” I’m utterly confused because I couldn’t hear his response.

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    Dawn Johnson
    Posted at 00:32h, 15 January Reply

    I rarely say this but I am impressed on your wanting to help people freely. God gave all of us a gift and you are using yours to its full potential. Thank you for being you. I have no question to ask but feel greatly bless. For waking up each day.

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    Posted at 00:26h, 15 January Reply

    I resonate with what you said, but I don’t know how we can restore communication, because only I write to him, he doesn’t answer, and I don’t know if he wants to have a loving relationship. I feel that he is waiting for me to meet his wishes, but I don’t know exactly what he wants from us. thank you

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    Diana L Duda
    Posted at 23:34h, 14 January Reply

    How odd to read this tonight. Earlier, I had a long conversation via text with my daughter, whom I have been estranged from for four years. The weather has been very cold, and I spent October and November in and out of the hospital. After four years of being ignored, she called to check in to see if I was doing Okay. Then, a few hours later, a man that I had been with for a couple of years but separated from a year ago but saw occasionally during the summer called to chat and catch up before leaving for Florida, where he goes each winter. Both contacts were unexpected.

    I am happy that the split between my daughter and I may be healing. I have missed her and her daughters, as we were very close before the split.

    It was nice to hear from my male friend as I miss his friendship, but I also know it will never be anything more. There are just too many differences between us.

    Between my health issues in the fall and these two relationships, I have kept the faith that my life is going to improve in all areas. I have been feeling that 2024 is going to be a better year.

    I had my “soul mate – my twin flame” with my husband, whom I lost to cancer in 2005. I don’t think I will ever have another like him, but it is nice knowing I can perhaps have a nice male friend or two who truly cares about me. And nothing would make me happier than to be part of the lives of both of my children again.

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    Laurie Gutwein
    Posted at 23:30h, 14 January Reply

    Thank you! Your reading was very helpful and what I needed to hear!
    I love a man, that when I’m near him…everything feels like it aligns, and I know that he feels it too. But his words, and actions do not match up. He sends mixed signals, and I’ve known him for so long, that although it still hurts…I know, because his friends tell me, and I can feel his energy, that he wants me too. I feel like on an everyday level, that there’s so much about him that I don’t even know now, because he keeps thick boundaries with me. I want to hold his hand, be his best friend and lover, but the boundaries grow thicker, when I’m honest about my feelings.
    My life is stressful, and I have been patiently working on pulling everything together. I am full of love and an amazing person! In the past I have used sex as a coping mechanism, but I don’t want to be with someone else just to fill a void, when I want him. There’s nothing wrong with, or co-defendant about wanting to be near someone and craving their touch. If I move on, which I don’t want to…then we may never know how great we could have been together!
    My question is… When will he be ready, to love me as I am?

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    Tracy Carter
    Posted at 23:27h, 14 January Reply

    Was in a !omg distance relationship for two years. We texted each other, but never met in person. Will I ever actually met him in person to resume the relationship or never meet him. He said that he loved me.

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    Posted at 23:06h, 14 January Reply

    Deco Thankyou for your reading . I just had a big fight with someone I love and we have gone separate ways . I didn’t want this but on the other hand there is toxicity and the major problem addiction on his part which has lead to fights over money everyday . Is it smart to stay away or is better things going to happen

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    Lisa Barton
    Posted at 23:05h, 14 January Reply

    He didn’t want a relationship, he ghosted me. I’m trying to build a relationship with someone new! He’s a good man, We have a lot in common,just not the physical spark I had with the past.
    Will he come back and actually fight for me? Or do I move on with. I’m soooo confused

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    Michele ray
    Posted at 22:17h, 14 January Reply

    Your amazing it does resignat with me my question is will my ex come back like he said and remarry me please pick me

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    Roxana Reeves
    Posted at 21:20h, 14 January Reply

    Thank you for the amazing reading. I met an amazing man by chance over 4 years ago. There is a twin soul fire between us though we are separated by distance. He is in NY and I am in AZ. Serendipity is the best way to describe this meeting when I slipped an fell into his arms.That night changed my life and I long for him each day and can feel his spirit deep inside my being. We have communicated recently and were making plans to see each other. We talked by phone and he told me how much he loved me then a few hours later he said he needed time to work through some things. I know he was involved with someone during the time we have known each other as he told me and was used and hurt and that his feelings are raw and he needs time to work through some things. I know are connection is strong as I can feel him with me each day its as though his spirit and essence touch me everyday. Will we ever be together? I am trying my best to forget him and move on as I dream of him almost everynight and can feel him with me everyday. I have never experienced anything like this before of wanting to give unconditional love regardless of outcomes. Perhaps I am a fool but I have never felt this way about anyone in my life and having a hard time burying my feelings deep inside as I am involved with another man who is very good to me but my heart longs for the man that fate put in my path from what feels like lifetimes ago. I know we are soulmates at the highest level and perhaps we are just star-crossed lovers. I would love to have some clarity from you. Thank you so much beautiful Deco.

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    Kim Courtley
    Posted at 21:14h, 14 January Reply

    So much definitely resonated with me, and I am amazed,.. My question is if we reunite after so many ups and downs in the last 10 years will it truly be worth a second chance, can we truly work together to build a stronger, better foundation and relationship?

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    Posted at 20:46h, 14 January Reply

    So much in my plate right now it’s overwhelming but starting abbew relationship, which grounds me. Will this be what we are bith hoping for because I am so afraid yet so excited at the possibilities

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    Posted at 20:33h, 14 January Reply

    Hi thank you….what his zodiac sign pls. 🙏

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    Bellaflor Bawiga
    Posted at 20:14h, 14 January Reply

    Will he communicate with me and express his feelings?

    Is he dreaming to having a happy and long lasting relationship with me?

    I wish to having a happy and healthy relationship to the man I love.

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    Posted at 19:58h, 14 January Reply

    Speechless ! You are so in tune it is amazing.
    I am grateful for your incredible insight and your ability to share it so beautifully .
    Still reeling from this reading ; look forward to many more ! Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
    I need to ask a question about active listening and stillness in my life. Just being instead of doing all the time … ?
    Maybe a private session ?

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    Shaunea Butler
    Posted at 19:57h, 14 January Reply

    I feel like this registers with me I think I found my twin flame it we just not seeing eye to eye I feel like I give and he takes it’s annoying so o called it quits for real it’s like a cat and mouse chase we been doing this for almost 15yrs and I’m tired now it’s like so draining.

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    Juvita Ximenes
    Posted at 19:41h, 14 January Reply

    its really resonates my relationship right now.

    I have tried enough to make this relationship works but now no more. I give up and and I am open to new things.
    I dont to hang in there for something or someone who doesnt want to fight.
    I have been given a lot and I need to step back and relax. I believe that when things ends there are always a new beginning.
    Please help to overcome this and hope to find something new.

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    STEVEN Omatseye Atikpekpe
    Posted at 19:41h, 14 January Reply

    will she come back to me, will she be ;y nfuture soul m;ate,
    did she what it.did she truly love m;e but pretending.?

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      pastor charles juma opedhi
      Posted at 04:10h, 15 January Reply

      my name is charles juma opedhi I am in Kenya am living at godnyinyo community at rongosub-county in migori county my raying is to help me the orphans childrens in my project in the church thank pastor charles juma

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      pastor charles juma opedhi
      Posted at 04:11h, 15 January Reply

      Posted at 04:10h, 15 January REPLY
      my name is charles juma opedhi I am in Kenya am living at godnyinyo community at rongosub-county in migori county my raying is to help me the orphans childrens in my project in the church thank pastor charles juma

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    Elle Miller
    Posted at 19:35h, 14 January Reply

    Definitely hits home in a big way. I’ve been in a relationship with a man I adore for almost a year now. He’s been pulling back because of past relationships in his life going wrong along with some other issues since Thanksgiving. I really think he is the one for me, but I’m terrified of him just disappearing from my life. We supposedly broke up right before Christmas, but have been texting, talking on the phone and still seeing each other, so I’m not exactly sure what our status is right now. He says he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship but now finds himself in one when he doesn’t feel he’s ready. I’m not sure how I feel about that comment, other than it makes me sad to hear it. I’m trying to give him space because he says he needs to work his issues out alone, but he also says he wants to keep seeing me. I’m so confused I don’t know what to think or do.

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    Karon Groseclose
    Posted at 18:09h, 14 January Reply

    Will he come back to me or is he lost forever?

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    Vickie Ross
    Posted at 14:10h, 14 January Reply

    Deco been thinking about this guy Rick. I don’t know his sign. Is he sorry at all for what he said to me?

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    Emad issam abdel alfattah al shishani
    Posted at 13:42h, 14 January Reply

    Do you think my relation with my beloved finished or what

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    Claudia Barillas
    Posted at 13:13h, 14 January Reply

    I don’t know what to think.My marriage resonates a lot with your reading, it is a codependent relationship with all types of violence and that is when I dissociate from reality and my platonic love appears with which there is no type of relationship but there is a strong connection where I imagine it enters my life. 🤦🏻, too many Disney stories

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    Julia Chanda
    Posted at 12:07h, 14 January Reply

    I have two situations going on with 2 different men.
    1- The man I was in a 7 year relationship with just suddenly decided he was happier living by himself and we broke up.
    2- I reached out to my HS boyfriend who I had a brief affair with 40 yrs ago and we are communicating the last month and are planning on going out soon.
    My dilemma is, I don’t know which readings apply to which man because they ae both on my mind and your readings could be for either one.

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    Vi Wilds
    Posted at 11:02h, 14 January Reply

    Your reading it’s very resonate, i think I am belong to my twin flames, and I am still waiting for him to comes back, is he giving up on me or is he come back soon?

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      Ojo Alaba Odunayomi
      Posted at 20:10h, 14 January Reply

      I’m in a new relationship presently he makes me feels good and loved and cared for I wasn’t planning to loved him but after meeting him once and spending time wit him I keep wanting him more even though he’s so different from me with different personality and mode of reasoning but I still feel this connection between us we argue almost everyday but unlike my previous relationships d arguments doesn’t stop us from moving forward we argue or miscommunicate and stoped talking to each other for awhile but one of us always started a conversation few hours later it feels different from my previous relationships I feel more at peace with him and I also feels this toxic energy too coz he has anger issue but I also think it might just be me relating to him with my past experiences because part of me wants to give myself to him completely and part of me is holding back too much even wen we argue I add fire to it more than be calm I just couldn’t help myself from wanting to display my own power and boundary instead of playing d submissive one like my previous relationships. I feel like I’m giving myself to him too much quickly and I also feel like I’m holding back too much sometimes I feel sorry 4 treating him like that and sometimes I feel like I have to protect my boundaries also sometimes I feel like I have to be submissive and sometimes I feel like I have to be in my power too and not allow any man power over me

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    Michele ray
    Posted at 10:40h, 14 January Reply

    I really want my ex back

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    Annette Greta Nolen-Dunigans
    Posted at 10:25h, 14 January Reply

    It definitely does resonate with with me. So much going these past couple of years with him and I. I gave and gave and gave and he took and took and took. Both of our health were affected this last year. And that played a major role in what is happening with he and I. So much so that it was a wake up call for me I believe. I really thought he and I would be together until death do us part. But it didn’t turn out that way. I still love him with every part of my heart and soul. But we are in the process of getting divorced. So will he come back to me? And should I take him back after what he has put me through?

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    Allyson Luckner
    Posted at 09:18h, 14 January Reply

    Hi Deco.. this reading has brought a lot of clarity to my current situation. I’ve been together with my fiancé for 5 1/2 years and there has been a lot of severe issues going on to where we are ready to end this relationship. In fact, I am getting to move out in a week and a half and start all over again. We love each other, but we can’t be together, because we fight so much, but yet I feel there’s unfinished business between us because we love each other. And I think a lot of it has to do with me not being able to financially contribute as much as I like to because of my financial status, causing a lot of friction between us. Now I have to rethink my move out and away from him. All I wanted him to do was come to me, and suggest counseling together before we finish this for good. I just want to make sure that I’m making the right decision by not moving on. Your last reading had me thinking that I have to move on and now I’m stressed beyond belief with .. do I stay or do I go.? Hopefully you can shed more clarity for me on your next reading thank you so much Deco.

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    Posted at 09:15h, 14 January Reply

    Hi! Your reading reasonates very, very deeply with me! My question for next week is about how do you choose, how do you understand what are the things that you have to let go when you feel overwhelmed by all that is running in your life

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    Araceli Hilario Sanchez
    Posted at 09:09h, 14 January Reply

    First I want to thank you for my reading.
    As far as my reading it some what resonates with me.
    Specifically when you talked about ALWAYS been the one that is GIVING & GIVING & GIVING and him just TAKING & TAKING & TAKING. Also when you said that I need to be available to also make this relationship work. Cuz it seem that I had other things going on . And YES I DO…..my mother had a STROKE & my whole time(life) is consumed by her. Even before my mother had the stroke I was already investing time to help her & take care of her. So I know that also affected my marriage..

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    Joan Z
    Posted at 08:39h, 14 January Reply

    Absolutely resonated with me! We broke up in late 2020 and she went back to her home country. I’m living in Southeast Asia and she’s in East Asia, we are approximately 3110.17km apart. We lost contact for about a year, before she texted me suddenly again. And then we didn’t contact each other until another year. Last year, we finally communicated more often and we finally reunited physically when I flew over to celebrate her birthday with her. Some sparks flew but we still didn’t get back together. My inner voice kept telling me that we are twin flames and whatever we had gone through seems to prove so too. However, I know that there are still lots of work to be done and we have to complete our lessons separately before our union can happen. It’s just that sometimes I will have doubts and wonder if we are really twin flames (even though with the signs and synchronicity that the Universe is showing me). I also wonder if the Universe will really steer us back or create opportunities for us to get back together again.

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      Felilia Escoses Gariza
      Posted at 19:52h, 14 January Reply

      Hi Deco,

      Thank you for the wonderful words and the meanings and possibilities it entail. Social media is a platform open to public and as much as I want to talk and get insights I can’t make myself to do it. I value my privacy and I’d rather go silent than be misunderstood. It would be damaging for me and the person involved. It would harm his reputation considering he is a public figure with the highest regard from people all around the world. Whatever it is between the two of us if there is really something or nothing I am confident that it will be resolved soon. I trust that whatever the outcome it is for the benefit us both. We are both mature and professional. One thing I learned in this transformation is to love myself. I am not a teenager and no longer naive thanks to the personal growth that I have undergone and honestly speaking I have developed ever since. I am a pisces and all the qualities and attributes of being a piscean is still in me only I learned to control my weaknesses. The positive is still there and no amount of comments be it bad or good would change that. All I need with my future partner is the ability to love flaws and all and is willing to work things out to overcome differences. Afterall, humans will always be human. Life is not perfect. It’s up us to live a happy and meaningful life. I feel I’ve said too much. Again thank you so much. I like you. You’re subtle and honest and have an open heart.


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    Posted at 07:30h, 14 January Reply

    Definitely resonated with me! All of the readings lately have been pretty spot on. I met someone in the spring, but after a few months of something really special (soulmate quality), we both realized (or the Universe decided) that we both needed to work on our own stuff first (he was going through a bad divorce and was still pining for his ex a little even though she tore his heart apart from an affair, and I had to learn self-love and deal with childhood traumas apparently). We haven’t physically seen each other since August, but we chat every few weeks, and follow each other on social media. All the readings I get and the readings I do for myself say we are going to reunite soon because we’re both in a healthier place, and apparently we will heal each other , inspire each other, and help each other grow. That’s based on our composite birth charts as well.

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      Posted at 08:39h, 14 January Reply

      Hi Emily, I was taken aback after reading your post. I have gone through a very similar experience. It will be one year in just two days since we broke up. After having a long, traumatizing marriage this new person was a breath of fresh air for me. We just clicked in all areas and our time together was fun, full of laughter, and we could do everything or nothing at all and it just felt effortless. After about 3 months he ended things because he didn’t feel ready (he too had gone through a divorce with an ex who cheated and though he knows they aren’t a good fit he’s still processing the loss of the idea of a marriage and family) and he said he couldn’t give me what I deserved. We have kept in touch and even had a couple more conversations in which he says I’m perfect for him and that he doesn’t understand why he can’t get there emotionally to be with me. I truly feel we are that soulmate level connection but I struggle with trying to let him go. I have had readings done where I’m told he will come back but I also struggle with the logical side of “someone who loves you wouldn’t let you go and would do anything to make it work”. Anyway, I feel for you as the experience is the most beautiful of feelings (soulmate level love) and the most difficult (letting someone go that your truly fell for and care about). Take care and I hope you two are reunited :).

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    Charmaine Bonggay
    Posted at 07:16h, 14 January Reply

    Your reading it’s so resonate me… I would like to ask if he is my soul mate?

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    Posted at 03:26h, 14 January Reply

    How to I get into the flow of life when things just feel right and move along with excitement and a feeling of growth?

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      Posted at 15:33h, 17 January Reply

      Carissima Decò, mi è piaciuta molto la tua interpretazione e mi sono rispecchiata molto in ciò che hai scritto. È vero , ho con questa donna, (sono lesbica) un rapporto molto forte da molti anni, ma non siamo mai state insieme, nel vero senso della parola, il nostro è un rapporto di amicizia molto forte, karmico sicuramente. La amo da sempre ,lei però ha dei forti blocchi nell’accettare un eventuale relazione amorosa con me,.So per certo che è molto attratta da me fisicamente, e mi vuole anche molto bene. Sarebbe bellissimo poter vivere insieme, anche solo per un attimo, questo Amore Grande e intenso che ci unisce da tanto tempo. Forse in passato se avessi già vissuto questa relazione, sono certa che sarebbe stata, da parte mia, una relazione di forte dipendenza da lei, oggi però sono una donna adulta, mi conosco molto bene e non potrei più accettare una relazione di dipendenza. Lei è una donna molto indipendente, potremmo avere oggi, una relazione dove gli spazi reciproci sono ben definiti, senza negarci di stare bene nei momenti di intimità, ma mantenendo intatta ognuna la propria indentità, gli spazi personali. Spero leggerai il mio commento. Grazie di cuore ❤️

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