Your Key To Success | Deco | Weekly Reading | 4/14-4/20 - Cosmic Updates

Your Key To Success | Deco | Weekly Reading | 4/14-4/20

Have you been feeling out of sorts lately?

Deco says this week could bring an opportunity to reassess your needs.

She’s here to help you rewind and reset, so you can align with your path to success.

P.S. Are you in need of a reset? Leave a comment and let Deco know!


Hello my friends, it is Deco back with another video. I’m really excited for this one because I found a new spread, so I do have some notes next to me that are all about kind of, resetting your self-care routine. So, the things that we’ll kind of touch on are what you need to prioritize, how to better organize your time, how to be productive, but not overwhelmed. How to incorporate doing more of what you love, and then something new to try for self-care. And, if we need to pull some more cards just for clarity, we absolutely will. But first, let’s get to shuffling and then find out what it is that we need to know about resetting this self-care routine, okay? All right, let’s find out what it is, okay?

Lots of reversed cards, so very interesting. First of all, in our position looking at what we need to prioritize, we have the Five of Cups in reverse, which I think is a really important thing for people to prioritize, because the Five of Cups, when it’s upright, is saying that we’re really focusing on things that we’ve lost instead of what we still have. So, having that be our priority, especially in reverse, is saying that we’re working really hard on moving on from that instead of focusing on things that we should be leaving in the past, focusing more on what we do have and what we have an abundance of in our life instead of the things that we’ve left in the past and that we were hoping we could hold onto, right? Because, the Five of Cups is really disappointment and focusing on lack and focusing on loss and all of those things. And so, to prioritize healing from those things and moving on from those things and recognizing the abundance that you do have in your life is going to be so positive for you, okay? 

Now, how to better organize your time, we have the Ace of Wands in reverse, and this is telling me, it’s almost like this longing for something new. You’re always looking for something new, always looking for the next best thing, always looking for something else to engross yourself in or something new to start or something new to whatever, especially it being Aries season, it makes sense that we would be really focused on beginnings. But, this is kind of saying, maybe instead of focusing on beginnings, we need to take a step back and think about what we really want for the long term? Instead of jumping in, like The Fool, we need to be thinking about how to make a plan for ourselves so that we can have more success in those areas. So, I think as far as how to prioritize your time, guys, instead of just jumping into new activities without really thinking about it or starting new passion projects or whatever, I think what you need to be focused on is kind of slowing down and having a more firm plan in place. 

Okay, now we’ve got how to be productive but not overwhelmed. And, we have the Ten of Swords, which is in reverse, which immediately I would like a little bit more information there. Interesting, okay, so a card flew out, that doesn’t happen to me super often. So, the Ten of Swords, in reverse, my friends, being something about productivity when it’s in reverse, it means that there was something that ended in kind of a dramatic way. There was something that is definitely closed in your life. The Ten of Swords is not something that we can come back from, and when it’s in reverse, it just means that that was a really overwhelming circumstance that you were in.

Now, your clarifier card is the Eight of Wands, and the Eight of Wands is about focusing on the future, focusing on your long-term goals and where you need to be. So, I think what we need to do is, again, instead of focusing on things that are past, things that we’re longing for or wish had ended in a different way or wish had ended with better closure or whatever, it’s like now we need to start focusing on the future. Yes, there are things that we want to do, but I think we need to take a little step back and instead of jumping in head first, making some plans thinking, what are my long-term goals? Where do I want to be and how do I laser focus in on those to make sure that they happen? I think we need to start leaving those overwhelming things from the past in the past and thinking about new beginnings and how we reach our long-term goals now.

Okay, now the next card we’re looking at is how to incorporate doing more of what you love. And, we have the Nine of Swords in reverse, another card that I’m like, interesting, a really, really interesting one. How to do more of what you love. Well, first of all, you need to get rid of worry. Get rid of worrying about what other people think of you, what other people might have to say about you, prioritizing yourself. Because, the Nine of Swords is about a bad mental space, really bad mental space where you’re creating things out of nothing just based on your own psyche and the things that you worry about naturally. But, when it’s in reverse, it’s like we need to start to eliminate those worries. We need to start thinking about, “Okay, how do we do these things without getting in our head and convincing ourselves that, oh, we don’t need to be doing those things.” Or, “I shouldn’t be spending my money in that way. I shouldn’t be spending my time in that way instead of with these people.” But, I think it’s really important that we try to get rid of those feelings of, not inadequacy, but you’re not worthy of spending your time or your money or your resources on yourself, and I think that you need to do that, right? Don’t worry about things that don’t matter, get rid of that worry, in fact. And, I think that we’ll have a lot of positivity. 

Okay, lemme pull one more card just for clarity for that one, Three of Wands, new opportunities, my friends. If we’re thinking about doing more of what we love, look for those opportunities. What skills do you already have? What things are you already passionate about that you’ve been putting on the back burner? There are endless opportunities. You’ve done so much work to get where you are right now. How do you take those and start thinking about what comes next for you and what you can then invest yourself in? You have so many opportunities, you just have to make some choices, okay? 

Now, last card we’re going to look at is something new to try for Self-care. And guys, we have the Seven of Swords and people have skewed perceptions on the Seven of Swords. Some people see it as deceptive. Some people see it as someone who’s being shady or sneaky, but I really think I look at the Seven of Swords, especially in a spot like that, where we’re looking at something new to try. It’s not deceiving people, not lying to people, but being unabashedly yourself and doing things regardless of what other people think. Even if it means that you’re doing it kind of on your own, right? It’s like you want to do the things that you want to do for you and other people might not understand. Everybody has a pastime and some people’s are a little bit different, and that’s okay. And maybe, you have people in your life that don’t understand why you’re into that thing. I mean, if you’re here getting these Tarot Readings and you’re interested in finding out all of these things spiritual, you might come from a background that is not supportive of that. That alone might be something that feels isolating a little bit. Not to say that you should feel isolated, but I do think that you should be investing in yourself and your interests and the things that make sense for you, if that makes sense. 

Okay, now I do want to pull just one more Clarifier card. What else do we need to know about this very individual thing? The Lovers, interesting, there are choices, but really when I see The Lovers, I think of it following the Heirophant. So, where the Heirophant is a part of an institution, The Lovers are on their own. They’re making choices for themselves. They’re connecting with people outside of that larger group that they’ve been a part of, that puzzle that they fit into so nicely. They’re trying to make their own world, their own path, their own goals and dreams and everything. So, I think what we need to be thinking of right now as far as what you’re doing for self-care, it needs to be yours. It needs to be something for you, maybe with someone that you love, the Lovers is there for a reason, but more than likely a path that is uniquely yours, a pastime that is uniquely yours, a passion that is uniquely yours, and you need to invest in yourself. Okay, if there’s anything I’m seeing here, it’s like take your time to know what your goals are and then pursue them, right? I think you’ve got this. I think there’s a lot to look forward to, and I look forward to seeing your comments on this one so that I can hear how this resonates for you and what you guys are looking to invest in yourself doing, okay? All right, best of luck, I’ll see you soon.

Deco Lo
Deco Lo

Deco is an intuitive tarot reader whose mission is to give guidance to those who need it. She has a passion for making connections with those she reads for and loves to teach others about tarot. Deco loves learning and is always looking to deepen her understanding of the tarot and its spiritual connections.

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    Christopher Martinez
    Posted at 19:47h, 16 April Reply

    Yes thank you .If that’s what I need to do then so be it .I want a fullfiled life and to be happy .

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    Kimberly B.
    Posted at 12:32h, 15 April Reply


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    Posted at 00:11h, 15 April Reply

    Thank you
    I definitely need to find something that I enjoy and not to please others . Looking forward for the week ❤️

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    LaShon Johnson
    Posted at 20:16h, 14 April Reply

    Thank you Deco, your reading is definitely giving me some clarity into how I will embrace the future, and prioritize Me! Sometimes you know where your going, but you need a little spritual guidance to get there. The cards are on point. ✌🏽

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    Ethel Marie Daniel
    Posted at 20:00h, 14 April Reply

    You hit everything right on the head for me. I am thinking of a new career and moving out of state. I have left a lot in the past trying to move forward and leave it all in the past including my father

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    Posted at 19:47h, 14 April Reply

    YES! I spent the last month interviewing with a company (telephone calls, zoom, on-site meetings, going on tours) so excited. I’ve been unemployed since Sept 2023 BTW, and Thursday I received a call from their HR dept advising they changed directions and the position was no longer available-it was canceled. They are reposting it as an entry level. Full speed to abrupt END! Dead Stop! Picking myself back up and looking forward to the new opportunity! 😊 BRING IT ON!

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    Arndria Seymour
    Posted at 19:24h, 14 April Reply

    Thank you Deco, just what I need to hear this week. I always look forward to watching your weekly reading. God Bless!

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      Deco Lo
      Posted at 15:48h, 16 April Reply

      Thanks Arndria!

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    William Sloan
    Posted at 19:03h, 14 April Reply

    its like a prison of sorts made of shadows, i can only move so much at a time to gain a lil light and then brought back again, ive been told im a old yet lost soul’

    Deco eminds me of some one just wish I had clue somewhere in my brain

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    Randy Lynn Bergman
    Posted at 18:29h, 14 April Reply

    The idea’s and problem solving comes easy for me. And you hit the issue of what I should do is think about how I want to use my abilities. But, I can’t decide on what I really want to do because, for years I been just making ends meet and what I truly want to do is help people that are less fortunate than i.And I am always giving so I’ll never be able to really make enough to truly help the way I know I could

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      Deco Lo
      Posted at 15:49h, 16 April Reply

      It’s all about knowing what resources you have available to you. Don’t give more than you should. Know that you are important and are making a difference regardless

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    Loretta Howard
    Posted at 18:13h, 14 April Reply

    On point impressive

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    Posted at 17:55h, 14 April Reply

    What if you have no passions and feel like there’s nothing for you. I’ve never been ambitious or had any dreams for my life. I feel like I’m just floating around waiting for this to be over. I don’t feel like I’m really here. I’m an observer of others void of hope or joy Just going through the motions so the few people in my life think I’m a person. Sorry if this is so negative but it’s been my reality for a long time now. I don’t know how to change it. I keep looking for answers but everything confirms that I am nothing.

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      Deco Lo
      Posted at 15:50h, 16 April Reply

      My friend, I would recommend taking action to try to change that narrative in your life! Floating along is not fulfilling, I agree. Sometimes you have to take risks to see what sparks joy in you.

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    Tyrone Mitchell Jr
    Posted at 17:49h, 14 April Reply

    Thank you so much Deco, I needed the clarification. I’m on my on spiritual journey and so much information comes to me that was hard to understand all at once. keep up the good work. God bless you.

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    Scott Christopher DeLisa
    Posted at 17:22h, 14 April Reply

    Thanks Deco,

    Have a nice Sunday.

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    Posted at 13:20h, 14 April Reply

    I have found a house that I would really like to buy, but my parents live with me. I feel stuck and like my life is been put on hold

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    Michele Prange
    Posted at 09:59h, 14 April Reply

    This reading feels like it was my personal reading. I lost my husband 8 months ago in a dramatic way. We had been together for 53 years (dating to marriage).
    I have been doing my best to work through everything and worry if what I have been doing is okay with our kids, mostly. I’m was exhausted with trying to find a balance between their expectations and mine. People have been there for me, showing support and love. Now that I have a better handle on the day -in day-out things, I have been wondering who I am or will be without him. Like you said, being me without worrying about what others think.
    Every card seemed to confirm that the loss need not direct what I do for myself but confirm that I am strong enough to focus on what I want and need to do for myself.
    I find your insight hopeful and your perspective liberating.
    Thank you,

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      Deco Lo
      Posted at 15:52h, 16 April Reply

      When we lose someone there is no ‘going back to normal’, instead you have to find a new normal. It’s difficult and emotional but it’s worth it to focus on the future and new opportunities. Good luck in this new chapter

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    William Harrison Phillips
    Posted at 08:50h, 14 April Reply

    Very close to what I got going except I stopped caring what people think long ago and people make up so much stuff about me….. I smile and say I sure did on most of what I hear and keep doing whatever I’m doing, I got sick and almost died a few years ago and been working on a comeback except all my tools, material, equipment, and everything were stolen while I was in and out of comas, no one even took me to the hospital when I got where i could drive again within 2 weeks all 6 of my vehicles engines locked up, it’s been a start from the the flame straight to the ashes and the embers didn’t even get cold before I was having to raise up and my cycle is so off and nothing is the same as it was and ive died several different times before and things were not so different but the 3 that aproched me told me almost exactly what my next 8 years of hell was going to be and I would be extremely blessed and lucky the majority was betting against me…… if was able to survive then first year so far they we’re very precise on everything, Im very lucky to survive everything and I thank my Angels and demons for stop fighting and working together finally it took all of them to keep me here, my first time watching and you did a great job breaking everything down, thank you

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    Lorna Stoney
    Posted at 08:14h, 14 April Reply

    I do at times worry what people think. I have my own thing I do but I am trying to stop copying others like I use to in the past. Without feeling guilty but still feeling guilty a little. I feel to some point my situations will bring growth and healing. Understanding my past so I can learn from it and the whys. 🦂🦂🦂❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🇨🇦☀️🌟

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    Rolf Dieter Stucki
    Posted at 07:55h, 14 April Reply

    Kein Kommentar!!

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    Heidi khorooshi
    Posted at 07:34h, 14 April Reply

    Spot on for me 🙏🙏🥰. Thanks 🌷🌷

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    Diane Thielman
    Posted at 06:28h, 14 April Reply

    Another awesome reading!

    Thank you

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    Ana maria barbulescu
    Posted at 06:17h, 14 April Reply


    Why this message was for me?

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      Posted at 13:18h, 14 April Reply

      Have found a new home I want, but my parents live with me. Feel like I am stuck and cannot move on with my life

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