Has someone been expecting too much from you?

Deco says this week may bring some sudden realizations about a close relationship.

She’s here to help you see the truth in this connection, so you can balance the scales and receive the support you deserve.

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TRANSCRIPT:

Hello my friends, it is Deco back again for a Weekly Love Tarot Reading. Poppy is here because she is always here, let’s be honest, unless I lock her out, which I’ve been doing lately. But guys, okay, we are here to talk about this coming week. Again, we’re right in the middle of this transition. Depending on where you are in the world, it’s either spring or fall or entering that season, which I feel like spring and fall, for me at least, feel like transitional seasons where then we move into the more polar opposites of winter and summer where we are seeing the very coldest weather and the very warmest weather, where fall and spring kind of fall somewhere in the middle. And, I think within that, we have this transition into a new Zodiac calendar, like I talked about last week, where we’re entering Aries, we’re entering this new beginning. And so, I think we need to recognize it as that and think about how we can claim this transition for ourselves and know that it’s going to be a positive thing moving forward. So, let’s shuffle these cards and see what you guys need to know for this coming week, for this new season that we’re entering in the middle of this week. And, just let’s get excited. What do we need to look forward to? What challenges might we face? What can we expect? 

Let’s see, interesting, so right away, guys, we have two fives. So, when I see two of a number, I look at the numerology there, five and five is ten. We have The Wheel of Fortune hiding in this, which is all about a positive mindset. I think that this positive mindset, given that the Five of Swords and the Five of Cups, both being in reverse here, are kind of shoving you into that chapter where you are claiming that positive mindset, right? The Five of Swords in reverse is when you’re starting to see iffy people. I feel like that’s been a really common card lately. Five of Swords has been popping up all over the place, and even specifically the Five of Swords in reverse has been popping up a lot, which is telling me that people are seeing people for who they are. It’s like you woke up and you realize, oh, there are these people that I’ve had in my life for a long time who just aren’t treating me very well. 

And then, we’ve got the FIve of Cups in reverse where you’re realizing, “You know what? Maybe I was focusing too much on those relationships. Maybe I realized that those relationships that I thought were so important and that I thought I needed to grieve and focus on are really not ones that were giving any value to my life. They weren’t adding anything to my life.”

And, what I’m seeing, especially because we’ve also got this Four of Wands here, is that there’s an opportunity to kind of return to who you were. I feel like these are newer people in your life that you allowed in, that you were giving a chance, and that you realized in the long run that they were just taking advantage of you and that they weren’t treating you how you deserve to be treated. And, I think that there’s people that have been in your life for a little bit longer that you might need to allow back in, whether that’s friends or family or maybe a significant other, whatever. But what it is, is like there’s people who know you who aren’t going to treat you the way that these other people did. And, I think you need to return to that a little bit. 

Now, let’s see what else we need to know. There’s always more to know. What else do we need to pay attention to? So guys, this is a lot about relationships, but not just romantic relationships, this is about friendships. The Three of Cups is in reverse here, so this is telling me that people really close to you, or that were really close to you, or the people that maybe were not treating you the nicest, you realize that these relationships were not necessarily good ones. 

And, what I’m seeing with the Ten of Cups and the Six of Pentacles is that what you need to focus on, again, is returning home and focusing on those people who have got you, who love you, who want you to do well, and who are going to support you regardless of what you’re going through, who don’t have transactional relationships, where you feel like you owe them something or that they owe you something. It’s just like an understanding that part of a relationship is that you support each other and sometimes that costs money, and that doesn’t mean that you owe them. It just means that eventually you’re going to help them out, too. It’s just an understanding in relationships where there’s unconditional love there. And, I think it’s important to recognize that balance so that you don’t get sucked drier, or vice versa. And, I think that that’s what we need to focus on, again, are those relationships that are a little bit more well balanced. I don’t know how else to describe it. There are just some relationships that feel like the scale is tipped perpetually in one direction, and it’s exhausting to have those relationships where you feel like they need all the attention, all the time, all the money, all the whatever, and sometimes we just have to say, “You know what? I don’t need that in my life anymore. I am not the person for them, for that particular circumstance.” And, that’s okay to set that boundary. 

Now, let’s pull an Oracle, The Golden Children, Inner Child, Tenderness, Innocence, Rare Gifts. So, this particular Oracle card, my friends, when we’re looking at this overall message is kind of saying that maybe some of these people you allowed into your life, because I say this a lot, but we’re attracted to our trauma. So, let’s say you’ve gone through something and even though it was painful, there’s something about it that draws you in to people that treat you in a similar way. Often that stems from parental figures or relationships that we had with people when we were very young. We have these things that happened when we were small or when we were impressionable or whatever, and then they hang on, those understandings of the world, the world or those feelings of inadequacy or those feelings of attachment, you feel like you need to hold onto things. Those are all things that stem from things that happen when we’re very little and our brains are still developing. 

And so, the Golden Children is kind of saying to give yourself a break. Recognize that you may need to forgive yourself and process some things internally to recognize that there are people that you’re allowing in your life that really are not needing to be there, that aren’t going to treat you well, that are just reminiscent of things you’ve been through already. And, you don’t have to give those people your time or your energy or anything like that. In fact, it’s probably better for you to say, “You know what? I need to focus on myself and make sure that I’m good, so that I know that the people that I’m allowing in my life are good for me.” And not, again, sucking you dry, okay? 

So, my friends, I think the big message here is to stand up for yourself. And, I think you already are. I think you recognize that there are people in your life that aren’t treating you well, but just recognize that you have so many people on your team. You have so many people to support you through this fresh start, specifically in those friendship types of relationships. And, I think as long as you can call on those people that you’re going to have a lot of happiness and a lot to look forward to. But, just be kind to yourself, okay? Give yourself time for rest. Give yourself time to heal that inner child and see what happens. I think, again, there’s a lot to do this week. There’s this fresh start entering Aries season. I think you need to claim it, okay? Best of luck.